Why do men always fall in love with slutty women?

Question

i've noticed that most men fall in love and are faithful to slutty women, women who cheat on them and crap but they mistreat and are unfaithful to the good women who are loyal to them... why is that? why? i don't get it

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Ok, after reading your comments its seems as if you almost equate premarital sex with being a slut. The thing is, usually only the most committed Christians or religious dudes are going to wait till marriage. To be honest most women would not marry a dude without sleeping with him first. Maybe you are dealing with people with a different set of beliefs and norms.

Also, you need to understand this. Sluts have personailties too. The fact that they have low morals does not stop them from having chemistry with a man. Infact, I have found that women who are slutty tend to make connections easier. Mainly because they are open, free, and, less guarded. Which makes them easier to get to know. Plus, we all know that sex brings people closer together (or it can, doesn't always) and men are prone to fall for the booty. Just being honest.

But I digress, why are guys faithful to women who cheat and crap? For the same reason players treat good women like crap and yet they stick around and take it. Because they are better at playing the game and simply because they can.

abcdgg · Accepted Answer

hey i read some of ur comments and i think ur biggest problem is the sexual activity that u dont offer. 'sluts' offer what u dont give so if a guys with u for a while and he s not getting his sexual needs fulfilled he will prob leave. thats why most guys date anyway. just keep dating u ll find a guy who won't mind the lack of sex and physical activity.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

This goes with both sexes, a lot of beautiful women with low self esteem somehow find guys to make them even more insecure.

Because they either have low self esteem and these women brainwash these men into thinking that they are light years better then them.

Also some people love drama. They need the ups and downs in a relationship or they will feel bored and trapped. They like the chase and want to 'win'. Jealously is a dangerous thing that causes people to do and say things they never would.

Simply these guys got caught up in 'the game' and they lost..

unicornsandglitter · Accepted Answer

Desire, lust, laws of attraction, what we are taught. Just think of it like this, generally guys are supposed to be portrayed as being able to get any girl he wants, have lots of great sex, and make all the women want him. Now, another thing is, these 'slutty women' put out. I've had many guy friends tell me they go after the easy ones because a 'man has needs'. However, the same guys say they just keep them around for the sex, and if someone decent comes around that they really like, they'll dump the girl.

Yellowbone · Accepted Answer

Same reason why they say "nice guys finish last". While you may be classy (just like those guys may be nice), there's more than likely an underlying reasons as to why you're not getting dates. OR those "sluts" aren't exactly "sluts", just like you may not be "classy" like you think you are.

madhatters4 · Answer

do guys always fall in love with slutty women? always?

if guys fall in love with promiscuous women it's mostly likely because they appeal to the guys more baser desires for sexual intimacy. rather than having to work through a relationship to get to sex they are able to have sex sooner and therefore they may hook up with one of those women. obviously this isn't true love though

Roycaryn · Answer

What you'd call "sluts" aren't people that should be demonized in any way. When "good guys" fall in love with so called "sluts," they're almost always aware of what they're getting into. It's this awareness however that drives them to fall in love. We can see how flawed they are, how they've made been made to feel cast away and unwanted, and ultimately how they suffer from corrupt circumstances rather than corrupt character. We find it charming to believe that all that's amiss is a lack of love and it reminds us of ourselves in a way. Because this only affects men who pay attention to women, girls likewise seem to have this sub-conscious "slut hate" mentality when they come across girls that fit this profile.

TL;DR - Call it "Pretty Woman (1990)" Syndrome

ButtHearth · Answer

A lot of good women are boring, and the sluts are more exciting to be around. It's the same reason so many women go for jerks. Nice guys are often really boring to be around, but the players know how to keep women interested.

shyguy227 · Answer

Being a man thus an expert on the subject, not all men "fall in love" with sluts. There can be many reasons why they wish to get with this said slut such as, easy score chances, they like she is sexually confidant, they just like her or any other of various reasons : P

Mesonfielde · Answer

Feels like "Nice Guy Syndrome" female version, mass generalizations with no substance of any kind.

Anonymous · Answer

Those tend to be men with low confidence, that are afraid of ending up alone. Women that want to use a man will seek out weak men. That is typically what you are seeing.

J1nnishere · Answer

It's not sultry women. My buddy has a theory that most hot women turn into slurs or gold diggers. The power is given to them and they have options... also they don't developed and grow up well having all these favors from ppl. So, it's not slutty women, it's beautiful women. Men has t be attracted first before making sure she's a good one

Strider90 · Answer

What you say can happen for many reasons. Sometimes its just lust, not love.
Nevertheless, what choice do we have? Sure there are girls that are no sluts (whatever definition you give to the word) but they are too few and not everybody can have one.

Anonymous · Answer

I fell in love with a "good woman." We are each other's first relationship, and we're planning on getting married.

523206720 · Answer

It's not because they are slutty - it's because these woman look good and are generally attractive to be around. They may not be ethical - but they are usually attractive - at least in the short term.

Curious-koala · Answer

I actually prefer someone with the least amount of sexual encounters , and monogamy. the sex is way better if you have a compatible person at least. Sluts are stupid normally , so they lose

Anonymous · Answer

guys date these girls because of them being shallow, but they can admit to being shallow... women for some reason can't admit that they are just as shallow if not more shallow then men and the very small percentage (like 5%) of guys that 98% of the world's women find attractive know they are in high demand so why be loyal?

Anonymous · Answer

I call bullshit. Most guys do not fall in love with sluts. Guys like to fuck sluts but they fall in love with good girls. Everyone knows that.

candygirl_9847 · Answer

I feel you girl... sometimes I wonder why nice girls end up with badass too. Nice guys deserve nice girls, vice versa.

JustinX · Answer

same question "Why do women always fall in love with cocky guys?" men who cheat on them and treat them crap but they mistreat and are unfaithful to the good men who are loyal to them... why is that? why? i don't get it

citroen · Answer

Just out of curiosity what is your definition of a " slut" ?

bubble_tea · Answer

great that you finally noticed that, 'nice girl'. now change to become an 'alpha female' to get the good guys :)

salladim · Answer

"men want sex women want commitment" ohh... you surely know no damn shit lady...

psykobrahe · Answer

What do you call a woman who knows where her husband is every night? A widow. Sluts are lively. Sluts are fun. Loyalty is boring.

zombiebabe · Answer

me too i don't get it

lenris · Answer

Not sure why but everyone has their own type I suppose. I been crushing on someone who is completely opposite of that. Seems one trait I noticed that all my crushes share is they all like reading.

wethepeople87 · Answer

For the Same reason girls get with Bad Boys who treat them like Crap.

Cómoestás · Answer

"Sluts" offer sexual activity and give their bodies to him so that's probably the main reason.

Insaan · Answer

I think.. western men don't have any choice?

vettething · Answer

Stupidity is allloss of common sense. Pray for him.

7heDubz · Answer

Why do girls always fall in love with Assholes?

PoundCakeee · Answer

They fell inlove with the slutty sex that's why

JackT666 · Answer

That's like asking why do women fall for players.

Anonymous · Answer

Same reason why chicks go for bad boys...

Anonymous · Answer

some men are like girls who go after rich guys

Iron_Man · Answer

lol Not this bad boy here No way no How

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