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Search Results: settling
What is something you hate about your own race, or ethnicity, that you wish would stop happening?
As a African American, The number one thing or trend I hate about my own race is how some black people tend to hate and disrespect normal black women or men for just not being like them, or not being "black enough". Some...
Anonymous
(18-24) Girls, do you not like responsible type of guys?
My family was relatively poor. I had to work a lot alongside studies from a very early age. I had to take care of my brother, do a lot of housework, and learn all things that are traditionally considered for girls... like...
Anonymous
(30-35) How does love make you feel?
I used to want love more then anything I wanted nothing more yo find that special lady I’d spend the rest of my life with. Despite that when it comes to dating it’s been nothing but struggles and disappointment for me,...
MLGbreezy
Yoda Age: 27 What does 'settling' actually mean?
I've been thinking about this and would like to have other opinions. I don't necessarily believe there's a right or wrong answer but I think it would be nice to see if there's a certain trend. In relationships, what does...
Crazyced
Explorer Age: 39 Why would a guy initiate contact by adding you on SnapChat and then leave your message on delivered for over a day? Should I call him out or leave it?
A guy added me on SnapChat (has my number) a week after moving back home to the US. I didn’t add him as I figured he wouldn’t want to keep in contact but since he initiated I could be wrong. When he added me, I accepted...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do you feel the same?
I’m only gonna date and marry a 10/10 looking girl otherwise I’ll stay single. I’m not settling for shit. I’m too good to waste it on less. I deserve the best
Anonymous
(25-29) How do you tell someone you're no longer interested without hurting them?
For 3/4 years i had a friends with benefits with a international footballer. When he was in the uk we would hook up in his hotel and go and do things together. So it's was actually a friendship. When he would be back...
lilyanony1
Yoda Age: 35 How do I get my boyfriend to open up more emotionally so that I also feel more secure?
We've been in a relationship for about 6 months and I adore him. He is loyal, honest, and for the first time, I don't feel like I am settling. We have events planned in the future and he talks about how I make him feel...
Loveleigh
Xper 6 Age: 33 How do you see yourself 20 years into the future?
(I could already imagine some of your responses, if I see the response I'm thinking of I'll send/give you a medal🏅 😂). Try to really visualize what you would be doing or accomplishing, settling down is also a valid...
Jay-_-
Xper 7 Age: 20 Do you agree there is a time for certain things and age does matters?
For instance at nearly 37 years old, I'm not going to be talking about the latest man I have a crush on as if I were some HS teen. I'm not interested in the ''falling in love'' stage either nor exchanging ''I love you''...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is “settling” a bad thing?
Definition-wise, it could be either good or bad. We all “settle” when we decide on something. You settle on a Hawaiian pizza because it’s the best. Or “settlement” legally means a compromise both parties probably are...
OddBeMe
Master Age: 42 
Can a 6-7/10 black woman secure a good loyal 8/10 man?
I always hear block women are the least attractive race and I just don’t get it. I know so many beautiful black women and women in media. I know people have some ghetto perception of black women but that simply isn’t true...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is it wise to convert to Odiya from Mumbaikar and what would a man who is a non Mumbaikar do if he truly loves the Mumbaikar girl?
Is it ok for me ( born and bought up in Mumbai - school college and job in Mumbai too) to marry someone who is not from Mumbai ( he is from Odisha) and he wants to settle in Odisha in the long term future. So I will have...
sadstrawberry
Xper 5 Age: 29 What are your feelings with the prospect of becoming grandparents soon? How would you feel to become a grandparent for those younger?
A lot of the older Xers and Zers will be turning into grandparents (and some are grandparents) soon! I'm just curious to know how you guys feel. I'm still pretty young but I can envision settling down and having kids in a...
Girl who "friendzoned" me and spent a year ignoring me is still acting mad around me even though I now have a girlfriend?
To provide context... there was a girl who sent me mixed signals and then friendzoned me before 'burning" the bridge saying we can't be friends because she thinks I lied when I said I thought her mom liked me when she...
namelesswanderer
Xper 2 Age: 40 
redskulldangerzone64
Xper 6 Age: 30 Why do I have such a hard time settling down in life?
Since 2020 I've lived in 3 cities, within 2 different states. I can't seem to stay at a job longer then 18 months. I have no degree. I've been in mostly toxic work environments, not all but most. I seem to have a flight...
Anonymous
(36-45) 29F & don’t think I’ll ever be in a relationship with a man at this point, am I the issue?
The last time I “dated” someone I was 23, we were in a STR for about 3 months & it ended because to me it felt like settling. Since then, I’ve met up with men from dating apps on and off throughout the years. Maybe 1-3...
Anonymous
(30-35) 29F & don’t think I’ll ever be in a relationship with a man, am I the issue?
The last time I “dated” someone I was 23, we were in a STR for about 3 months & it ended because to me it felt like settling. Since then, I’ve met up with men from dating apps on and off throughout the years. Maybe 1-3...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, if aliens were settling on Earth would you date one of their women?
If she looked like this could you get into her? I mean maybe if she was a nice girl, in spite of having teeth on her vagina.
Daniela1982
Master Age: 38 