Should I tell a girl I like her even if she has a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Alright so I've been talking to this girl that I knew my freshman year of high school and I could kinda tell she liked me but then our schools got separated and now on my senior year I move to the same school she's at (because of zoning) anyways. We have been going out to places and stuff like that. The other day I was going to ask her if she wanted to go to the movies but she beat me to it (so she ask me), and I was like sure. So we went out to eat and hanged out then we watched a scary movie and she was all over me but no kissing but she was scared and hugging me, after she said she had a really good time. Recently I asked her if she wanted to be my homecoming date and she said "i would love too" But now I found out she has had a boyfriend for a while now I think about 3 months, and every time I mention something about her boyfriend she changes the subject or if I ask her where does he live or what school he goes to she never gives me an answer she just says I don't want to talk about it in a laughing smiling way. But I have seen his picture on her MySpace so I know he exist. Well I really like her and want to tell her that I like after the homecoming dance, so how should I do it and after all I just want to get an honest answer from her but don't want to make it awkward afterwards in between us.

[beerY33]

Sounds like she's leading you on, so it's hard to tell what her intentions are... kind of sucky spot to be in.

I would say go for it, but that could either end up really well, or ruin your chances. If you want to play it safe and are willing to wait for her, then I'd say just keep doing what you're doing. Try to drop some hints and figure out what's up with her boyfriend.

I'd say it'd also be reasonable to confront her about it and just ask her if she has a boyfriend, since it seems like she's kind of agreed to date you informally which isn't really OK if you're dating someone...

[Asker]

Well I have asked her straight foward if she has a boyfriend and the answer was yes but when I try to make a conversation about it she says she doesn't want to talk about, but thanks I think I'll tell her how I feel and hope for the best. Because is better to know, than to never know at all.

[JustDance]

Wow. I'm in a similar situation... but she has had this boyfriend for 5 years now. it f***ing kills me every time I talk to her and not be able to just go for it. :| fuuuck

[Rainbows]

No. Absolutely not.