Girl wants help with homework

[Anonymous]

A girl at my college always asks for my help with her homework and I have helped her three or four times even though I have plenty of my own work to do and sometimes she is better what what she is studying then me. Its like she just wants somebody to hold her hand. Though I'd like to think I help her because I'm just that great she's I find her pretty attractive and I myself am pretty lonely. She laughs at things I say and sometimes we brush elbows and other sings that she likes me, however were doing homework and if I wonder if that's just a lure. I wonder if I'm being used then I remind myself nobody said anything about us being in any relationship and it wouldn't make sense for her to go out with me just because I helped her with something. Its a complicated thing. Does she need the help I can't tell if she just thinks I'm smart or she likes me. Hopefully both but I'm really not sure. I don't want to be just friends I have been disappointed and heartbroken and frustrated that way. I also am not to proud that now I don't want to be friends like I'm just sex obsessed or something obviously I'm a basket case of issues what I'm really asking is do you think she likes me and is continuing to help her do her work going to lead anywhere

[jusabarasida]

Rubbing elbows doesn't mean anything.. Honestly, you are misunderstanding her.. she just wants help with homework.. If she liked you, she would show more signs than just asking for help all the damn time.. And you are doing all the work for her because you think she is pretty.. she knows she is pretty and she is using her looks to get what she wants from you.

Don't fall for that sh*t.. its not as complicated as you think it is.. you are just frustrated because you want to have a relationship with her but you can't get past the 'helping with homework'

thing you got going between you two. To find out if she really likes you, ask her out on a real date which doesn't involve you doing anything for her.. The minute you find yourself catering to her needs, you should stop. Ask yourself this.. has she ever done anything you asked her to do for you? I mean.. you helped her with homework every time.. has she done anything for you without asking anything in return? If not, she is using you.. no wonder you are frustrated.

Continuing helping her with anything is not worth it. Even if you want to get in a relationship with her, it wouldn't work out if you are the one doing everything for her.. Eventually she'll keep using you for everything and not give you anything in return.. So, let her know your feelings about her.. really ask her on a date.. if she backs off, forget about her.. you don't have to do sh*t for her. Don't waste your time.

[Asker]

Thanks man your right