Guys are you tired of being "Friend-zoned"? Solution: Don't settle for it to begin with (Page 2)

[thedevilwithin]

Agree with all but number 3, being cautious as in paying attention to her signals is important, like if she's not flirting back then there's no need to approach you have your answer just move on.

[Grace_Rdz]

I like this take, no games & no bs, simple as that!
"... Whether or not it's just hooking up or forming a monogamous relationship if she's not down, move on." but just remember that...

[hypno-trip]

I like how you emphasize clarity in your message. It helps prevent confusion later on and is the simplest approach. I also don't have a lot of close female friends so I can relate to your last point. Very useful my take thanks.

[Brian-Brain]

That horrible friendzone is just like the Bermuda triangle. Nothing can escape from there either.

[sp33d]

Not sure what this take is set to adress.
The ending is funny: "No games!" :D :D
This entire approach is a game.

[ViciousVic22]

When I mean games I mean the ones where you don't win in the end lol

[Anonymous]

I personally love this list. I've been on both sides of a friend-zone, and it isn't pretty. If people were more direct, none of this would be a problem.

[dudegrt09]

Nice advice... biggest mistake that guys make is remaining friends in the hopes that someday they'll be the one. Being direct and letting her know from the start that you want to pursue a romantic relationship is the best bet.

[crayven]

Case in point.
Managed to get out of this by walking out. We just grew apart 'cause we weren't really friends, we were 'friends'.

[Pedantic]

Heh, I like #6. I'd take it a step further and say just don't pine.

[Urotsukidoji]

Ummm just be alpha = get girls easily.
Being beta like the TC says will get you the fat girls

[TheSpartan]

I loled.

[Prof_Don]

Yup very well said! It's a bad idea to get emotionally caught up in a girl that doesn't want you.

[muspelhem_5]

Good Take. Wish I had the social skills to be direct without being creepy.

[Nathand]

that's why chicks don't dig the nice guy.

nice guy = brother

jerks = I you treat me like shiit you have to be the one.

[MichelleJustAsking]

That's the wrong way to look at it.

Chick don't want a "nice guy", we want an Alpha Male! We want confidence. We want to feel "safe" and secure with you. If you're just nice, then that's all you are. Nice is just part of the equation.

It's not that we are attracted to jerks who treat us like shit, it's the confidence and Alpha-ness we are seeking out and HOPING that you don't turn out to be a deuche as well.

Once my friend stopped just being the "nice" guy and actually showed me his manly side, he became my fiancé Lol.

It's almost like how guys have the fantasy of "lady in the streets/freak in the bedroom"... girls have a fantasy of finding a bad boy that loves her so much, he changes and she has an effect on him that no other girl could.

[Nathand]

There are many nice guys who have confidence that your females neglect for the jerk. There are many assertive nice guys that to this day are still being passed on for the badboy.

You even confirmed my comment that being a nice guy isn't a good thing. Its like your disagreeing with me to agree with me. Plus how does being a nice guy have to do with being manly?

Can't believe he changed for someone like you... Talk about desperate.

[StickStickity13]

I agree, there are so many women on earth. There aren't that many special ones that can't be replaced.

[Cowboy6666]

I will tell her now straightforward I want to pursue a serious monogamous relationship otherwise leave me. I m not your just friend. 😗😔

[TheSpartan]

Exactly, don't be friends with a girl who friend zoned you. Leave her.

[MaisGem21]

what about girls who are in the friend-zone?

[StickStickity13]

Do the same thing.

[NervousPie]

HAHAHAHHAHHAHAHHAHAHAH.

[Jose_22]

damn this thing is still around...

[Drast]

Best take I've seen all week