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Well your intention is not to be intimidating, but rather its other people projecting that your resting face is what 'they' thought was intimidating. Huge difference. Intimidating people tend to be seen as a negative, those that are purposefully trying to be, because you're doing so usually to illicit fear or compliance. Its not always a negative, in fact, sometimes its necessary. A parent must look intimidating to a child when s/he is trying to do something that may endanger them like running out into the street or a cop may need to intimidate a suspect to get them to confess. However others use this as a method to scare people or elicit fear for reasons of power and dominance and that's the level people don't like.
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F the haters. If you are really worried just try to start conversations, people are usually more appreciative and open to people who start interactions with them. Especially if that person may come off as intimidating.
I've been told by guys that I intimidate them because I am fairly attractive, confident and outgoing. It used to annoy me but now I just realized that it just means I'm awesome.
Nobody likes to b intimidated, but its always good if u can find someone who challenges u mentally.
U might not b intimidating at all, but maybe just have a certain persona about u that makes other feels they need to respect u or look up to u...
It can be I guess. In college I had a friend who was about 6-7, burly, and a face like a train wreck - you wouldn't want to run into him in an alley. He was also about the mellowest, most easygoing guy I knew.
One day he got on the bus and sat next to some small, timid-looking guy. The next time the bus stopped the guy got up and moved, and later got off the bus. When my friend got up to leave he found he had been sitting on a pair of glasses - the guy must have had them on the seat and been too afraid to say anything.
Intimidating in your case means that people either find you too attractive to talk with/flirt with, too standoffish to talk with/flirt with, or both.
Ultimately, whether you like it or not is up to you.
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girls always say i am intimidating at first lol!
its not cool! people are less likely to be friendly with you..."Intimidating" isn't exactly an insult, but it's not a great thing either. It means people like you but would like you even better if you tone it down a little. Intimidating makes people uncomfortable to be around you, and who would want that?
Attractive people or strong looking people who don't talk a lot get labeled this way sometimes. People are afraid to talk to them because they don't seem to like talking to others, when really they might just be shy or quiet.
I get told that I am a lot. I don't really like to think that people might avoid me because of it but it's also nice to have a natural power over some people.
I don't like intimidating people.
Except I have been told I'm intimidating and cold and mean and aggressive and so I suppose I can't really talk hahaIn your case, being called "intimidating" is a bad thing, pretty much they are saying that you look bitchy and mean, and guys will pass u up for a girl that looks more receptive to being socialized with.
I'm intimidating in my own way. Lol I'm 6'5" and 290lbs. Skinny but muscular. Why not post a pic? Also, I like woman like that.
Usually not, I tend to like nice people who have fun a lot.
Voted B. people tell me that too. Like a lot. I kind of like being around people who are the same as me so yea that why i voted B
If your friends call you "intimidating" they're being nice about calling you a bitch.
Around the office, when you get into your career, being a smidge intimidating really goes far. Serious about this guys.
Any idea what about you generally makes you seem intimidating?
The idea of being intimidating is not to get people to like you. It's to get them to follow your instructions without asking questions.
I assume its bad for those being intimidated.
It seems to work out in @mooky06 's favor
Why do they say you're intimidating?
Depends on your goal lol.
For the most part, yes.
Some people can make it cool, some can't.
no, only pussies say as such..
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