I have this personal judgement that people who judge girls/guys who sleep around are the people who wanted to sleep with the said girl/guy but was either denied or has no guts to tell her.
I mean even if they get STDs, they shouldn't be judged. It's a mistake, that's all. Now if they intentionally spread STDs... That's a whole different discussion.
I don't agree with the STD part. If a girl has STDs she should be called up on that and guys should be careful. STDs can be serious and a guy's health IS more important that a girls pride or whatever, so I'll have to disagree.
I know STDs are serious but if she had STD "by accident" - not 100% her fault. It takes 2 to tango. And BOTH guys and girls should be careful about STDs.
Exactly. People (girls too) are animals and we are biologically wired to sleep around. There's nothing wrong with that. Dating and monogamy are unnatural, I mean expecting your partner to only sleep with one person is unfair. Cheating shouldn't be shamed either. I'm glad you agree!
There is really only one reason why it needs to stop It is not your business how much or how little sex someone else has it does not concern you Simple as that Everyone should mind their own business
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"There's nothing wrong with having sex with many people."
This ^^ is false. It's false for women and for men.
Lots of things are "natural". Doesn't mean we should do them. Taking things that belong to other people is natural. Acting aggressive toward others when we are angry at them is natural. But we need use our intelligence and restraint. Same with promiscuity.
Men are not worshipped for having sex, where the hell did you get that idea? No one gives a damn, no one goes around high fiving a guy because he managed to get his dick in a hole. I have no idea where this myth came from but its absurd. Also its a stupid mindset, its proven to be detrimental so why the hell would you do it? Because some one else does? Insanity.
How hard would it be for you to find a guy to fuck you? Answer that for yourself, and then thin againk how hard it would be if you were a guy, and you were looking for a woman. There's your reason why men are usually not sluts.
Guys are slut-shamed too. Don't make this about Feminism because it's not. Girls call guys fuckboys and slut-shame. Also girls mainly slut shame each other.
They're not. But men can be envied or admired by other men for fucking the hottest or a group of the hottest girls. I had a sexually obsessed roommate named Brian that would fuck tons of pigs (in addition to some nice ones). I don't think he was admired by anyone I knew.
@hellionthesagereborn women like experienced men so that's why she thinks men are being worshipped for sleeping around. In the end it's just women rewarding promiscuous behaviour. And they expect men to do the same lol.
@TheUglyMan So if women aren't promiscuous where are men going to get it from? Human beings are promiscuous, it's the nature of things. The name calling, the negative labels applied to women is the subject.
@CuChullan humans are not promiscuous. We have never had a culture that was promiscuous. If you look promiscuous species have some things in common, namely that the males are never involved with the lives of their offspring as they will not invest resources into a child that may or may not be theirs. Humans on the other hand are hyper involved, this alone would be evidence enough that humans are not promiscuous by nature. Also the fact that most if not all promiscuous mating species have bones in their penis in order to maintain an erection longer to prolong sex and by extension to prolong the time there sperm has to fertilize the egg. They also have larger testicles which increases the amount of sperm in order to essentially overwhelm any other males sperm, humans on the other hand have relatively smaller testicles compared to promiscuous mating animals. Our culture and physiology both show we are not promiscuous by nature.
@CuChullan They are fucking the same group of women. Not all women are promiscuous, but a relatively small but visible group of them are, and those are who all the men are fucking.
@Samehere00 "Not all women are promiscuous, but a relatively small but visible group of them are, and those are who all the men are fucking." Well, maybe because most girls fail to understand that there are nuances between slut and voluntary celibacy. Most girls rarely if ever get with guys because they are either witing for the prince on a white horse, or they are too inept at everything that they are afraid of trying to date. Guys go for whatever's left. Girls -step up your game.
Enough with this social engineering it's getting boring now. If you want to sleep around do it your choice but don't bitch about the socio-political consequences and expect people to think like you.
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because i need to lose my virginity so i need to find where these sluts are so i can do it already and get it the fuck over with. if every girl becomes a prude then ill never be able to do it. so y'all better leave these girls alone
There is a significant proportion of people here who enjoy slut shaming. It seriously boggles the mind that we as a society haven't moved on from this.
Some slut-shaming has some validation. Like for example if a girl has sex with ALL of your friends just to hurt you. Then it is somewhat alright. But slut-shaming girls (and guys) for sleeping around, which they are biologically wired to do, is wrong. I'm glad you agree but I hate your "move on" attitude. The world is getting worse by the looks of it so I don't understand why you said that.
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I agree with this Take. It's just not necessary. Everyone can draw their own conclusions as to whether they want to associate with someone.
I have this personal judgement that people who judge girls/guys who sleep around are the people who wanted to sleep with the said girl/guy but was either denied or has no guts to tell her.
I mean even if they get STDs, they shouldn't be judged. It's a mistake, that's all.
Now if they intentionally spread STDs... That's a whole different discussion.
I don't agree with the STD part. If a girl has STDs she should be called up on that and guys should be careful. STDs can be serious and a guy's health IS more important that a girls pride or whatever, so I'll have to disagree.
I know STDs are serious but if she had STD "by accident" - not 100% her fault. It takes 2 to tango.
And BOTH guys and girls should be careful about STDs.
Thank you! Someone said it.
Like I'm sorry I like sex like every other young, healthy person on this planet?
Not everyone 😂
Exactly. People (girls too) are animals and we are biologically wired to sleep around. There's nothing wrong with that. Dating and monogamy are unnatural, I mean expecting your partner to only sleep with one person is unfair. Cheating shouldn't be shamed either. I'm glad you agree!
disgusting ideas... I"m glad I"m not with someone who thinks like this... cheating is wrong, sleeping with as many people as possible is wrong... omg.
There is really only one reason why it needs to stop
It is not your business how much or how little sex someone else has it does not concern you
Simple as that
Everyone should mind their own business
"There's nothing wrong with having sex with many people."
This ^^ is false. It's false for women and for men.
It's natural and humans are biologically wired to do this. So sleeping with lots of people is natural.
Lots of things are "natural". Doesn't mean we should do them. Taking things that belong to other people is natural. Acting aggressive toward others when we are angry at them is natural. But we need use our intelligence and restraint. Same with promiscuity.
I don't care about other people sexual tendencies, but I don't desire no mutt for my wife nor mother of my kids.
if men can be worshiped for screwing around so should women!
Men are not worshipped for having sex, where the hell did you get that idea? No one gives a damn, no one goes around high fiving a guy because he managed to get his dick in a hole. I have no idea where this myth came from but its absurd. Also its a stupid mindset, its proven to be detrimental so why the hell would you do it? Because some one else does? Insanity.
Let me ask you something.
How hard would it be for you to find a guy to fuck you?
Answer that for yourself, and then thin againk how hard it would be if you were a guy, and you were looking for a woman. There's your reason why men are usually not sluts.
@Benedek38 Think there the whiff of jealousy and begrudgery from your comment.
Guys are slut-shamed too. Don't make this about Feminism because it's not. Girls call guys fuckboys and slut-shame. Also girls mainly slut shame each other.
@CuChullan Whether you are right or not is entirely irrelevant to the correctness of my observation.
They're not. But men can be envied or admired by other men for fucking the hottest or a group of the hottest girls. I had a sexually obsessed roommate named Brian that would fuck tons of pigs (in addition to some nice ones). I don't think he was admired by anyone I knew.
@hellionthesagereborn women like experienced men so that's why she thinks men are being worshipped for sleeping around. In the end it's just women rewarding promiscuous behaviour. And they expect men to do the same lol.
@TheUglyMan So if women aren't promiscuous where are men going to get it from? Human beings are promiscuous, it's the nature of things.
The name calling, the negative labels applied to women is the subject.
@CuChullan you make it sound like the only way to get sex is with casual sex with women in bars.
@CuChullan humans are not promiscuous. We have never had a culture that was promiscuous. If you look promiscuous species have some things in common, namely that the males are never involved with the lives of their offspring as they will not invest resources into a child that may or may not be theirs. Humans on the other hand are hyper involved, this alone would be evidence enough that humans are not promiscuous by nature. Also the fact that most if not all promiscuous mating species have bones in their penis in order to maintain an erection longer to prolong sex and by extension to prolong the time there sperm has to fertilize the egg. They also have larger testicles which increases the amount of sperm in order to essentially overwhelm any other males sperm, humans on the other hand have relatively smaller testicles compared to promiscuous mating animals. Our culture and physiology both show we are not promiscuous by nature.
Give me one reason why openning your legs to random guy should be worshipped.
Guys*
@CuChullan They are fucking the same group of women. Not all women are promiscuous, but a relatively small but visible group of them are, and those are who all the men are fucking.
@Samehere00 "Not all women are promiscuous, but a relatively small but visible group of them are, and those are who all the men are fucking."
Well, maybe because most girls fail to understand that there are nuances between slut and voluntary celibacy. Most girls rarely if ever get with guys because they are either witing for the prince on a white horse, or they are too inept at everything that they are afraid of trying to date. Guys go for whatever's left.
Girls -step up your game.
That is why I whore shame instead.
Didn't you once reply you were promiscuous and fucked many guys (paraphrasing)?
@Oram52 Therefore?
Therefore... it contradicts your answer above.
@Oram52 But I do whore shame, I call people whores a lot when I'm mad, what is your problem?
@Oram52 Oh and I see I have a fan, you know me well, want my autograph?
Fan? hmm not at all
Problem none.
Simply on one hand you seem keen on "whore" shaming when as acknoledged would make you same.
@Oram52 Did you just call me a whore? and it's okay to be a fan I like me too.
I am sorry but I don't agree but that is my choice. I hope you steer clear of all the different STDs. But that is your choice have a happy life...
Most girls sleep around so stop giving a fuck.
All is fine as long as they aren't dating me or people close to me.
true. slut shaming is made up by judgmental people who think they know it all and the meaning to everyones lives. when they dont.
Exactly. Sleeping around with lots of people is literally normal for young women so I don't know why they shame each other.
I agree. It's wrong to think that sex is an achievement for a guy but a bad thing for a girl. That makes no sense.
Sex is a purely physical, meaningless thing and therefore no one should be applauded or shamed for having it.
I think sex is not meaningless, but I meant that girls shouldn't be ashamed of doing it and guys shouldn't be proud of doing it.
Enough with this social engineering it's getting boring now. If you want to sleep around do it your choice but don't bitch about the socio-political consequences and expect people to think like you.
because i need to lose my virginity so i need to find where these sluts are so i can do it already and get it the fuck over with. if every girl becomes a prude then ill never be able to do it. so y'all better leave these girls alone
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Really? How come? And I respect your answer by the way.
There is a significant proportion of people here who enjoy slut shaming. It seriously boggles the mind that we as a society haven't moved on from this.
Some slut-shaming has some validation. Like for example if a girl has sex with ALL of your friends just to hurt you. Then it is somewhat alright. But slut-shaming girls (and guys) for sleeping around, which they are biologically wired to do, is wrong. I'm glad you agree but I hate your "move on" attitude. The world is getting worse by the looks of it so I don't understand why you said that.
So you like being used? Very well then.
What do you mean?
I myself want to know 😅 wrong reply for the take lmao I forgot I'm on a different one
Sluts are scum and should be ostracized from society.
I like being slut shamed !!! I just consider the source, and it's usually pretty funny !!
I dislike sluts of a genders.