Girls make it seem like they have it harder because they complain more. It's actually one of their favorite hobbies: complaining about everything that bothers them.
For example how much courage a guy has to build up to talk or ask out a girl he thinks is attractive and gets denied. That's a big blow to his selfesteeem.
When girls tell guys that their ugly or fat that can mess with are heads for quite awhile. The same as telling a skinny guy he needs to workout or a guy in shape that he's fat can mess with his head. It can cause him to stop eating or doubt that all that work on the gym is a waste of time.
You don't mention when a gorl gives a guy her number and never attends to answer his call or decides to flake out and stand him up on a date.
Words_and_Wisdom, I agree. 94% of Work Deaths are Male. Men, age 20-24 commit suicide at 6 times the rate of Women. Men are expected to be the Providers. Chivlary mandates that Men pay for Diners, Movies, etc. If you get divorced... look out! The ex-wife gets custody of the children 90% of the time. 50% of his Assets are paid to the ex-wife. 17% of Jail Inmates in the United States are MEN who simply CAN'T afford to pay Alimony/Child Support.
Have you heard of He Man? Jaw lines? The V? Similar situations with girls barbies and magazines. We have our own magazine that does the same thing.
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Is that the only thing you have a problem with? Yeah but its not to a girls level. Even hot guys with ripped bodies aren't going to have their self esteem crushed by a girl calling him skinny or ugly. The hot guy whos clearly attractive and jacked and knows it isn't going to care.
Meanwhile the girl equivalent to him would her self esteem crushed if she got called fat and ugly. If a hot chick at her calibur would react that way, imagine what a decent looking girl would feel, and what an ugly girl feel then.
Their both problems but Its not comparison about whos affected by it more.
You're absolutely right girls are more sensitive it doesn't mean they have more issues to overcome its just more emotionally expressive. And I don't know about you but I'm pretty much a baby like I legit best myself up when people criticize just like a "girl"
there's clearly more problems than self esteem problems. You didn't try to shoot down anything else in the take. Thats one issue. And it was caused by the media and fashion industry, not girls being emotional. The same thing would happen to guys if we had the "exact" same thing immersed in our lives just the guy version. But we dont.
So please tell me why all my other points are wrong
Then it doesn't apply to you. If your unsure about your looks that can hurt a lot. But a guy who knows he's attractive and is well aware that most girl like him isn't going to get phased by that if one girl calls him ugly.
Meanhile a hot chick who knows she's hot will take a huge self esteem drop most of the time.
Its still worse when girls hear it regardless. The fact that even hit girls of that calibur would be broken down by it shows how much worse it would be if a decent looking or ugly girl heard it.
Its not just face its body image too. You tell an inshape girl she's fat and shell usually believe you or feel insecure about it.
A girl tells a jacked dude he's skin and bones he's not going to react like that.
Imagine what a girl with a shitty body feels. Im not doubting guys can't be self concious about their bodies but its not at a girls level
Thats clearly not the only problem they have. Ithought that was the only problem you had with the myTake. Explain everything you disagree with in the take then.
Look at it from a GIRLS mindset not a GUYS. Guys you can't say you wouldn't care if you got the girl equivalents because of how youd respond as a guy, we think differently. If we were GIRLS our whole lives , getting sex when we want wouldn't be the greatest thing it would be if we were a guy.
These problems i mentioned are worse for girls because they grew up being girls and they think with girls mindset. If you were a girl your whole life you would think the same way. You wouldn't have a guys opinion about them.
OhioNativeForLife, you need to completely change your mindset! Project your masculine essence and confidence. Your 24 now. Time is on YOUR side. Women age like milk, Men age like Wine. Stop chasing Women. Yes, its difficult. Put your energy in improving yourself. Workout. Go back to school. Save your money. Its been said "that you can either save money or date... but you can't do both". Go to Amazon. com and order "Gorilla Mindset". Do this and the "game" will change in your favor. When you turn 30, you will become the prize, not Women. A woman's Sexual Market Value" will decrease. You can start dating Women that are 20-25.
Opinion Owner, Yes, Men do get saggy and old but not when you are 30-35. Also, you can certainly take steps for the rest of your life to stay fit and trim. Rule of Thumb: A Man can date a younger woman as long as SHE is not old enough to be YOUR DAUGHTER! I say, 20 or more years difference gets "creepy".
Women typically look to Men as being the Provider, so yes, Money is important. In a sense, Women look at you as a utility. If a Woman wants to have babies, she is looking for a Man with resources. As for giving money, its not a requirement to simply give them money.
Yes! People put way too much emphasis on gender. While there are a lot of differences, we're all people and we all have the same basic stuff like emotions, hardships in life, etc.
It would be helpful only if the transgender actually looks like a real chick or guy after their operation. Most I've seen dont look like a real person of the post op sex. They look transgendered.
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LOL @ U JUST LOL. Girls definitely do not have it harder than men.
Modetatly attractive girls dont, but the rest usually do
You do realize that not every girl wants to have kids, right?
I didn't say all girls. Most people want kids. The original title was "Why girls have it harder in most cases" and it was changed by an editor.
That part applies to most who want to have families of their own. Key word "most" not all
fathoms77 usually changes em
@SweetHomicidalQueen why though? It could completely change the message
To my very core. I believe that both sexes have it hard.
But a good take!!
Re-read your MyTake when you're wondering why you can't get laid.
Girls make it seem like they have it harder because they complain more. It's actually one of their favorite hobbies: complaining about everything that bothers them.
This article is complete bullshit. Guys go through some of those same problems. Just in a different way.
Can you explain?
I know guys have their own problems too.
But the girl version is usually worse from what I've and my friends of different attractiveness / social skills have seen and experienced
For example how much courage a guy has to build up to talk or ask out a girl he thinks is attractive and gets denied. That's a big blow to his selfesteeem.
When girls tell guys that their ugly or fat that can mess with are heads for quite awhile. The same as telling a skinny guy he needs to workout or a guy in shape that he's fat can mess with his head. It can cause him to stop eating or doubt that all that work on the gym is a waste of time.
You don't mention when a gorl gives a guy her number and never attends to answer his call or decides to flake out and stand him up on a date.
Already could tell this article would have mainly femlae upvotes. Lol. Seems gag is pro bashing males again.
Honestly I'd rather have the problems and benefits of being a woman than being a man.
Its okay. Are we talking attractive or unnattractive?
Words_and_Wisdom, I agree. 94% of Work Deaths are Male. Men, age 20-24 commit suicide at 6 times the rate of Women. Men are expected to be the Providers. Chivlary mandates that Men pay for Diners, Movies, etc. If you get divorced... look out! The ex-wife gets custody of the children 90% of the time. 50% of his Assets are paid to the ex-wife. 17% of Jail Inmates in the United States are MEN who simply CAN'T afford to pay Alimony/Child Support.
Have you heard of He Man? Jaw lines? The V? Similar situations with girls barbies and magazines. We have our own magazine that does the same thing.
Is that the only thing you have a problem with?
Yeah but its not to a girls level. Even hot guys with ripped bodies aren't going to have their self esteem crushed by a girl calling him skinny or ugly. The hot guy whos clearly attractive and jacked and knows it isn't going to care.
Meanwhile the girl equivalent to him would her self esteem crushed if she got called fat and ugly. If a hot chick at her calibur would react that way, imagine what a decent looking girl would feel, and what an ugly girl feel then.
Their both problems but Its not comparison about whos affected by it more.
*would have her self esteem crushed
You're absolutely right girls are more sensitive it doesn't mean they have more issues to overcome its just more emotionally expressive. And I don't know about you but I'm pretty much a baby like I legit best myself up when people criticize just like a "girl"
there's clearly more problems than self esteem problems. You didn't try to shoot down anything else in the take. Thats one issue. And it was caused by the media and fashion industry, not girls being emotional. The same thing would happen to guys if we had the "exact" same thing immersed in our lives just the guy version. But we dont.
So please tell me why all my other points are wrong
Oh my, what's your username so I can follow you? Lol XD
Good mytake
Ohhh c''mon. Even White Knights are better than this.
Yea right. If a girl calls me ugly, it tears me up inside. I feel like the loser of evolution and completely inferior to those with better looks.
Are you hot and well aware of it?
No. But some girls have thought so.
Then it doesn't apply to you. If your unsure about your looks that can hurt a lot. But a guy who knows he's attractive and is well aware that most girl like him isn't going to get phased by that if one girl calls him ugly.
Meanhile a hot chick who knows she's hot will take a huge self esteem drop most of the time.
And im sorry you felt that when it happened
I would estimate that 0.0001% of the male population meets that criteria.
Its still worse when girls hear it regardless. The fact that even hit girls of that calibur would be broken down by it shows how much worse it would be if a decent looking or ugly girl heard it.
Its not just face its body image too. You tell an inshape girl she's fat and shell usually believe you or feel insecure about it.
A girl tells a jacked dude he's skin and bones he's not going to react like that.
Imagine what a girl with a shitty body feels.
Im not doubting guys can't be self concious about their bodies but its not at a girls level
*hot girls
I'm supposed to give a fuck what these girls feel like?
Okay so you understand but dont care?
Its okay if you dont care
Is that their petty little problems?
Thats clearly not the only problem they have. Ithought that was the only problem you had with the myTake. Explain everything you disagree with in the take then.
That I'm supposed to feel bad about this pettiness of a problem they have. Fuck them.
Im not saying feel bad. Its an opinion about how girls are more likely to have it harder than guys.
Your welcome to not care
I don't think they really have it harder. They can get sex whenever they want.
Look at it from a GIRLS mindset not a GUYS. Guys you can't say you wouldn't care if you got the girl equivalents because of how youd respond as a guy, we think differently. If we were GIRLS our whole lives , getting sex when we want wouldn't be the greatest thing it would be if we were a guy.
These problems i mentioned are worse for girls because they grew up being girls and they think with girls mindset. If you were a girl your whole life you would think the same way. You wouldn't have a guys opinion about them.
And I'm saying I don't care about this petty problem they have.
Its agreed
OhioNativeForLife, you need to completely change your mindset! Project your masculine essence and confidence. Your 24 now. Time is on YOUR side. Women age like milk, Men age like Wine. Stop chasing Women. Yes, its difficult. Put your energy in improving yourself. Workout. Go back to school. Save your money. Its been said "that you can either save money or date... but you can't do both". Go to Amazon. com and order "Gorilla Mindset". Do this and the "game" will change in your favor. When you turn 30, you will become the prize, not Women. A woman's Sexual Market Value" will decrease. You can start dating Women that are 20-25.
@MagiAlphaOne why do men age like wine? Don't they get saggy and old? Is having money a requirement and am I expected to give any to them?
Opinion Owner, Yes, Men do get saggy and old but not when you are 30-35. Also, you can certainly take steps for the rest of your life to stay fit and trim. Rule of Thumb: A Man can date a younger woman as long as SHE is not old enough to be YOUR DAUGHTER! I say, 20 or more years difference gets "creepy".
Women typically look to Men as being the Provider, so yes, Money is important. In a sense, Women look at you as a utility. If a Woman wants to have babies, she is looking for a Man with resources. As for giving money, its not a requirement to simply give them money.
@MagiAlphaOne why is having money important if you're not giving it to them?
White knights make me cringe so hard. Fck dude.. nothing else to say
Women have it way easier. Stop being a pathetic white knight.
Wrong I care about looks too. I will not date a guy I find unattractive
Everyone cares about looks to an extent, it is just that so many women refuse to admit they care about looks.
What's with all this comparison, though? Can't we just acknowledge that being a human being is hard and move on with our lives?
Yes! People put way too much emphasis on gender. While there are a lot of differences, we're all people and we all have the same basic stuff like emotions, hardships in life, etc.
@aWes0MeNeSs Exactly! This whole "battle of the sexes" thing is a waste of time; we should be working TOGETHER!
Yes!
@aWes0MeNeSs Yes indeed! XD
You are trying to get bonus points! 😉
Somebody understands. Great Post!
a transgender should write this
It would be helpful only if the transgender actually looks like a real chick or guy after their operation. Most I've seen dont look like a real person of the post op sex. They look transgendered.
Thatll cha ge the way people treat them and percieve them
*change
please stop trying to pander up to women.