So you’re romantically into a guy/girl but unfortunately, they don’t share the same feelings as you, but they like you as a friend. Then you get sulky and blame the other person by saying “he/she put me in the friendzone.” Honestly, did they put you in the friend zone? Or did you put yourself there?
If you stick around hoping that this person will eventually come around and fall in love with you. You have put yourself in the friend zone! You are choosing to wait for a person to fall in love with you who will probably never love you the way you love them.
Some of you are also hurting yourself by pretending to be that person’s friend just to get your way. If all you want is sex and you are pretending to be her friend to see if you can get it, WRONG! He/she is a FRIEND. Stop wasting your time, there are billions of men/women in the world that you can bang. Don't expect someone that friendzoned you to give you their private parts to you because you’re “such a good friend.” Chances are, he/she can see through the bullshit anyway.
The issue with friendzone is that the person being friendzoned for some strange reason believes that the person who friendzones them owes them something. So you listened to your friend whine and cry over their SO for hours, great, that’s what friends are supposed to do! What else did you expect to happen? That he/she would fall into your arms and realize that you are the better person? (If that is the case) NOPE that doesn't happen. If the person you want is into shit bags, then let them deal with the shit bags. Even if he/she ends up single, they will just go for another shit bag.
So for those of you wondering how to get out of the friendzone? Move on! Find someone else who wants you! Stop hurting yourself over someone who is not interested in you! if that person that friendzoned you does come around all of a sudden wanting you after being treated like crap by the dude/chick they rejected you for, then they’re shit out of luck.