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Okay so this happened to me years ago.

I was getting ready and set for prom or homecoming whatever; I was in an online school at the time I was going to, and this happened in like the early of 2020, right before the COVID struck. You’re one of the prom committees to take part in planning for the prom, so you’ll be wanting to take a date with a girl from your school, right? But then my mother knows of this, and she’s a narcissistic parent. She says and wants for your sister, who is a brainwashed, manipulated version of her, to take her as your prom date, and you denied that because, knowing the sister, all she’ll do is report back to the mom and say what happened with you out of prom while she spies and watches your move. What my sister would do is she’ll watch me from afar when I meet with my former best friend I had at the time who was anointed to be one of the prom committees also or whatever and talk to girls. The sister will feel to come over to intervene in it, saying hi, hello, I’m his sister, or you go to walk with your friend out to the hall or something, go to the bathroom together just chatting and having fun whatever during the night, but then she’ll pull you wise and say you shouldn’t be talking to girls like that; they are worldly. The religion is JW’s (Jehovah Witness), and the way the sister and mom think is that those who aren’t part of their religion are labeled to them as bad people, but that person doesn’t think of people that way because not everybody in the world is bad and there’s genuine good people out there, you’d just need to get to know people to know their character and respect them as we all are humans and should never be treated differently no matter our religion. But they are critical and judgmental of people even if they show they are good with pure intentions but still find something criticized or call them worldly.

So tell me y’all answers or opinions on this?

I guess it it better late than never. I didn't get my very first real girlfriend until the age of 29. I turn 30 this month, and we are now engaged as of this past July. Our wedding is anticipated to be fall of next year. I will be 30 or 31 on my wedding day.

I am somewhat saddened because I feel it would have been sweeter to have met her when we were both young and married younger. I am her first serious boyfriend too and her first kiss, so I am lucky in that way at least.

It seems a lot of people I meet married in their early-to-mid-20s. It wasn't my choice to be such a late bloomer that I am, although I was really picky and wanted a woman without a romantic past, so I guess I had to be a lot more patient.

Sadly, I am having testosterone issues, achy testicles, and erectile dysfunction. I am hoping I can still produce healthy sperm when the time comes.

Overall I find women especially modern women to be more selfish, entitled, poor communicators and combative over fickle issues then men. I also find them more difficult in the workplace.

This isn’t all of them but too many of them.

For example this evening I was giving away something for free on craiglist. A woman contacted me about the item via the CL ad. I told her I wasn’t going to be available until a certain time and to text my phone number directly (i don’t like using the app). She went on this long story trying to convince me to meet up earlier. Then she messaged me on the app (which I didn’t check) at the meetup time. I didn’t respond because I told her to text my phone directly earlier. She then sent a message on the app complaining about me wasting her time. But this is for something that is 100% free. She had a sense of entitlement about it.

Men don’t bitch that way when we are getting something for free. We don’t feel entitled to freebies and handouts the same way women are.

Anyway I glad I didn’t give her the item I was giving away. But I have been giving away a lot of stuff on CL for free lately and i notice women are always more demanding when i communicate with them.