Hating Our Femininity (Page 3)

[AD240pCharlie]

Femininity is beautiful. Don't let third-wave feminism change who you are!
This goes for feminine men as well!

[witches]

This was interesting to read :) though I don’t agree with you on everything

[CoffeeWC]

I cannot agree with you more

[Anonymous]

Feminism. Why can't we just live and let live. People have their rights, we need to respect that. Why is it so hard to give

[Anonymous]

Because we biologically are stronger, were pushed harder which makes some guys hate their masculinity. We don't have the same testosterone level tho and it's all in our genes according to science and it's not easy boosting them if their genetically low. Society hates feminine guys more than tomboys tho.

[Anonymous]

well im not feminine and hate being a girl because im more masculine

[myTake Owner]

But tom boys are feminine too lol a girl may not be in a dress or into "male" things, whatev that means, but still very feminine.

Im very tomboy, skateboarder, athletic, I have even beat up a couple guys in my life lol but no one has ever called me manly, because sports, collared shirts, fighting - women have done these things for several thousand years.

We even invented beer lol xD

The problem is when we start feeling ashamed of being girly, as if a non-tomboy girl is inferior to us because she is just into softer things.

I feel the same confidence as a female whether Im grinding a rail, or in a cocktail dress and stilettos.

[cherryphi82]

"Im very tomboy, skateboarder, athletic, I have even beat up a couple guys in my life lol but no one has ever called me manly, because sports, collared shirts, fighting - women have done these things for several thousand years."

I'm confused. You put women down who call themselves tomboys, yet you resort to the same kind of bragging about stuff that makes you look more masculine and frankly, aggressive. Yes, there are histories of women soldiers in certain cultures of the world, but that's quite different from what you are stating about yourself. It seems like you are engaging in the very behavior that you criticize others for. What makes the difference between you and them? Strength and virtue come from the mind, not from the fact that you can beat up boys, wear collared shirts or be athletic. Maybe you just articulated yourself awkwardly, but it sounds like you want your cake and eat it, too. And that's the point. Most women HAVE to be good at both masculine and feminine traits

[cherryphi82]

in order to count at all because neither men or women would take them seriously. So, I think you're being hypocritical accusing certain women of hate towards others and then you try to claim the same virtues that you then eschew in your take. If you want to make your point/take better, I think you should work on defining more clearly and in detail who those people are and what they are like that you are saying are against your views. Because with this paragraph, I'm starting to see some hypocrisy poking through that risks making your entire take moot.

[myTake Owner]

@cherryphi82

No no, you misunderstand.

This mytake is not about stating that girlier women are the only feminine ones, its about embracing ALL aspects of femininity.

Tomboy girls are feminine as well - feminity doesn't mean dainty skirts and heels.

Whats odd is denouncing the glittery side, if you will, of femininity to say a true, non patriarchal controlled woman has to be tom boy like or masculine lol

Tom boys are feminine, as are girly girls.

Historically, not every woman was interested in fluffy dresses and a pampered life, some were warriors and even sported clothing similar to mens.

Depends on her taste.

The destructive part here, is making women develop an inferiority complex by dividing women up, by saying a tomboy is superior to a girly girl because she is more masculine..

What lol?

[MonaLee]

I've never heart such designations from men just from females

[Anonymous]

I'm glad you not ashamed. You shouldn't be. Women need to address their inferiority complex and stop blaming men and nature for how they feel.

[lernulo]

I can argue some things, like the "dominant", because I have seen many times the woman dominating, just when they are women, they dominate in a different form.

But I almost agree with all

[BirdFan360]

I'd like to live in the world described in this post please.

[Riggers]

Insert feminist take number 5,703,209 on GAG here...

eugh... so boring

[myTake Owner]

Insert non-chalant this is so boring but actually interesting enough for me to post on take #10,789,475

But thanks for the bump lol

[Riggers]

''but actually interesting enough for me to post on take ''. didn't even read it , quick scrolled down it, Usual blabber the last 1000 feminist from tumblr have posted on here today, same rinsed and repeat chugged out nonsense about being strong and independent and embracing all the feminine bullshit, Nothing interesting, Nothing new, Nothing that hasn't been butchered into hell a billion times before.

Feel like both your time writing it, and my time hover reading it could have been better spend, I don't know... going outside, maybe plating a tree or someshit, Eh, haha

[myTake Owner]

Lol why are you still replying?

Feel a little butt hurt for looking like an idiot?

*yawn this is so boring, but Im going to post it is boring instead of anything relevant because the world revolves around my discontentment.

But your a 19yr old millenial, so thats what y'all think anyway.

can't put together anything remotely intelligent because your snapchat post about what you ate this morning is more important than the reality you live in.

Lol little kids these days.

[Riggers]

''Little kids'', Cute, you're a couple years older then me at most, Get of your high fucking horse mate.

Haha, Im merely saying your entire topic is beating a dead horse, Thats been beaten a million times before. And its boring as fuck.

[france1]

feminism
was created by satan in order to separate man and women from having kids
so the seed could not be born
and also part of the one world society

[PrincessPie]

I like being the weaker sex <3

[dandee55]

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[Yesnomaybe85]

I have found women to be extremely judgmental and the assume the know someone by there outward apperance

[myTake Owner]

Men are the same

[jacquesvol]

I have found fellow men to be extremely judgmenal.

[John_Doesnt]

This seems more like third world and religious sexism.

[Anonymous]

Well said! I love, love, LOVE feminine girls!

[myTake Owner]

Notice how the guys and girls for feminine women get down voted lol

[bacca400]

As a person who was not exposed to feminine, rational, supportive, hard-working women for the first few decades of my life, I can say you might be getting downvoted because "feminine" today means: many women don't work, don't clean, don't cook, don't support their family, don't clip coupons, have shopping addictions, spend everything the man makes thus threatening the family and creates both emotional and financial stability within the household.

While you might be thinking of the "old feminine from the 1950s" where a wife could stay home (not possible in most cases today), and she actually did clean, cook, take care of the kids instead of plant them in front of the TV, actually teach the kids useful things they will need as an adult, was supportive of her husband. I support the "old feminine" which is what an adult is.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, that is strange QA! I wouldn't have thought it was a problem to love feminine girls and yet I already have 4 downvotes!

[Opinion Owner]

@bacca400 Yeah, that's what I'm talking about. A nuturing, caring, beautiful, loyal, feminine woman. That's a something worth loving for sure!

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[ovoxo_]

I'm offended by your take. I'm a feminist. You are a gender traitor.

[myTake Owner]

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[ovoxo_]

Thank you for your flowers. I feel better :)

[myTake Owner]

Yay xD

[Keener9176]

Why can't I get my girl to swollow when she's giving head been together 5 years now and till dis day she won't swollow

[myTake Owner]

Wrong forum lol