Search Results: telling guys no

I met a guy, we hit it off and the next day he ghosted me. did I do something wrong?

last week i went to a friends birthday gayhering, there were no more than 15 of us there. this guy, we’ll call him j, approached me and complimented the jersey i was wearing. from there we had a conversation and hit it...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Something I heard that sounded condescending in the dating aspect?

It was on plenty of fish. com. It had advice forums, no one uses it anymore being that site is worthless. Anyway, someone said “ oh I feel bad for average people, they just have to try so hard to attract someone” Im...

blackeagle007

Yoda Age: 45

Do you think my best friend is right in telling me I should break up with my 6’5 boyfriend?

So the day after the job interview, my boyfriend (let’s call him Evan) texted me that he got the job and he started yesterday and I’m so happy for him. I said congratulations but he didn’t respond to me. I haven’t heard...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Not sure why I feel so bitter to my boyfriend going into rehab?

I feel like when the going gets tough, he always seems to have a way to bail out and leave us. Then comes back from jail as if nothing happened. Now his PO is requesting he go to a rehab for a few months because he was...

MissLee1991

Xper 2 Age: 35

Why would my guy friend try to break up my boyfriend and I? ?

A week ago, my guy friend (let’s call him Eddy) texted me and told me he just saw Evan (my boyfriend that’s not his real name, but said that due to privacy) with another girl and sent me a photo. He was at a store. He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it the right decision to leave this relationship when it’s ruining me mentally?

Daniel and I have been together for 2 years, almost 3. In the beginning of the relationship, everything was perfect, I thought I found the right man and that he wasn’t like the rest. I found out that he commented a girl...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, why go back?

So I’m just trying to get the male view cause as a female I am confused as to why someone would go back. I had this f-buddy, known him for about 5 years. We used to be f-buddies in the past. Anywho we resume things last...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Why did my boyfriend flip out when I lost weight?

Okay so I’m not fat or skinny but I am a little chunky. I was slim before I hit puberty. I had a little belly which I hated and I wanted to get it and tone up. Before my boyfriend guys use to hit on me a lot and look at...

Anonymous

(25-29)

No communication after setting up a date—is that normal?

He’s over 20 years older than me, and people keep telling me that guys from his generation just communicate differently. But still, I can’t help thinking he might’ve lost interest. He acted so crazy into me when I was...

succuqus

Xper 4 Age: 24

5 Things Guys Should Never Do

Just want to share some crucial things in this Take that I think all guys should understand and take heed to. There is so much in life that men are not being taught about people and the world because people are so busy...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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Family & Friends

How do I get my friend to stop copying me?

For context, me and my friend are 16 and 15. I first met my friend when we were walking to class one day and she called me pretty. I thought she was really nice so I started talking to her more and we became really good...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

Guys, Is it normal for Teenage brothers to like their Sisters and hug them a lot / spend time with them a lot?

I guess I should emphasize if it is normal to like their sisters THIS MUCH. im just very confused about like, why he likes me so much. I know that might sound weird but lemme explain my logic So i have many friends who...

Amii_Hex

Xper 1 Age: 16

Guys: should I go out with my coworker?

one night he was drinking a little bit & he reached out his hand for me to hold (i was standing in the doorway and he was sitting in a chair) my friend & i then sat down & were talking to him & his friend. the guy i like...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it a red flag if he stares at other women?

Been friends for 5 years and just started dating a month ago. We’re both 24. A week before we started dating, we had a slight fall out as he flirted with a barista girl and got two free coffees and then denied that he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Why would my girl friends accusing me for turning down a blind date because of his height?

So earlier this evening after I got off of work, my best friend texted me that our other friend and her found a guy for me and really wants to meet me. She asked if I was interested. I told her I’m working on myself and I...

AmazonChick171

Xper 7 Age: 27

Other

Another issue regarding addiction recovery?

Sorry to keep ranting about my recovery. I’m just passionate and having a great time being clean. Being told what to do, like you gotta do this, only go to this meeting etc. I’m in a fellowship but a friend of mine keeps...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do guys disappear when it comes to meeting?

Background: have been speaking to this guy who works away for almost 6 months now. We were planning on catching up when he is back for the Christmas holidays. We would speak nearly every single day. Last week he would...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to handle a guy?

I have a verry gud frnd. He is really very gud with a gud heart and his behaviour towards women awesome. So we were frnds since 1 yr and he did not proposed just told his feelings in a roundabout manner. Moreover he did...

Anonymous

(Under 18)