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Would you consider ending your childhood friendship with a person if they are disrespectful to your values and beliefs?

I’m kind of disappointed in a friend who I know for about 11 years. She has been pestering me about meeting my girl cousin who I don’t feel comfortable seeing because we don’t get along that well. This went on for about...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy friend calls me his best friend?

Long story short my guy friend and I have been hanging out more as of late. I’ve known him for about a year now and always suspected he had a crush on me but for some time I never entertained it because I was in a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Long Distance Relationship advice?

I was in a supposedly LDR with a woman 580miles away. She made a great effort to see me once or twice in a month for over a year. Things were great for 1.5yrs (even after her divorce of 13yrs earlier this year). But she...

kgj_03

Xper 4 Age: 47

I have a boyfriend but think my guy friend likes me? He knows I've a boyfriend but there is a lot of physical touch & he really looks into my eyes?

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and we have been long distancing for the past 3 years. I am studying at university now and I met this guy that is a good friend and part of my friendship group so we hang out a...

ninaa125

Xper 2 Age: 29

I'm depressed because of a girl friend I confessed?

Hey guys, how are you? I haven't posted any question here since a while but I really need your advice, and thank you a for taking a time reading this. So basically I met this girl 2 years ago, at the beginning, we were...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My friend doesn’t talk to me anymore and I’m supposed to go to her wedding but I don't know if I want to anymore, what do I do?

I was really close with her for a while, we even went on a trip together. I tried really hard to be a good friend. I always payed my own way and split the things we had to pay for together. I went to places I didn’t want...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is this a fake friend?

So I’m friends with this girl. We both went to the same university and I joined the same job as her over a year ago. Since I joined the same job as her we became friends and started hanging out. There’s also another girl...

SM29392

Xper 1 Age: 30

Break Up & Divorce

Did she try to play me?

She played me…. In April, my girlfriend of 3.5 years told me we needed to take some space apart and play things by ear cause I needed to work on things. She said “I don’t know what our future looks like but I know things...

Bballboy96

Xper 3 Age: 29

Is it a date or are we going out for dinner just as friends?

The other day, a girl in my friend group asked me if I'd like to go out for a drink or dinner with her this weekend. This came kinda out of the blue, because this will be only the second time we've ever hung out just the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

I'm scared of asking her out on a date but at the same time scared of losing her friendship?

I don't know what I feel exactly but I do know I want to get to know her more This girl, she is 30 I am 31, from work asked me out for drinks and we had the best night ever, her words, there was some flirtation and eye...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is my guy friend showing interest and I'm taking it wrong?

My guy friend and I always end up flirting when we're together. He's held my hand all night at a party, always hugs me, gives me nicknames, brings up the day we met, etc. We went to a bar together and were chatting about...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

How can I move on from these toxic relationships?

there's a lot of details feel free to ask and I will answer. I was in a relationship with one with me at work. it was ok but she did me all wrong and I was in love with her. she didn't care for me. And I was trying all I...

METALHEADi

Xper 5 Age: 30

Relationships

Am I being soft ghosted?

So i have been talking with a girl that was a college friend for a while now we have been texting each other i was planning to meet her in the coming weeks when i take a break from work she lives in a entirely different...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, how would you feel if a guy you went on a few dates with but you told him you just feel more like friends sent you this?

he sent this after a few months of hanging out in limbo as he never accepted friendship but you agreed to hang out with him after 6 months of not seeing him “Hey, just wanted to say I enjoy your company and friendship but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

he sent this after a few months of hanging out in limbo as he never accepted friendship but you agreed to hang out with him after 6 months of not seeing him “Hey, just wanted to say I

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Should I tell my guy best friend that I have feelings for him?

Anonymous

(18-24)

So I met my best friend a little over a year and a half ago. We both work at the same place and hang out outside of work and go to the same college (we were basically roommates). I was

So I met my best friend a little over a year and a half ago. We both work at the same place and hang out outside of work and go to the same college (we were basically roommates). I was originally “in love” with another guy whenever we started hanging out, and he helped show me that he was toxic for me. After that, I was able to get over that guy and focus on myself. Doing that, I realized that I actually had feelings for my best friend. I thought it was nothing at first, but throughout our friendship, those feelings have grown a lot stronger.
We both love Star Wars and Marvel. He makes sure I know that I am invited to different events that he is going to and tries to include me in everything. We go on late night drives (just the two of us) and listen to music or talk if either of us are upset or overwhelmed. People always know that he rides shotgun in my car because he designated himself as my co-pilot. I have had a few people ask me if we were dating because of how we act with each other.
The reason I haven’t told him yet is because he has a girlfriend. This hasn’t been a long-term girlfriend, but it’s been going well for them so far. He’s fallen for both of my best friends in the past and I’ve always been there to give him advice about any of the girls he was thinking about dating. Currently, his girlfriend and him are doing well (other than one night that they got in a fight and he ended up crying and talking to me about it).
I’ve had the overwhelming urge to tell him lately because my feelings are growing so strong and it hurts me a lot of the time. He’s also been teasing me a lot lately (jokingly) and is always cracking inside jokes with me which hasn’t helped. His girlfriend is so great and I love her. I’m just scared that I’m gonna go insane if I don’t tell him. I also don’t want to lose him as a friend because I don’t think I’ll be able to handle it. People keep telling me to let it run it’s course and I’ll get over it, but I haven’t.

What should I do?

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Guys, am I wasting my time with this guy or should I keep trying?

Timeline of events: 1. We met on July 2nd of this year 2. We did sleep together not long after meeting and then decided that we would be better off as platonic friends because we really got along very well. 3. He started...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Im 34 alone, no friends, I always wanted my own wife and kids, Im struggling being alone and keep thinking is there any point carrying on?

Im 34 alone, no friends, The last friend I had was this girl who lived with me, we shared a lot in common and were always hanging out, she was deffo my best friend, we went to festivals and trips to places together. One...

Anonymous

(36-45)