30 year old virgin loner getting sexually frustrated

[cjwright79]

I''ll keep it short and sweet:

1. Never had a girlfriend

2. Dated in my early twenties but there just wasn't any chemistry, or the girls lived too far away for a viable relationship

3. I live at home with my parents and getting a job is out of the question

4. I'm getting sick of porn and other such activities

5. I have no friends

6. Otherwise I'm good to go

Any thoughts? Is this a hopeless situation?

Updates

+1 y

This question is resolved. I thank everyone for their input. :)

[crazylady29sexyfine]

WHOA buddy!

you have a list of unacceptables

FINDING the solution to NUMBER 3 will cure you of 1-6

I know that their something in life you want to achieve, something your passionate about! You need to get out and do it.

One thing That I KNOW is true as a 21 year old woman is that women want men with GOALS!

Why because a man with a dream, even if its crazy, is a man we can encourage, support and dream with! A man with a goal, plans, PLANNING insures that this dream eventually, even if hell freezes over first, will HAPPEN!

SO, you go out find what makes you tick and DO it! Seriously, live the life your meant to lead. p.s. I'm sure that destiny has nothing to do with you living with your folks, without a job

Working or at least getting out enables you to interact with people which leads to relationships, friendships etx

GOOD LUCK!

and your not hopeless til your dead! GO GET the life you deserve!

[cjwright79]

Thanks, I appreciate your positivity. :)

[crazylady29sexyfine]

I hope you actually do SOMETHING though....Life is so precious, so short that you really shouldn't waste it. I know that God has given you special gifts/talents that make you feel fulfilled!

Once you figure them out, find a JOB where you can do all things you love...It doesn't have to be the best job in the world, so long as it makes you happy! plus you never know where it may lead you and your job will ever be a bore...

[cjwright79]

Life is not precious, life is a given.

[defygrav12]

News flash, man: nobody really wants to work. Unless if you're the luck low percentage of people that have a kickass job that they truly adore, then you're just like the rest of the world and put your nose to the grindstone. Why? Because it's what you do.

Women don't want losers who sit at home with his mommy and daddy past the age of 20. I thought it was bad when you said you lived with your mom-- then you added that you don't have a job, and that it was out of the question because it's "boring." You say you'd rather be depressed than get a job...well, then welcome to your situation, it's not changing.

So if you really want any kind of action or affection, grow up and join the world...get a job, get a house. Then you'll make friends. Then you'll meet ladies. Then you'll have sex, maybe a girlfriend. Good luck!

[cjwright79]

I'd rather die than get a job!

[defygrav12]

Well, there you go....and there go your chances of getting a woman. Good luck regardless.

[Anonymous]

If you don't get a job no women will give you a second look. We don't mind taking care of our men, but we do mind being the soul financial support in a relationship. You wouldn't want to go to work everyday and come home to someone who spent the day chilling out while you stressed over bill that you were the only contributer to would you? I don't think you are hopeless or anything, I just think you need to get out and do some thing more. Then women will notice you.

[cjwright79]

A fair answer, but work is hard.

[Opinion Owner]

Work is hard, but it is also gratifying. People feel good taking care of themselves and the ones they love. It's not all bad,believe me.

[EyeSplice]

Holy crap, you're a 30 year old virgin, no friends, jerking off to porn in your parents' basement, no job, terrified and humbled of women, and you think you have any insight as to what qualifies as misogynist?

Ha ha ha ha ha!

Ha!

What a fukcing loser.

Get off your soapbox. Go to a doctor and ask them to help your testicles descend.

Then get a job, and move out on your own. It's time to act like a man.

[cjwright79]

Fair enough, but we don't even have a basement.

[coolguy93939]

right when you said getting a job is out of the question

made you hopeless.

[shewonderswhy]

Well than how do expect to meet anyone if you do nothing but sit home? Get off your butt and do something. Get a job, volunteer, join a gym. Anything and than you will meet people...You are not good to go unless you want to truly change your situation...

[Emilymarie77]

I suggest what some like to call counseling... because there is a little boy inside of you that has yet to grow up!

I do wish you all the best though..

[cjwright79]

Year of the Snake I see.

[rebecca47]

thats weird . you should be married by then. So sad to hear that. Hope you get a perfect match.

[cjwright79]

thanks

[larry69]

I have a job and 42 and all women refuse to date me as well

[ooooooo]

Why don't you have any friends? Why don't you want to get a job?

[cjwright79]

I just don't. I don't see anyone my age and if I did I would never go up and talk to them. I would never have any desire to.

And I hate jobs because they are no fun. I would rather be at home, depressed and bored, than be obliged to stay somewhere and do something I didn't want to.

[ooooooo]

How do you make money?

[Prometheus]

You hate jobs because they are no fun? Wow, forget about the situation. It's you that is hopeless.

[cjwright79]

Forgetting isn't an option. I live my life and there is no 'off' button.

[cjwright79]

I don't make or have any money.

[hot_girl]

dont worrie honey I love you too

[labellanena]

MOVE TO CALIFORNIA!

[cjwright79]

Not feasible!