Girl's Behavior 
Guy's Behavior 
Flirting 
Dating 
Relationships 
Fashion & Beauty 
Health & Fitness 
Marriage & Weddings 
Shopping & Gifts 
Technology & Internet 
Break Up & Divorce 
Education & Career 
Entertainment & Arts 
Family & Friends 
Food & Beverage 
Hobbies & Leisure 
Other 
Religion & Spirituality 
Society & Politics 
Sports 
Travel 
Trending & News 
Search Results: turn offs for a guy
Girls, Ladies, question about matching with the friend or acquaintance of an ex?
I have found myself in a situation where within 24 hours of creating a dating profile, I matched with this beautiful girl. Turns out that she dated the close friend of my younger sister. I happened to know him because I...
Lachito12
Xper 1 Age: 39 Why does my ex–best friend, who bullied me and took what she wanted, still talk about me and wants to prove she's superior after years?
My ex–best friend secretly got together with the boy I liked back in school. Her behaviour was strange she had lost weight and seemed eager for me to notice, she wanted to know if I was struggling at university, and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Would you lose all respect for a man who gives into daily flirting with a taken woman?
I'm talking to this guy, and the subject of how people cheat came up. He told me that there has been a couple times where a thirsty girl who had a boyfriend, would go after him, and guve her number to him. He said that he...
Anonymous
(30-35) Where were you when Elvis died?
If you are old enough can you recall? I remember. I was in my dad's pickup coming home from the Dairy Queen. I had turned 15 just 6 days before but I'd been allowed to drive to stores and such for about a year. The DJ...
Dongie
Guru Age: 63 Is this guy in the pink shirt the poster child for stupid?
https://youtu.be/z4Nu6dYR0Ps?si=kGZt7iS1JtjRXLXh As you know, the Biden cultists around the world are furious that Trump wants to reduce the murder rates in DC. The cultists will admit that the murder rate is off the...
kavakava
Xper 1 Age: 30 Have you ever met someone who's autistic and doesn't know?
Years ago, my brother told me I was autistic. I didn’t know what it meant, so I blew it off as another smart ass thing that he said to be crass. We don't have a good relationship, so I refuse to ask him about. Knowing...
Anonymous
(18-24) The Looming Population Collapse: Feminism, MGTOW, Tang Ping, and Economic Pressures Driving a Global Crisis
Hey everyone, I’m back to build on my previous threads critiquing feminism’s impact on modern dating, where I argued it’s turned relationships into a battlefield. Women, empowered by feminist ideals, chase...
DexWest
Xper 7 Age: 33 Do I Fight for Our Friendship or Let Go?(guy best friend /girl best friend just graduated high school)?
I’ve had my guy best friend friend, Trevor, for about three years. We shared deep conversations and personal struggles. Since I didn’t have a phone and couldn’t go out much because of my overprotective mom, our friendship...
mollysos
Xper 3 Age: 18 Should a girl be flirty or more passive when pursuing a guy?
To get a guys attention: is it better to be openly flirty and more assertive about your feelings, or better to sit back and let him pull the moves? Is one a turn off over the other?
Hghhhhhhhhhh
Xper 4 Age: 30 Guys, It's okay for a girl to have her social media empty?
I don't really use social media, I have Instagram and I watch reels, and talk to my few friends, sure, but I don't post anything, not even on story, my account just got my profile pic, it's private and I have very few...
Anonymous
(18-24) I’m 15 and he’s going to college, and we made a deal to wait 3 years for each other. Am I making a mistake?
Hi, I really need honest advice. No sugarcoating—just tell me the truth. I’m a 15-year-old girl going into my sophomore year of high school. I’ve been talking to a guy who just graduated and is about to start college in...
iluvunme
Xper 1 Age: 16 Does a girl having been with a mixed race guy a turn off?
hiya, for context I am 20 year old white girl. I have only slept with 2 guys in my life. I wouldn’t say I have much of a physical type in guys, just if your good looking your good looking, but I think dating wise I...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why did he unblock me?
So me and this guy have been dating and he got upset about me joking that he has a lot of baby moms and we got off the phone, he tried calling me back and the call failed twice and before I could send him a message online...
Anonymous
(30-35) How shallow is a woman who talks about all the work she has or will have done?
I was at the neighborhood pool and this woman kept yapping about all sorts of cringe things. Her mother barely said a word and mostly listened. I think she said she was 40 or was about to turn 40. She was talking about...
Anonymous
(36-45) How to stop being mean/ evil to every man I talk to due to past hurt?
I was hurt in the past by a couple guys but the last one hurt the most… it feels overwhelming talking to men because I feel scared of them hurting me so being mean is my coping mechanism but I don’t know when to turn it off
Anonymous
(25-29) Why would this girl lie about not “talking to” the guy I used to talk to… just to find out they’re getting divorced?
I recently found out that a Nigerian guy I used to talk to was actually married the whole time. I saw online that he’s now filing for divorce, and it turns out it’s from the same woman I had previously come across—she...
Anonymous
(25-29) What's one disturbing thing you found out about someone you know?
This guy that was around my age when I was in high school used to walk me home from school. I didn't like him or anything like that and I honestly found him quite annoying, turned out to be a murderer years later. He...
Is this guy just playing me?
We started off as friends, turned into friends with benefits. I admitted to having feelings and loving him. I thought for sure he'd shut that down and tell me that he doesn't feel the same and that we shouldn't see each...
Anonymous
(36-45) He ghosted me, went back to his toxic ex, and nearly 2 years later I still feel stuck. How do I move on?
I’m 19F, about to start my second year of college, but I’ve been emotionally stuck since high school. In junior year, a guy I liked was too shy to ask for my number, so he got it through a friend. We clicked quickly, but...
EllieT05
Xper 1 Age: 20 