Search Results: why no dates

Ok me and this girl met when we were about 20 and had a great relationship for 8 years. I started drinking and it lead to us breaking up. She started dating a guy 2 weeks later I introduced her to. They lasted less than a year and we got back together exactly a year after separating.

I ended up finding pictures of her in sexy outfits and nudes on our old camera one day and some sexting stuff while going through our stuff in a closet I was cleaning out. I didn't tell her I found them. I spent the next 3 years trying to get her to send me dirty pictures. She broke up with me again and we separated for 3 years and then ended up back together again.

we've been back together over 10 years now and I have randomly tried a lot of times to get her to send me sexy stuff or sext with me, nothing has worked. This finally came to a head. I got tired of trying and getting nothing. We got into a pretty big argument about it and during the argument I find out that she thinks I'm talking about pictures she sent to another guy she dated right after we broke up the second time.

So both guys she dated right after we split she sent nudes and sexted with but whenever I have tried to get her to in the past I get excuses like she's worried about sending them because someone could get them for whatever reason which is all just excuses to me. So What, did you send them with pigeons the last 2 times.

Over the years this has gotten under my skin trying and never getting anything back. I usually have tried when I've been out of town for work or something. When I've tried sexting with her the responses have been either nothing at all or something that was just lame or her saying she didn't know what to say.

She says that she's been more sexually adventurous with me than anyone else ever. Our sex life I used to think was good but now I'm second guessing it. I usually make sure she gets off first and then she's in a hurry to get it over with. why is there no desire or lust there for her?

Hi, I haven't dated in real life in several years not because of lack of confidence, energy, not having intersting things to talk about or the fact that no matter how many times i try people just dont try themselves.

What's happened? We use to court people we were generally interested in you know get to know them. You know how many times i've been asked on discord, snapchat, or freaking any social media where girls ask me in a day will you be my boyfriend? Like I see girls complaining about being abused this is one of the exact reasons why.

Like everytime i see a girl now dressing like a thot im just like why. no mans gonna want to be with you long term dressing like that whats the point.

Last time a girl approached me in public im 30 this girl was probably in freaking highschool and she coomes upto me flaunting her cleavage adjusting her boobs and haviong her friend check her ass to see if its haning out of shorts and then struts over to me and goes "hey big boy" to which i reply. "what the fuck you doing you crazy thot your suppose to stay over there not come over here thats why we call you that hoe over there.

Feel free to rant post your stories heck even get a few reply convos going on here.
Like what are your views on how soceity and dating has become what has gotten you so angry that you want gouge out the eyes of your unwillingly victims so sadisctly