Search Results: seeking a guy

Advice please-interpreting this?

Hi everyone I'm hoping to get some outside perspective on a situation with a guy I used to work with, as I feel I might be overthinking things. There's been a spark between us, but I'm unsure if it's mutual. Here are some...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Hi everyone I'm hoping to get some outside perspective on a situation with a guy I used to work with, as I feel I might be overthinking things. There's been a spark between us, but I'm

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Guy's Behavior

Does it look suspicious?

There’s a guy I’ve been talking to on Facebook, since another guy pursued me everywhere, in person and online, including here for two years, trying to get me to be his girlfriend, then gave up. They look similar, but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

How to stop seeking a woman?

So, this isn't in regards to any specific woman, but multiple bad experiences with women over and over that led to this decision. I just don't want to be bothered with women anymore, period. Yes, I know not all women are...

blissinanarchy1

Xper 7 Age: 26

Guy's Behavior

Is there something wrong?

A guy looked me up on a dating site with a teddy bear with a heart tie and he had a slogan saying ‘Looking for you.’ I messaged him. 5 days later, he gave me his number, said he lives near me and he’s interested in me,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

My guy friend told my girl friend that im giving him signals but when she asked what signals he said I don't know. what is going on?

i know that for sure im not giving any signals and why would he tell my friend knowing that she will tell me? attention seeking?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

He claims it was all joke, but is he hiding something?

I’ve been talking to this guy roughly two months, and he all of a sudden claims our flirting, him referring to me as his “person,” and us hanging out was purely platonic. Our text conversations were constantly...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

How do you deal with men seeking nervous around you?

Wow I’m not that used to this. Not very experienced so this is kinda new to me. But lately guys seem nervous around me at work when they talk to me it’s pretty strange ! Im not a boss bitch type lol this is just weird to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Should I be hard to get after making out with my crush and if I should be hard to get how can I be hard to get?

So I’ve had a crush on this guy for like two months now. But I don't know if he knew that already bc like a month ago his friend found out that I liked him. And I don't know if he told him or not but then his friends kept...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Should I be hard to get after making out with my crush and if so how can I be hard to get?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

How many times as day do girls get approached by guys seeking to start a relationship?

Guys NEVER are approached by a woman in their whole lifetime basically. But how often do women tend to be approached because I would think it's daily?

hardboiledink

Xper 5 Age: 35

Guys NEVER are approached by a woman in their whole lifetime basically. But how often do women tend to be approached because I would think it's daily?

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Dating

Was this my last chance to find a woman without a romantic past?

I am seeking a woman that has never had a boyfriend or romantic bond with a guy before, especially from her youth. I met this 25 year old woman through a Christian dating app that had never had a boyfriend. She was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I am seeking a woman that has never had a boyfriend or romantic bond with a guy before, especially from her youth. I met this 25 year old woman through a Christian dating app that had

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Dating

Why do I fall in love/get attached so fast?

I constantly find myself getting attached quickly to people I'm interested in, and it's a pattern I've noticed throughout my life. I've never not had feelings for someone I've liked, and when I don't receive the attention...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Society & Politics

Do you believe there are certain habits that increase your chances of being victimized by violent crime?

I've been looking for patterns in perpetrators for several years through stories I learn about on the news or on YouTube and some common habits I see that increase the likelihood of early death are - cheating - wasteful...

jennifer_bloom

Master Age: 41

Dating

I'm so tired of men?

I've been single 12 years, and I met a guy who I assumed we were friends. He started contacting me as friends, which was fine. ( I met him out my circle on tiktok ). I respected the fact that he doesn't do long-distance...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

What makes girlfriend's pass on looks to other guys knowing her S. O is absent or would just ignore. What's really going on in her mind?

What it is like for a girl to live in such relationship when she does all such things and continueto promote herself as divine? What to do to end such nasty tension things, should one confront or just end it? In a...

he-takes-a-part

Xper 6 Age: 30

Guy's Behavior

Why is he asking me again if I'll sleep at his house when I already said yes and we talked about it in detail?

Met this guy on a dating site. We said I'll drive to a concert there and he was the one who asked me if I have a place to stay and if I want to sleep at his house. I said yes. We basically talked about some things in...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why do guys always pay so much attention to me when I'm not seeking attention?

Every time I don't want any attention from guys, they start paying attention to me... But now, I need to be alone. How should I explain myself?

tischro

Xper 5 Age: 44

Flirting

Now a days, if you were interested in someone, would you ask for their number or a social media handle first?

This goes for both meeting someone in person AND/OR online. Even though I likely wouldn’t give my number so soon, I find it more attractive when a guy asks for my number. All I have is discord, so asking for any other...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

This goes for both meeting someone in person AND/OR online. Even though I likely wouldn’t give my number so soon, I find it more attractive when a guy asks for my number. All I have

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Violation of basic social etiquette?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Hi everyone, I would like to share what I have experienced in Europe to spread some awareness, even though some of u guys may have already experienced this. I went to the UK two months

Hi everyone, I would like to share what I have experienced in Europe to spread some awareness, even though some of u guys may have already experienced this. I went to the UK two months back for my month long university overseas immersion program. After that I met with my parents to embark on our extended European tour by joining a tour group. One day on a road trip from France, our bus stopped over at a rest and relax stop. What caught my attention was the long queue forming outside of the ladies, with many women eagerly waiting for their turn to use the toilet. However, as I went to the gents, I saw a middle aged lady used my toilet and I presumed she did not ask the men in the toilet for permission to use, since I did not hear her ask. I understand she is urgent but I would appreciate if she respects basic social etiquette to at least ask. Moreover the toilet is designated for males not her, and it’s only polite to ask. This applies for men as well, if their toilets are full, they should ask the ladies before using their toilet. But that is not the case. At a McDonald’s restaurant in Germany, I saw an old women waiting outside the gents but left shortly after. I brushed it off thinking she could have queued at the wrong toilet. However as I entered there is a single occupied cubicle and I waited for my turn, a person hesitated to came out but still came out later. It was later known to be a young lady who just came out like no one’s business. I am also sure that the ladies isn’t full. At Palace of Versailles in Paris, France, the same situation happened where at least 50 ladies queued to use the toilet. However, a small handful still did the shameless act of barging into our toilet without seeking permission, presumably some of those men still peeing at the urinals at that moment. This is a clear violation of privacy and a breach of social etiquette. It seems like those women do not have basic courtesy taught to them by their parents since young and it irks me.

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Dating

What happened to that saying "never give up"?

I am 29 and never had a real girlfriend. I am seeking a woman who has never had a boyfriend or any romantic bond with a guy. I want us to be each other's first real relationship. I met this girl at work and started to...

Anonymous

(30-35)