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Do you speak for yourself when discussing likes/interests or do you often base your opinion around what your partner wants?
I notice in a lot of the opinions on my posts, a lot of guys dont really speak for themselves. It always starts or ends with “whatever the girl likes...” I mean yea, make it about us, sure. We like that kinda thing but...
Is failure avoidance a good thing?
I occasionally see people on here advising someone who has failed repeatedly at something ro "try and keep trying" which I think is often very bad advice. People who experience repeated failures experience repeated...
How to Set Yourself Up For Weight Loss Success
If you have set yourself a goal to lose weight, that's the first step. It is often one of the hardest things to admit to yourself that you fell off the wagon, or let yourself go, or were dealing with everything else in...
Stop Using Introversion or Shyness as an Excuse!
Just stop. Everybody is shy to a degree. Lots of people are introverts. Think about how and why you use it as an excuse. How: That typical situation. You like that person you regularly see or it's just that person at the...
5 Reasons Why Women Should Ask Men Out More Often
5 reasons why women should ask men out more often and an explanation of the current situation when asking someone on a date In the past it has been basically required of men to ask women out, and even into this day and...
Perfection Is OVERRATED: Just Be Yourself!
I used to want to be perfect. I used to look at other people and hate myself because I didn't look like them. Or because my life wasn't like theirs. I'm sure you can guess that I was very miserable. And very angry. But...
Fat Acceptance Is Just As Bad As Fat Shaming
Let's talk about weight Carrying extra weight on your body is a problem--a BIG problem for half of people in the UK and two-thirds of Americans. Only a tenth of obese people can accurately identify their degree of weight...
What Relationship Experts Think About Love
There is no more complicated and yet desired thing like love. To have a perfect relationship is the goal of many people but not everyone knows what this perfection consists of, how to find the ideal partner and even...
Is Marriage For You? You Should Probably Ask Yourself These Questions First
In case you've been living under quite the giant sized rock, it will be of no surprise to you that the number of men and women getting married in this country has fallen dramatically over the last fifty years or so. With...
a How To Deal With ADHD As An Adult
I was diagnosed with ADHD at the age of 21 . You may have heard something about Attention Deficit and Hyperactivity Disorder . There are many stories and myths about this problem that previously targeted only children ~...
10 Common Cognitive Distortions that Contribute to Negative (or Positive) Thinking
Hello everyone, it's Toad-1 with a new mytake. I should admit right now that I, probably like many people on GAG, suffer from either depression, social anxiety, or some other mental illness. The list I am presenting here...
How To Keep Your 2022 New Years Resolution When It Gets Hard?
It's that time of year where a lot of us start selecting annual goals. It can be inspiring and fun to imagine where you could be by at the end of 2022. Maybe you'll release that amount of weight you want off? Maybe you'll...
How To Deal with TOXIC Family Members
https://www.youtube.com/embed/TUCUsNx1HTs You may have done pretty well for yourself all year avoiding certain family functions, living in another state or country from them, or not picking up the phone, but now that the...
a 59 Quotes To Inspire You
These lines have inspired me to become the person I am today. I hope you find inspiration in reading them as well. Enjoy :) Don't worry about those who talk behind your back. They're behind you for a reason.- Unknown...
5 Negative Thinking Patterns, Why Not to Do Them, and What to Do About Them
This is an installment in a series which I am calling, "Behind the Scenes: The Things We Think But Do Not Say." Internal dialogues are the conversations we have within ourselves, with ourselves, about who we believe we...
How to Battle Your Mind and Become a Mentally Strong Person
1. Don't waste time feeling sorry for yourself. Feeling sad or grieving a loss is critical to your healing process. But self-pity is about magnifying your misfortune and exaggerating your hardship. It causes you to dwell...
Dating After an Emotionally Abusive Relationship
A year and a half after leaving my emotionally abusive ex, I just started seeing another guy. He's very respectful, is fluent in three languages, is a hard worker, doesn't want kids, and has been patient with me wanting...
Honest dating advice through trial and error
Hey! After browsing through GAG for a long time (even when I wasn't a user), I figured I'd share some thoughts on dating. These are different rules, thoughts and anything in between that I take into account when I date....
Why You Can't Flirt: Perspective Check
It's time to check your perspective at the door, because I'm going to give you a different view of the topic at hand. The topic is 'Why you can't flirt' and what that means. So you're a guy or girl, probably getting...
Having Standards And What She Doesn't Understand About Playing Hard To Get. Or Being Hard To Get For That Matter.
So standards.... Let's talk about standards. A standard is a level of attainment or the degree of evaluation of a person's worth. Do you find anything wrong with this definition? I find plenty wrong here. Mainly because I...
