Search Results: should guys pay

Why do guys always insist on paying?

Why do men always insist on paying for everything when going on dates? I get they are trying to be polite, but sometimes the woman offers to pay and wants to pay. I know I should be "grateful" and see it as a polite...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why didn’t he ask if I made it home safely after a date even if he wasn’t interested?

Should he have asked if I got home safe, even though he offered to take me home or pay for my Lyft and we left at the same time? I feel like I have no real value or worth as a person. at least he knows the girl he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, do you actually fib/lie to your girlfriends sometimes?

I have spent a few hours with old classmates a few days ago, most of them were guys. They said that sometimes they really dont tell the truth, especially when they feel like the question is threatening. They stood by the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why did my work crush say, "he loves that im a little rebel" to me?

My work crush found out I got a septum piercing & so he went to look at me because he didn't believe her. After he saw that I had a septum piercing he smiled at me & said "he loves that I'm a little rebel." I'm not a bad...

Yenig

Xper 3 Age: 30

Should I feel hurt and offended by a comment my boyfriend made about my body?

My boyfriend likes to be playful and affectionate at times when it comes to my butt in particular. Some comments he makes regarding my butt don’t feel genuine sometimes. When he jokes and says “bubble butt” while tapping...

Latayshia122

Xper 1 Age: 30

A guy I've been on dates with would not let me pay. Should I be worried?

I've been on 2 dates with this guy, both times we did activities then a lunch or dinner. On first day when the check came for the dinner, I asked if I should get it and he paid for the games that we played earlier, he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did he act so tense?

I went on a first date yesterday with a guy I met on a dating app. He seemed engaged and called me gorgeous in our messages before the date. I was about 15-20 minutes late. When I got there he didn’t compliment me and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I've been on 2 dates with a man who won't let me pay. Any thoughts?

I know I'm going to get complains from girls, haha (maybe some guys too?) The reason why I asked is because I don't expect guys to pay for every date or everything on a date. I feel that guys shouldn't have to pay for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Should a sperm donor be required to pay child support?

Say hypothetically a lesbian couple went to a sperm bank, got sperm, and got pregnant, should donor be required to pay for said child? One would think that's easy right? Okay let's say the same lesbian couple couldn't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does this sound like a fair deal or is there a lack of comprehension due to his learning disability?

My boyfriend is a loving caring funny honest loyal and a good guy overall. We’ve been together for just over 2 years. We discussed about finances and living arrangements and he believes in going 50/50 for living...

Anastacia1989

Xper 6 Age: 36

My boyfriend is a loving caring funny honest loyal and a good guy overall. We’ve been together for just over 2 years. We discussed about finances and living arrangements and he

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Education & Career

Freelancing or Full time job?

Hey guys I started my journey as a software engineer on December 01, 2018 and since then I have switched 3 companies. In each company everyone says that you are intelligent and know how to get things done. This...

rishabhgupta54

Xper 5 Age: 29

Hey guys I started my journey as a software engineer on December 01, 2018 and since then I have switched 3 companies. In each company everyone says that you are intelligent and

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Should I be patient?

Im talking to this guy. I've been knowing him for a couple years. We’ve been working on a relationship for the last two months. I really like him and i think he likes me but this is what I dont understand; he don’t call...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

What would you do in this situation?

So I’ve got this friend, I love her to bits. Like whenever she needs me I’ll run over. If she needs ANYTHING ever I’m there. But she’s with this guy. He dosent work, he lives in her house, he dosent help out with any...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, how would you like a woman to offer to split or pay a tab on a date, after you've paid the first?

If you're going to 2 places with a woman, would you pay for both tabs? If a woman offers to split or get the second tab, how would you like her to word her question, so that she wouldn't insult your masculinity? I...

StarsInTheEyes

Xper 7 Age: 35

Should I break up with my boyfriend for the lack of physical intimacy?

My boyfriend and I have known eachother for about 9 years we just started dating about 2 years ago. My boyfriend was a virgin when we started dating (he was 23, I was 21). When we first got together we would do it a lot...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I respond back to him for misreading his message?

this guy and i were beginning to rekindle our friendship/relationship and I think i started to let my insecurities show a little bit and i think there were times he got annoyed. Anyway, Monday i went out to get bubble tea...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I offer to pay for the dates when he makes 3 times more than me?

I just feel so embarrassed paying for the date in the restaurants. The waitress always hand the guy bill.

Anonymous

(30-35)

If a guy tells you this would you take it as a good thing and feel special? or feel as though he’s gassing you?

If you get along well with a guy. The two of you converse well. The vibe/energy is natural and not forced. You guys can talk as if you’ve known one another for years. The two of you have been out on a date but he...

dearryy

Xper 5 Age: 27