Yeah, I think most women do love a gentlemen. Even if they don't do every single gentlemanly gesture, if a guy is a gentleman at heart, it's appreciated.
It's a nice thought, but it doesn't work in reality. I was raised to treat women like this, but most women think this is an antiquated and silly way for guys to act. It gets more laughs than appreciation.
The only one that don’t already come naturally is buying things like that because I’ve never dated or had a job before. I accidentally think chivalry is fun. Makes me feel more dignified. 😘 lol (I mostly do it for them, of course. 😊)
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it's true this is a true gentleman qualities and i was taught to do all these things actually and i want to make my girl feel special and perfect and this can only be achieved by being a gentle man to her
i love this take and i like the girls like you described. this was a great passionate view and i hope we all guys can behave when we are around such nobel women , who still are women and not something that others tell them to be
Don't care about most of this shit. Just be nice and respectful, which should be obvious.
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Women, in and of themselves, don't deserve gentlemen. Only ladies are deserving of a gentleman. So, if a woman wants me to treat her like a gentleman, then she must be a lady.
With the heavy emphasis placed upon that last key point of yours. If you do all of those other things, and behave like a consummate gentleman for a woman, DON'T expect anything physical, much less anything sexual, from her. EVER. If you DO want anything physical or remotely sexual with her, it WON'T EVER WORK.
I use to be a gentleman but not anymore. Opening the door for women would often offend women. In my experience women no longer appreciate a gentleman so never again will I treat a woman with respect.
I get it when a good looking guy does these things he's a gentleman, but when an ugly guy does these things he's a pretend nice guy who just gets friend zoned. Gotta love the hypocrisy women have.
PrincessPie, how entitled/narcissistic of you. Respect is earned, my dear. You wanted equality, you got it. Women threw their social contract in the bin but expect men to hold on to theirs? Screw that. You say chivalry is dead? Well guess what, women killed it. I’m done apologizing. MGTOW
... I am okay if he buys me pizza and let me wear his hoodies
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My boyfriend does all of these😍 Except the flowers, cause he knows i dont like taking care of them. & i convince him to split the bill despite his kind offers♡
I am glad that some girls still feel this way, but it is hard to be a man these days. So many girls are so anti-guy programmed these days.
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I’ve always done these things without hesitation and paid for the first date and the rest of them too , I probably won’t associate with women that don’t accept this anyway so I probably don’t continue with those types or click with them to begin with
Pay on the first date? You havin' a Turkish? Shit me, that's rude... Everyone knows that a gentleman is one who gets out the bath to piss in the sink...
Many girls are crazy feminists. Most guys who date regularly have had at least one girl give us shit about this sort of stuff.
Secondly, girls today aren't very lady like. I personally don't feel obligated or proud to treat a skanky girl like this. Its honestly humiliating to be a gentleman to a girl who slept with every tom dick and harry. Like ill hold the door while 10 other guys you just netflix and chill with? I dont think so.
I just wish this was read by every girl because there are girls with savage attitudes and they just hook with the extra bad boys, however only take years to learn that they have been destroying themselves. <3
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Yeah, I think most women do love a gentlemen. Even if they don't do every single gentlemanly gesture, if a guy is a gentleman at heart, it's appreciated.
It's a nice thought, but it doesn't work in reality. I was raised to treat women like this, but most women think this is an antiquated and silly way for guys to act. It gets more laughs than appreciation.
The only one that don’t already come naturally is buying things like that because I’ve never dated or had a job before. I accidentally think chivalry is fun. Makes me feel more dignified. 😘 lol (I mostly do it for them, of course. 😊)
it's true this is a true gentleman qualities and i was taught to do all these things actually and i want to make my girl feel special and perfect and this can only be achieved by being a gentle man to her
i love this take and i like the girls like you described. this was a great passionate view and i hope we all guys can behave when we are around such nobel women , who still are women and not something that others tell them to be
Don't care about most of this shit. Just be nice and respectful, which should be obvious.
Women, in and of themselves, don't deserve gentlemen. Only ladies are deserving of a gentleman. So, if a woman wants me to treat her like a gentleman, then she must be a lady.
I wouldn't mind having someone pay for me on a date. But I think it's more right to do it 50/50.
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please report him , i did so he posted that offensive comments few times here and some of the girls were also under age
@lordhossein did that and blocked him
thanks dear friend
With the heavy emphasis placed upon that last key point of yours. If you do all of those other things, and behave like a consummate gentleman for a woman, DON'T expect anything physical, much less anything sexual, from her. EVER. If you DO want anything physical or remotely sexual with her, it WON'T EVER WORK.
I use to be a gentleman but not anymore. Opening the door for women would often offend women. In my experience women no longer appreciate a gentleman so never again will I treat a woman with respect.
I get it when a good looking guy does these things he's a gentleman, but when an ugly guy does these things he's a pretend nice guy who just gets friend zoned. Gotta love the hypocrisy women have.
PrincessPie, how entitled/narcissistic of you. Respect is earned, my dear. You wanted equality, you got it. Women threw their social contract in the bin but expect men to hold on to theirs? Screw that. You say chivalry is dead? Well guess what, women killed it. I’m done apologizing.
MGTOW
... I am okay if he buys me pizza and let me wear his hoodies
My boyfriend does all of these😍 Except the flowers, cause he knows i dont like taking care of them.
& i convince him to split the bill despite his kind offers♡
I am glad that some girls still feel this way, but it is hard to be a man these days. So many girls are so anti-guy programmed these days.
I’ve always done these things without hesitation and paid for the first date and the rest of them too , I probably won’t associate with women that don’t accept this anyway so I probably don’t continue with those types or click with them to begin with
There's a fine line between these all working in a romantic way and finding yourself put in the "friend zone"...
Pay on the first date? You havin' a Turkish? Shit me, that's rude... Everyone knows that a gentleman is one who gets out the bath to piss in the sink...
Simples...
Many girls are crazy feminists. Most guys who date regularly have had at least one girl give us shit about this sort of stuff.
Secondly, girls today aren't very lady like. I personally don't feel obligated or proud to treat a skanky girl like this. Its honestly humiliating to be a gentleman to a girl who slept with every tom dick and harry. Like ill hold the door while 10 other guys you just netflix and chill with? I dont think so.
I just wish this was read by every girl because there are girls with savage attitudes and they just hook with the extra bad boys, however only take years to learn that they have been destroying themselves. <3