Search Results: slowing things down

How can we encourage people to be honest about themselves and what they really want and need during the initial stage of dating?

With every new date and potential partner, people can change their narrative and engage in the relationship they dream of and need. However, presenting a version of themselves that they know deep down is not sustainable....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Do you believe drivers who drive under the speed limit should stay off the road?

I see it all the time where I live. Drivers driving 10 to 20 under the speed limit I understand learners as they are learning and it could be their first time driving on a main road, but I am talking about those who have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girlfriend feels entitled?

I'll try to be as succinct as possible. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost a year now and I feel like she's really gone downhill. One of my biggest issues with my girlfriend is that she feels entitled to me doing...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Will I get a second chance with her?

Me and my girl (don’t know if we still or dating or not) have been going officially for 6 months (10 total). At my co worker anniversary pool party. She randomly told me that I have until February to propose or she’s...

Mikewill__87

Xper 3 Age: 38

How to relax and put the ball in his court after doing too much?

How to put the ball in his court after doing too much? I'm at the stage in my early relationship (we are not official) where I think I'm doing too much. Here is how we started and where we are: We (I 29F, him 28M) have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Man I’m dating is moving across the state for a new job. He insists it’s timing and not feelings and wants to still be my support system?

we have been friends for 15 years before becoming intimate with one another. He said I felt like home, can see a real future with me (also said that scared him because it was so real) he loves my company and our time...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My ex and I still hangout and he introduced me to his kids as a surprise and slept over recently. Do you think he likes me and wants to be together?

This guy and I have been on and off for over a year. He slowed things down bc I wanted more of his time and he couldn't give it to me. This weekend, he introduced me to his kids as a surprise and then slept at my house a...

LittleMissy93

Xper 7 Age: 33

Health & Fitness

Who else can’t comprehend how horrible it would be to have some form of dementia?

It’s one thing if you get older, and your body starts to slow down. But to no longer have control of your own mind. That is incomprehensibly horrific. It feels like you’re basically dead at that point.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Gym crush, is he interested in me?

I met this cute in my a workout class. He came up to me after class and started to talk to me about the class and then he noticed my brand of shoes. After said conversation he always talks to me after class and will slow...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He is bigger than his photos?

I’ve gone on two dates with this guy from a dating app. We get along well and he is very easy to talk to. The only thing is he is very touchy and I barely know him. I’ve been single 6 years and only been in one...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is he interested to me or not?

I see him looking at me in the gym. But the thing is, he never even smile at me or try to talk to me. He sometimes try to work out near me, avoiding eye contact. But from afar, I see him looking at me sometimes. Earlier,...

haiuyu

Xper 3 Age: 27

Is he interested in me? He’s a colleague and I don’t want to make it awkward or miss my shot either?

He’s quite awkward around me - stumbles over his words and would shake a little / display nervous energy when talking to me. He would be distracted when I would past him - he was conversing with a colleague when he saw me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He’s quite awkward around me - stumbles over his words and would shake a little / display nervous energy when talking to me. He would be distracted when I would past him - he was

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Does he have feelings for me?

So this male colleague and me have unique chemistry and our colleagues are always teasing us. During group conversation, he always seek out for me and drag me into the conversation even when the topic is not related to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Not sure how to proceed with my ex suffering from trauma?

my ex girlfriend became triggered around me due to her past abusive relationship and other past SA. We talked about it and she didn't blame me for anything she was struggling with her trauma and realizing that she could...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does my friend's boyfriend always put me down?

It’s worth saying that me and my friend’s boyfriend used to “get with each other” before him and my friend got together, but it wasn’t that deep. We were all friends. But I don’t get why he can’t just be civil. Every time...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

My sister beats me down cause I don't have a job, what do I do?

I'm disabled and can't get a regular job like a normal person can. I can get disability money but I refuse to take that cause I don't want to feel disabled. I'm trying to set up a small business online were I can earn a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is this a red flag?

I understand how this could be viewed as a minor thing but it scares me. Every time i get in the car with my boyfriend, if we have an argument he ends up driving so fast to scare me. He did this last night, I had to beg...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Technology & Internet

Interview

Could You Live The Rest Of Your Life Without Electricity? Here Are10 Things You Only Know Once You’ve Lived without Electricity

I speak from experience from having my electricity disconnected a lot times when I was kid. Coming from a very poor family, mom couldn't afford to pay all the bills. So during the summer it was common for us to be without...

humanearth

Master Age: 58

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