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I haven’t seen my boyfriend for the past 6 weeks, I’m not worried about him cheating or anything, he is a true workaholic and leaves his workshop late at night. When I ask him to meet up after work he says he is tired and he doesn’t want to just come to my place and make me feel like we’re just sleeping together, he wants to take me on a proper date but he’s just too busy. He doesn’t really open up about his issues and I don’t know what is he going through, he texts me and calls me all the time, but we haven’t seen each other for 6 weeks now. When I ask him he keeps making me feel like I’m too needy and I hate this. I told him that I needed some time apart to think about our relationship, because this is the loneliest I have felt in my life and I hate it. I don’t see why am I the only one compromising in this relationship. Yesterday, I send him a message explaining why I feel so lonely in the relationship and what are my expectations and I told him that I need 2 weeks to think. He’s been messaging me asking me to talk to him, I really love him but I feel so hurt and I need time to figure things out. Should I leave his messages unanswered for the next 2 weeks? Or what? I’m so confused.

I just moved in with my fiancé and his grandma. I’ve only been here for 2 whole weeks and it already feels like my relationship is falling apart. We don’t spend any time together except when we go on walks (which isn’t everyday) & when we went to brunch one time. Other than that he’s either working or answering to his grandma’s beck and call.

We don’t sleep in the same bed, or room. I have a whole level of the house to myself. I’m lonely and honestly not working is bothering me. I’m job searching for every day because I’m use to working and contributing.

We have no personal space or time together. She calls him for almost everything (she can’t do much since she’s on oxygen). I get it and I understand but some stuff is honestly ridiculous. I’ve been trying to do my part. Keeping areas clean at least try because the min. I clean it gets messed up not too long after.

What do I do? I feel like him and I need to speak with her about it but I don’t want her feeling like we’re being rude when I’m the new comer and trying to change stuff.