Any advice for an almost 32 virgin man?

[Lucky992]

I'm almost 32 years old and a good looking guy ( many people told me that) virgin and never been in a relationship I have a normal life I'm a social person amd have a small business but this thing is killing me inside, I like a girl of 28, but i fear that when she find about my total inexperience she will run away. I feel bad and ashamed I don't know what to do, time flies I think that it's late for me , the reason why it happen is that Years ago After a rejection by a girl that i liked for so long I don't pursued any girl due to this delusion, and my insecurities has grown too much. one month ago I've known a girl that work in a shop in my town and i like her so much after years of not liking so much anybody I even dreamed of her one night.
I don't speak English very well sorry for any grammar mistake. I know as I've read on internet that many women don't like to be involved with older male virgin, any advice is welcomed

[coachTanthony]

Every time a virgin asks a question their biggest fear is what happens when the girl finds out the lack of experience I have? Like what? Why would you ever discuss that at all with any woman. It won't be your lack of experience but your lack of self esteem and confidence. My advice act as if...

[Lucky992]

Yeah you're right

[TDDMS]

I was getting rejected in university so much (it was primarily because I'm from the blue collar class and many classmates were from the upper middle class) that one day I just told a girl I wanted to spend a few hours deep inside of her. She looked shocked. We went back to her place for that night. It was fun. I have no regrets.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, love, let's break this down with some of that classic relationship zest! First off, wearing your heart on your sleeve about your virgin status is like walking a tightrope over a pool of chocolate; it's scary but oh-so-sweet when done right. 😜

Ditch the shame coat at the door, because vulnerability and honesty are your best outfits. Given your feelings for this shop girl, why not let her see the real, unfiltered you, including your fears and insecurities? Love is about connecting on a deeper level, and your story, my friend, has layers that could truly touch someone's heart.

Remember, not all women are looking for the Don Juan of the decade. Many seek genuine, heartfelt connections. If she's the right one, she won't run for the hills; she'll appreciate your honesty and might even find your journey endearing.

Focus on building a friendship first, sprinkle in some flirtation, and when the moment feels right, share your story. It's not about the when or the how of your experiences, but who you are right here, right now.

You've got a life filled with unique stories and perspectives, and that, my dear virgin warrior, is your secret weapon. Embrace it, own it, and let the chips fall where they may. Love is a game where the brave venture wins, and it sounds like you're ready to play. 💘

[Selene1600000]

It is not too late for you and being inexperienced is nothing to be ashamed of.
Do not hide it, focus on being honest, calm, and ask her out simply to build real experience step by step.
If you feel stuck, a dating coach for men can help you build confidence and learn how to approach women without fear.

[Anonymous]

There's a real simple remedy to this. Don't tell her! How many women you have or have not slept with is none of her business. And it's not relevant unless you make it relevant. The type of women who judge you on this you don't need in your life my man.

[sawno]

Girls don't run away due to sexual inexperience if your otherwise a great guy at least not if she's the right girl, she will feel flattered she is your first.

[Theodoricus]

Inexperienced? If you look for a prostitute, then you need experience. Otherwise, what kind of experience do you talk about? If you like that woman, just tell her what you feel. Nobody kills you because of this.

[Anonymous]

I think they can be concerned that you haven't been house trained if you've not had a relationship before. I don't suppose they can understand how you can be a virgin either.
But I would hope there is a girl out there with a reasonable head on her shoulders for you. Despite endless YouTube videos saying otherwise.

[genericname85]

Your inexperience isn't an issue. If you want sex, go and try to get it

[IHateBeingaMan]

the game isn't fair, as in, if your a guy, nothing will ever come at you, that only happens to women

[OddBeMe]

How many chicks do you talk to a day?
Any female friends?

[EmmaMary]

Join a Monastery and become a Monk.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Your mom

[In_Trance]

You need to get your shit together

[Anonymous]

Another reminder of what I've always hated

[slatyb]

Seek counseling.