I saw my friend wearing diapers? what would you do?

[Anonymous]

He is my friend. We know each other relatively for a long time. (about 1.5 years)
The other day when we went out to the local lake, I realized it at his waist when he was sitting on his bicycle (he leaned forward and his shirt rode up and I was coming behind him). I'm quite sure that I saw it right. Also when he crunched down n stuff. Note that he is not old, only 21.

I was just so surprised, but didn't dare to ask him about it. Would you mention it to him if such thing happened to you? I'm just wondering what could have happened to him.

yes

no

[Wheely]

When you say what would you do? What is it that you want to do? Are you curious if you had a fetish? Would you be okay if he did? Are you guys friendly enough that you can talk about sexual stuff openly

If he wears for a need, you asking him about wearing diapers would be similar to him seeing you wearing a maxi pad and him asking you about it. That might be awkward, unless like I said you guys speak openly about those kind of things.

Whether it's for a fetish or not, it does have a taboo aspect to it. There is a lot of shame around incontinence, I think that's partly how many of us were potty trained. Of course, if it's a fetish, people often feel shamed of it or fear rejection. The one benefit of you talking to him about it and being cool with it would be that it would probably bring you closer as friends (or more?) since he knows he would be able to trust you.

[Blondiee2014]

I'm quite a curious person so if ask politely.
It could be he's had a random operation on something?
Or it might not be a diaper but rather some form of support or protection or something, either way if ask because I'd be to curious not to.

[Kaykatt]

I have needed to wear diapers 24/7 for incontinence since I was 15 most of my friends don't know but some of my closer friends do. If you do ask him just try to sound as nice as you can and just tell him you are curious. He might be really embarrassed about it.

[cristosst]

Are you wearing diapers? Me too. do you use the diaper for pee and poo? I poop and i pee my pampers every morning and evening

[littlepanties]

please contact me @Kaykatt

[PrettyBama]

I wouldn't ask. What if he gets scared that you'll tell people and he kills you?

[Asker]

kill me? :D

[PrettyBama]

Yeah lol

[Asker]

i dont think so XD

[Katy16]

I personally might depending on your relationship with him but I don't know

[SüßeJäger]

Maybe he is incontinent and doesn't want anyone to know, thus the diapers. I don't think I would ask him anything about them. he's either incontinent or he wears them cuz he wants too. I would just forget about it, he's not hurting anyone or himself.

[imaguytoo]

You are good friends? Then be blunt with him and say, "Hey, it's cool with me if you wear diapers but you should conceal it a little better around other people if you are insecure about it."

[croxy]

I have a hard time taking this seriously really, but no I wouldn't ask about it.

[rdm999999]

I wear diapers, so I can relate