I’m a 16 years old girl. I'm not a very social person, so I don't have many friends, but the ones I do have always have are beatiful girls who have a lot of guys who like or interested in them. I can't call myself very attractive and I don't have an ideal body, but I’m not so ugly, I think. I feel involuntarily jealous and insecure every time I see my friends talking to boys or show their texting with them to me.
At school, boys would approach my friends, but never me. There’s is no guy who talks to me or even looks at me. I’m just the “Funny” friend of the group. I’m a follower and following my pretty friends around. I see my friends close to guys and I’ve never expercied that.
I'm not someone who craves for male attention, I just want to be loved like my friends, when I see them getting so much attention from boys, get in relationship or have crushes, I feel so lonely and insecure everytime. Is this really because of my “ugliness” or lack of confidence?
I'm just afraid that when I grow up I will be lonely and not loved in a romantic way.
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Because you haven’t asked your friends to set you up with a guy yet. If they know lots of guys just tell them you would like to try and date and they can help you out
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When a guy gives you attention that you like, you need to make sure he realizes it by being friendly back and communicating with him. But you are way too young to worry that you'll never find a partner.
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As winnie the pooh once said. You can't stay in your corner of the Forest waiting for others to come to you. You have to go to them sometimes.”
It's from lack of confidence. Be the best you can be and base your self esteem on who you are as a person the rest will happen naturally.
your time will come. don’t hurry
Sounds like a lack of confidence
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