30 years old VIRGIN MAN?

[LucJy_girl09]

Firstly I really love my boyfriend very much. I believe in him. But sometimes doubts don't leave my mind. I told him my past honestly before having a relationship with him. He did too. He told that he never had any girlfriend before me , he never kissed any girl, he never had sex before me. but It doesn't sound realistic to me. Because he is 30 years old man and still virgin also he didn't kiss any girl before? Sound realistic? Also, seriously he is very handsome. Blue eyes , very tall hight , very good face shape , light brown hair and perfect Face. Then how couldn't he have a girlfriend till 30? We love each other but.. I want to know his past. But everytime I ask about his past , we argue and.. he says same sentences even though it's unbelievable. What should I do? Please tell me your opinions dear people. Is he really virgin? Didn't he really have any girlfriend and didn't kissed anyone? I'm waiting for your responses dear people.

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is nearly 30 and is also a virgin.
He has had a couple of past relationships (online/LDR) and they didn't work out and left him put off dating for a very long time (years). He's very introverted, shy, nervous and alternative looking so I don't doubt him at all. Not sure if I was his first kiss, but I believe I'm his first everything else so far!

I don't see what a guy has to gain by lying that he's a virgin at that age?

[menina]

I doubt he is a virgin and also the never kissed a girl before, if he's attractive.
Maybe he's lying to you for some reason.

[menina]

*that he

[GingerGuy]

Virgin and no girlfriend are certainly possible and probably not that uncommon. But to never even have kissed, I don't know if I buy that one. Unless it's religious beliefs or something like that and he's purposely avoided it, it's unlikely I think? But use your judgement as you know him better than we do. Has he ever lied about anything before? If you have no reason not to believe/trust him, then he's probably telling the truth?

[ouroborosidiot]

Could it be that he was interested in someone got friendzoned for a long time? Or maybe some screwed him over and he boxed himself away from others, into a workaholic cocoon? I know people who wasted years with those two excuses plus in this internet age, time flies when you burn it on video games and what not...

[ITKing]

I have a male cousin who's in his mid 30s and he's a virgin, never kissed a woman, never had a eoman etc...

We all thought he was gay or something, but he's not.

We tried to set him up with different women, he refused... we gave up trying.

It's very possible he's telling the truth.

It's not much you can do unless you set him up for someone to extract info from him for you.

[Anonymous]

Totally possible. Ask him about his past, his crushes and hardships. He will be able to tell you, and then you will know it's true.
I'm nearly thirty, virgin, had only one girlfriend for two weeks in my life at age of 27 when I first and only kissed a girl...
And people tell me that I'm good looking.

[dragau4]

If you have to argue for a past he is probably hiding something but 30 year old virgin exist im more than half way there and become a so called wizard but yeah he might be hiding a hurtful fiest exoerience like I don't know first girlfriend and got hurt and might still be virgin and nevef kissed I don't know

[Ripper_E]

I don't see why it matters to you at all. If he's a virgin then he is. It doesn't take away from what you feel for each other.

[areljay]

The virgin part I can buy that, the never kissing a girl part, that's the part I find hard to believe.

[moviedude714]

It's not unusual or not unheard of for this to happen to guys

[Anonymous]

cases like him are much more common than you think, very easy to end up as a guy like that, guys have to get their shyness, awkwardness and anxiety handled but not really women for obvious reasons.

[Ricky1966]

I was a 30year old virgin, so it happens

[Danielleo]

he might be saying the truth.

[katherinejohnson]

How could we know, Sounds crazy

[Anonymous]

I watched him having sex yesterday

[fuzzylamba]

Sounds legit

[evilrainbow]

Its possible.