Change For Yourself, Not For Others

[krkkrk23]

Change for yourself, not for others. Change for the better, not the worse. Be confident in all you do, and all that you do is being yourself. Because you don't change for others. Make sense? Nah? Sorry. It does? Great. Respond how you wish, because this is what I believe and stand by. I could say a lot on this topic, but let's be honest, a lot of people don't read really long myTakes.

[HandsomeRaj]

Very well written young lady. You should have said a lot more that you mention :)

On MY TAKES people DO read long takes as long as you
1. Keep them in points like 1. 2. 3. 4.
2. Figure out relevant and interesting pictures between a few points making it visually attractive
3. Maybe post a link or 2 if relevant
4. Give each point a heading :)

I'd sure love to read another MY TAKE from you on this topic on those lines and notice a lot more people will read :)

Good luck young lady, you have a flair for writing so do it :)

[krkkrk23]

I know what I could have done. I know what I did. I know what I plan to do in the future.

[HandsomeRaj]

It's good to be confident and glad you are :)

[krkkrk23]

xD I have absolutely no confidence in myself. That's why I kept it short and simple. But I will stand by the fact that I don't change just because people tell me to

[HandsomeRaj]

I don't mean to argue your point young lady but 'I don't have confidence' and 'I don't change because people tell me to' is a sign of low confidence and esteem based defiance. Don't write a longer take because anyone including me is telling you, do it cause you are capable of it. Unless you step into the water, you'll never know how deep or cold / warm it is :)

[krkkrk23]

If you step into the water, and it's really cold, you hesitate. The best way to get in is by jumping right in. I took a step, decided it was too cold, and now I'm avoiding it.

[Mgoods]

My husband always accepted me 100%. He has never asked me to change a thing and I've never wanted him to change a thing. To be fully accepted and cherished by someone, is actually a very significant thing and totally worth looking for, in a relationship!

[Anonymous]

I remember there was a girl that wanted to be my friend but I wasn't intrested she was such a bitch. But one of those that acts like she was an innocent but she wasn't. Anyways she always why dont u wear high heel or wearmakeup that a girly thing to do. And later she even question if I was straight or a lesbian. I was like No I am Straight n I like Guys. But she always wanted some dirt on me cuz she wanted to show people I was a hypocrite but I wasn't all I do is study go to school I am not a bad person. But She would sneak iut with her boyfriend read dirty books. take pic of herself n act like nothing happened. So I stop talking to her good thing I dont see her I will never talk to her again that bitch she wanted me to be just like her. Si anyways I wasn't going to change for her I am me who I am n we are all diffrent.

[R3d_Anonymous]

Good myTake.

Many people in the modern age commodify relationships aiming for some objective best.

The best path is to subjectively be the best you can.

[Kelfuma]

There's this girl that I like who lives on the other side of the planet. I'm changing just for her even though I have never seen her and unsure of her feelings towards me.

[krkkrk23]

What are you planning on changing exactly?

[Kelfuma]

Uh... To stop my outbursts and to tone my body.

[krkkrk23]

Is that seriously all for her?

[Kelfuma]

I'm pretty serious yes. I'm still skeptical of my prospects of actually meeting her one day.

[krkkrk23]

You can do it, but do it for the right reason

[Kelfuma]

Wait a minute, I meant that I have never met her. I have seen a handful of her pictures and I have known her for 7 months now.

[krkkrk23]

okay? Still do it for the right reason.

[Maxemeister]

In under 75 words u have written one of my favorite myTakes!

Except… a picture is worth a THOUSAND WORDS!

[2payts1]

it says you're not active anymore but ya i am

[James19]

Good short take

[Anonymous]

I like you :)

[krkkrk23]

Oh you do? Then why are you always anonymous on my posts ;p

[Opinion Owner]

Because I'm too old :P But you sound pretty mature for your age

[krkkrk23]

I am mature. Stop being anonymoussssss. I don't like it.