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I have not really gotten off the ground running on just about everything in life. It is really hurting my self-esteem and has left me feeling ignored, irrelevant, bored, and feeling like I am losing my ever fucking mind.

I will provide a few examples:

One, I have been trying to sell my independent web services. I am a talented web developer. I acknowledge AI is making it easier to create web apps and websites, but not everyone has fully adopted it yet for these purposes. I had a few clients and created websites for them last year. I received mostly positive feedback, and I offered my services for a steal. I was supposed to work on one more website for another small business, and it has been over 6 months and I haven't heard a thing from them. That is now $1,500 I will not be getting. They are a landscaping supply company, so this time of year would be ideal. Meanwhile, I launched a website trying to gain clients. No calls, no web form submissions, nothing. I advertise, sometimes cold call, reach out to other recruiters and company owners... nothing. One of my clients from last year that I was told needed updates, they have yet to provide me with anything. Potential and existing clients are pulling back.

Then, I am spending a lot of my time now trying to advocate and raise awareness about our crumbling public safety infrastructure in my state, as it has become very problematic. I have spoken with news organizations, and they now either lie saying they will "get to it" or I am ignored and sidelined.

I feel like I am not taken seriously now, and that I have become irrelevant.

I think its because men can't get over when a woman doesn't choose them so they think of stuff they feel will stick as a way to 'get back' at you women.

The actual reality is a lot of women tend to be happier single than men here's a nice study on that:

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/19485506241287960

and another link for good measure:

https://www.forbes.com/sites/traversmark/2024/11/09/4-reasons-why-single-women-are-the-happiest-people-on-earth-by-a-psychologist/

So to all the men on here making this dumbass accusation: get over yourselves! You weren't chosen for a reason. look within and figure it out. I did and now things are much better! introspection work!

And to women if you come across any dudes who try to berate you for not choosing them or saying other misogynistic or incel shit... just laugh at them. mockery especially by attractive women will get to them more than anything else. thats my advice to you.

anyway just wanted to rant. Focker out! lol

I think they do generally speaking, BUT gifts DO NOT make a girl change her mind or her heart about you. So for all the guys out there going with this logic of buying her something nice so that she loves you in my opinion you are wrong. It will not work.