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So i joined a new CrossFit gym and there is a very attractive young lady I occasionally get into small talk with. She smiled a lot today when we chatted. She knows I like her. However she has never initiated conversation with me so far. I usually say hello first. But she does engage with me when I ask her what’s she been up to.

Truth is I literally have no idea how old she is. She could be 19 or should could be 30. I’m guessing I am 10 to 12ish years older. However I’m in excellent shape and I’ve gotten dates with younger woman before. She’s also witnessing me engage in an activity where I usually out perform all the other guys around me. That doesn’t hurt. I am a former profesional mma fighter.

Anyway I am looking for an opportunity to get to know her better. However given she’s very attractive I wouldn’t be surprised she already has a boyfriend. Would it better to ask about that first or would a guy look more confident if I just straight up asked for a date? If we were the same age I would just ask her out. But being that I’m older I’m more careful about this.

If I find out she has a boyfriend then I won’t pursue it any further. I usually run into her once or twice a week. I just don’t want to make the future awkward if I straight up ask her out and she turns me down. I won’t take it personally if she’s not interested. But I go to CrossFit to relieve exercise and I just want to avoid any future awkwardness/drama

I just watched a video by KSI and he was guessing the age of women now most of them were 14 or 15 years old but they looked like they were in their early 20s.

No I grew up with the idea that asking a woman’s age is incredibly rude and you’re probably gonna get slapped for it but it this point with the clothes and make up that girls can where I swear to God they can look older or way younger than their actual age for example Ariana Grande is 28 years old she is slightly older than me I was born in August she was born in June but she looks like she’s 12 so if asking a girls age is incredibly rude but men don’t want to go to jail at this point are we supposed to be dating 40-year-olds and we’re 28 years old or are we allowed to ask for identification or ask their age at this point because if asking a girls age is still rude at this point then men should never date a woman ever again.