Search Results: like an insecure guy

Honestly, you REALLY don't need to read any of this besides just the title and poll options. The rest is just to provide some context and background to why I'm asking this, but not necessary to read if you don't want to, as I realize it's quite long.

This is sort of a ridiculous situation, and I can't believe I even "have" to make this post in the first place, but basically my boyfriend has bought some shorter shorts recently... think like 5 inch inseams to 7 inch inseams. Basically shorts that would end a couple of inches above the knees and show some thigh.

When standing they cover a little more than the middle of his thigh. So like 3 to 5 inches above the knee I guess? Basically showing his lower thighs. He likes it and feels comfortable this way.

But anyway, they ride up "a lot" when he sits down and they end up being in the upper thigh range instead of lower thigh range. Pictured above is his thigh in one of the pairs of shorts.

He's apparently really insecure and paranoid about this, and thinks "everybody is staring at his thighs." I tried to reassure him that nobody is looking at him, that the shorts look great, that it's perfectly normal for shorts to ride up like that when seated, etc. But he still didn't fully trust me.

He doesn't have an account on here, so he wanted me to ask online and see what people generally think, so... here I am. He's gonna be seeing the poll results and the comments. This seems like a waste of time to be honest, but I'm doing it for him. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

GIRL 1: Average face (7/10), shorty (5’0 and 163 lbs), Asian, B cup boobs, medium butt, small lips, dark hair and eyes, a homebody but also an ambivert (easy going and has a bunch of friends, hangout with her friends a few times a month), virgin so body count is ZERO, a bit selective/choosy as a person in general, never been in a relationship, but has handsome and pretty friends in the group, has a job nine to five

GIRL 2: Slightly above average (8.5/10), average height (5’5), obese (253 lbs), Asian x Middle eastern, C cup boobs, medium lips, downward triangle butt, dyed hair (light brown), dark eyes, extrovert, goes out a lot (gets depressed if not), virgin (saving for marriage), dated over 15 people, a simp, has a job nine to five

GIRL 3: Attractive (9/10), tall (5’8), not fat (121 lbs), Asian x White, A cup boobs, small lips, flat ass, dyed hair (dark brown), dark eyes, introvert, bad at socializing and conversing but once she left the house; all eyes on her; neck turner, virgin (saving for marriage), dated over 6 people, doesn’t care about guys’ looks as long as they have a car, she’s slightly insecure, stuck up, slow and boring, has a job nine to five

28F, only thing I know for certain is I have anxiety & my self esteem could be better. But, nothing too terrible that makes me incapable of finding a LTR. I’ve been on and off dating apps for years, I don’t get how they don’t work for me as it’s known women have it easier & people tell me I’m attractive (not just family/friends). I have to use the apps bc I never get approached in person, I get the matches but in the end it just doesn’t work out. The last time I saw someone I was 23 & that only lasted for a few months. It felt like settling & I’ve become even pickier now. I don’t really have that much of a sex drive but that isn’t something a guy can sense right off the bat so I don’t think that’s it. It’s like I wonder if I’m ready to date but ffs I’m almost 30 that’s odd if I’m not. I met up with someone for the first time in almost 2 years last week & I didn’t even stay for the whole time, I left after maybe 15 min bc I wasn’t feeling it (even though chatting went well on the app), I had a long day, wanted to leave before the drinks arrived since I didn’t want him to get charged & most of all I was worried he was gay (by his voice). I usually video chat before but moving fwd that’s non-negotiable. Oddly enough I still don’t think it’s my fault for being single this long, yes I’ve tried counseling/medication & it was a bust. Can an almost 30 yr old woman date while being anxious, insecure, reserved & close to being maybe on the asexual spectrum?