I have not really gotten off the ground running on just about everything in life. It is really hurting my self-esteem and has left me feeling ignored, irrelevant, bored, and feeling like I am losing my ever fucking mind.
I will provide a few examples:
One, I have been trying to sell my independent web services. I am a talented web developer. I acknowledge AI is making it easier to create web apps and websites, but not everyone has fully adopted it yet for these purposes. I had a few clients and created websites for them last year. I received mostly positive feedback, and I offered my services for a steal. I was supposed to work on one more website for another small business, and it has been over 6 months and I haven't heard a thing from them. That is now $1,500 I will not be getting. They are a landscaping supply company, so this time of year would be ideal. Meanwhile, I launched a website trying to gain clients. No calls, no web form submissions, nothing. I advertise, sometimes cold call, reach out to other recruiters and company owners... nothing. One of my clients from last year that I was told needed updates, they have yet to provide me with anything. Potential and existing clients are pulling back.
Then, I am spending a lot of my time now trying to advocate and raise awareness about our crumbling public safety infrastructure in my state, as it has become very problematic. I have spoken with news organizations, and they now either lie saying they will "get to it" or I am ignored and sidelined.
I feel like I am not taken seriously now, and that I have become irrelevant.
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Unfortunately you do not have skills that are in demand. Welders, electricians, plumbers and HVAC techs are all in demand today and cannot be done by a computer.
I changed careers when I was almost 40. I got into IT but I specialized in data networks and system management. I could see all the programming jobs getting shipped to China and India so I steered clear of being a software developer.
I have been talking to you about building an application for a minute and the most recent communication I had from you was that it's difficult. I know it's difficult otherwise I wouldn't be asking you to do it and I would do it myself. I'm still waiting to hear from you!
Now are you going to understand when I say that your skills are currently worthless?
Yep, apparently. From EMT to web developer to loser. Damn.
Maybe you'll take advice now