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Boyfriend A - Funny as heck. Could be a whole comedian. Always has something in store with jokes. But he lives like in the gutter and with little to no comforts. He spends his time making you laugh whenever possible and sharing lots of funny memes with you.

Boyfriend B - Boring as heck (probably). Doesn't know any jokes, doesn't focus too much on making you burst into laughter. But he is super reliable and fairly stable and living with noticeable modern comforts. He spends his time on meaningful things like better life, stable living, more comforts and conveniences, less things to worry about, stuff like getting an automobile is on his next agenda or starting to purchase a home and start paying the mortgage. This image is however too much "minimalism" of what I wanted to display. There should be a big bed and a wardrobe.

We wanted to make a baby before we were dating. Okay, maybe this is a little crazy, but before me and Raine were dating, we talked about having a baby. I can talk more on that in the updates if you guys and gals want, but right now I want to talk/ask about motivations.

1. Loneliness

One big motivation for wanting a baby is to have someone you can love, who NEEDS your love, who can't survive without it. Many people want a baby because they want to have that sense of purpose, which leads to my next point.

2. Hope

We all want the world to be a better place, right? We all want our children or nieces/nephews etc to have a good life, a better life than we did. Some of us see hope that the world will become a better place, or that our children can make the world a better place.

3. Instinctual Reproduction

This is pretty straight forward. We have a built-in biological clock that tells us we must reproduce for the survival of our race.

5. Family

Also pretty straight forward. Many of us would love to settle down and make a family. We want to grow old surrounded by loved ones, knowing that we built a family full of love.

5. Intimacy

There's something special about making a child with someone. I'm a romantic, previously a skeptic. I believe that there is a special bond made when a couple trusts and/or loves each other enough to go raw and finish inside. Idt it's a fetish thing or a weird thing, I just think that's how the chemicals in our bodies work. There's something about it that brings you closer, and ESPECIALLY if it's for the purpose of procreation.