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Search Results: get him to ask me out
Do you make use of your free will?
I was at a pizzeria and I'm looking at the menu, they have calzones but the spinach and cheese one has no meat... So I'm like hey are these calzones made to order? Yes What do you think about putting sausage in there? The...
Is this security guy flirting with me or just being friendly at work?
So I like this guy and he works in the same facility I do but he’s more police/security and every time I go through the gate I have to show my ID if he’s there hell always give me a wink and a smile. I don't know if this...
MaeMay
Xper 1 Age: 41 Why do people stay in situationships instead of defining the relationship?
I don’t mean to sound condescending, but I don’t understand how people get into these types of relationships for several months or even years. Why don’t people ask what their other person’s intentions are upfront and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is my 54M coworker actually asking me (32F) out on a date?
Did my 54M coworker ask me (32F) out? He also hid his date from me. What is this? He has always been flirty with me for more than a year, sometimes made worrisome jokes such as he is in love with me but he has never made...
useful_mind
Xper 1 Age: 31 Why does everyone seem more attractive in this new country than me?
A single guy in a new country, I noticed everything one I see over here is much more attractive then my own country's Especially girls. It's difficult to actually approach someone who is hell of more attractive and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do girls act interested then suddenly date someone else instead of me?
Hello i am 20 years old and i never had a girlfriend!!! I don't easily fall for someone and i could probably count girls i really liked on finger The problem is that i follow same exact patern and it happened 3 times in...
Anonymous
(25-29) First meeting in person was awful. Why?
i (22F) study in a capital city in my country second year now, university is very hard for me, i feel very lonely and for the last year I've been extremely depressed. there's a guy (22M), he's gay so its nothing romantic,...
baddiska
Xper 4 Age: 22 Why do coworkers suddenly avoid me and go quiet when I’m around?
I’m autistic and I work in an autism school. I’ve been working there since October of last year and I am isolated. At first people were nice and enjoyed talking to me but after a while they have changed. They look at me...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why would a woman chase me to talk but avoid exchanging numbers?
So basically I was at a campfire with my church group that some guy was hosting and when I had to leave, the girl that had to move her car behind me literally ran over to me as I was getting in my vehicle and said she was...
WhiteBoyChill
Yoda Age: 25 He hasn’t opened my message in a day—does that mean he’s not interested?
It is someone from here, we have been talking for a while. We connected a lot. He asked to move to social media. We added each other. It is the first time we are able to see each other's pics and all. I messaged him on...
Anonymous
(30-35) Have you ever thought someone was desperate for you but it turned out they were just treating you like everyone else?
This has probably happened to me multiple times but this post is inspired by my friend explaining "humbling" texts to me. Which she says are when desperate guys try to knock you down a peg after being "made" to put in a...
Did I lead her on or ignore red flags, and should I have cut her off earlier?
So here I was goofing out with a girl. She always wanted to discuss love but I wasn't the man of her dream. I got too close to her, so much so I loved holding her hand and she did that too. She was my flatmate tbh....
Anonymous
(25-29) Is a 10 year age gap in dating really too much at 23 and 33?
This is kind of a curious question on my end. I know what I think of it, but I wanted to get some more opinions on the topic. There's this lady that shops at my store who I believe is not only one of the nicest customers...
tstarr17
Xper 6 Age: 33 Was I actually being difficult with this impatient drive‑thru customer?
I work drive through at mcdonalds and take cash. There were only a few of us in the kitchen, and we were backed up. This guy pulls up to the window who has probably been waiting a while. All he ordered was a coke. I ask...
Joe917
Xper 4 Age: 34 Why is my coworker flirting at work but ignoring me on dating apps?
So basically, when I first met this guy it was at work because we are coworkers to be honest I didn’t even notice him at first but the day after our work Christmas party something had shifted he noticed ME and was...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is my boyfriend lying about this ‘random girl’ or just being naive?
My boyfriend says a “weird girl” he has never met before near our apartment asked to use his phone. He helped her make two calls and even walked with her towards another building before stopping because she got “rude”....
LatinaXv7
Xper 1 Age: 38 Why does my coworker flirt at work but ghost me on dating apps?
So basically, when I first met this guy it was at work because we are coworkers to be honest I didn’t even notice him at first but the day after our work Christmas party something had shifted he noticed ME and was...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is this girl also at fault, and should I keep my distance from her?
Yes I have asked this question before but I didn't really get much traction on my post so will post a summarized version below. I had gone to a meet and there was this girl who was being rude and kinda condescending but...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is he flirting with me or just being really friendly and polite?
He offered his seat to me even though there was a lot of empty seats around in the club meeting room when I told him I was trying to find a seat (some seat areas were blocked by the enclosed tables around) and I was...
Anonymous
(30-35) My husband is “mentoring” some girl who got laid off and it feels weird?
Some woman at my husbands company was recently laid off with loads of other people. She asked him to mentor her when she joined and was new in town. Now she’s out a job and they’re chatting on text and personal email. He...
Anonymous
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