you should be proud to be Asian, I'm white and I think asian people are really cool, think of all the cool stuff they invented like fireworks, sushi, martial arts, and anime, the list goes on and on. back a long time ago their culture was way more advanced then european culture, they have beautiful writing systems and religions and all and all they have a really awesome culture. Asian women are the most gorgeous women in the world, with their shiny black hair and almond shaped eyes. you should not care about what racist people think. You should consider all the things that are so popular that came from asian culture. that and nigahiga is one of the most popular channels on youtube, he is cute and funny.
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Well it depends how you carry yourself. No offense but if you look like one of those wimpy nerdy guys then of course women aren't going to be attracted to you. I know some Asian guys that are hot and pull girls of all races and they aren't using race as an excuse. I could see if you were victims of employment discrimination, housing discrimination, targeted by police and jobs were being taken out of your community but no you're sitting here whining about girls and SATs. If you are one of those weak passive guys who stay in the background, how can you whine about not getting girls? Make an effort.
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There is hope, please don't give up. I read your updates and if you are serious, I just want to let you know not to take my words harshly. You CAN change your reality you just have to truly believe you can. Nothing is stopping you, not your race or whatever, it is not worth it.
It doesn't matter what race you are or what you look like, try and remember that at the end of the day, everyone wants the same thing -- everyone wants someone that makes them smile and is fun to be with -- everything else (looks, race, height, physique etc...) -- is all in the eye of the beholder, and eventually fades anyways. Don't stop believing in yourself! Your value and importance as a person and whether you're fun to be with, has absolutely nothing to do with your race.
Son we live in the year 2010 in the United States of America. We live in a time where the president is Black. Racism still exists but compare it the 50's or 60's and you will see how far we have come.
This whole theroy of asian girls not wanting to date asian men is nonsense as far as I am concerned. You just sound like some teenager that's p*ssed because he can't get a date on friday night. There is no law saying people can only date their own race because that would be riddicouls and would lead to major turmoil. You need to just suck it up their and try again.
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Update: And my parents just encourage this f***ing behavior? I can't stand this sh*t! I may be proud of my ancestry, but when my parents tell me to discard my ancestry and my identity, I feel like I'm living in the twilight zone! Ancestry and "identity" (whatever that may mean for you!) don't earn you a meal. That you've to merit. And nobody gets any merit from ancestry and "identity", just as nobody gets any merit from "race".
"I just despise people who are racist towards their own people. " You're racist yourself.
Update: I'm currently suffering from clinical depression. Now I know it's not because I'm Asian, it's because I'm depressed and ugly. I have no idea what to do now.
____________ It's because you're depressed. Period. Ugly? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and depressive people send ugly vibes. Get out of that depression. Are you receiving professional help? If not, get it asap.
I agree with you to a certain extent... I actually think black women have it the worse because we are the ones that deal with the stereotypes & that trashing of our name from all groups... I actually think that EVERYBODY has some kind of struggle... we all just struggle in different ways... I wish everybody could just look at each other as people instead of the labels
Hey I think aisan guys are more caring. I have dated both asian and white guys. white guys are more fun, but asian guys are caring and sweet, like someone who would do little things for you to make you happy all the time.ya but sadly it seems like people perfer white guys more...
I don't agree. I like all races. Asian, black, white, Mexican. I find them all attractive in their own way. The only reason people think Asian men have it bad is because of the whole "small penis thing" But it doesn't really matter because it's about the person not their d*** size. But I also don't agree that any Asian woman can get any man and black men can get any woman... That is far from true. But there is someone out there for you don't worry!
Asians don't actually have small d***s! Just putting it out there. Besides, it is about the motion in the ocean, some guys with big d***s are insanely sh*t... just saying!
@easterneuropestyle Asian guy here, and to be honest, without being crass, I have a pretty fat cock, but it's only 6.5 inches. Still I do well without too many complaints from my ex girlfriends. It's insane people talk about this stereotype like it's truth. I pretty much doubt anyone who says they've see Asian cocks know enough cocks to say authoritatively, but what do I know ;)
i disagree I'm half asian half australian and I attracted a lot of girls ..i think its the way you hold your self confidence/attitude towards life ,...you will go through hard times in life everyone does, its about coming through them that makes you the person you are
bet u only like on girls out of you league... im a thick mexican girl and well u see my pic... I'm a sexy thickness, i have never been hit on by an Asian guy ever. Do all u Asian only like skinny chicks? lol only thin white chicks and Asian chicks for u huh? Riiiiiiiight see i would date an Asian guy their just not attracted to me. Now I get hit on every day by black guys a lot of them appreciate my curves so do hispanic men as well, but white guys and Asian dudes want some thin Asian whit or THIN latina... guess y'all are more superficial.
I am American Indian, Basque french, and italian. I love Asian men. I married a Vietnamese man from Vietnam. Anyways, we separated for a little while and I got involved with another Viet man, who was ugly and had no game at all. Anyways, I got hooked on that old dood bad. He was not an alpha-male at all; however, the way he played me was as if he knew exactly what he is doing. Anyways, my point: Asian men can have any woman...its all in how they manipulate the game. By the way I must mention--this guy was a 43 year old math teacher--guy had strategy--not player game.
Omg first let me say that I feel for you I just cried looking at your updates. Unfortunatly there are stereotypes like that but why would you feed into that. I'm am a very attractive black woman and I find asian men sexy and smart. Who wouldn't love having someone like that than the usual player that is just going to waist your time. Trust me god will send you someone all in due time that is going to make you feel worth while don't give up hope have faith.I know that sounds cleshe but seriously please don't feel like that do things to make you feel better. Get into a church or some kind of community. Well if you want to talk more you can message me. Be blessed =D
I'm not asian but I have no plenty who have had a good attitude towards life were friendly, outspoke and that sort of stuff. I don't think they were that attractive (I'm not gay so I couldn't say for sure) but they got girls they were confident and didn't pout when then got rejected.
hey keep your chin up on of my buddies is Asian and he just got married to a White girl..about a month and a half ago...the more you consntrate on it the harder its going to get...but if you just let it go and roll off you then its smoothe sailing...
dude...i think you could get any kind of girl from any kind of race if you tried...each one has a willing girl...any guy can get any kind of girl if they are willing...lots of girls don't care about the penis size if you have a good ego to go with it ...different things turn girls on if a girl dumps you because ur not huge then you don't need that kind of girl...just keep looking dude
im sorry I'm not asian or a male I can't empathize but I can tell you that I think plenty of asian guys are hot more like the ABDC kind but still they're asian no doubt about it and I deff don't have any scholarships piled up either lol (I wish).
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In terms of dating yes Asian women only want pure white guy they are not even into mixed Asian guy while women of other race prefer their own men and most self hating non Asian women would date mixed men and non Asian don't find Asian attractive well indian men are considered unattractive but indian men who don't look indian do better than Asian men sadly all Asian men look Asian and unlike Asian women indian women are not self hating and prefer india as for women least desirable are black even they do better than Asian men and they can at least get men for sex because at least in sex men don't care about race but Asian men can't do it and no matter what people say to black men no one is more self hating than Asian women most black men prefer black women
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The stereotypical thinking of Asian men is that they have small pricks and doing their best to dress more American.
I'd say yes, they have it somewhat tough. But it's still not easy being a Black man in American either. And I have no idea where you got that it's easier being Hispanic. Try wearing a bandanna and driving near cops close to a Mexican border. That would be a laugh.
Yeah, that's true. An Asian man isn't going to be targeted by police. Everyone is stereotyped for certain things that make life, well... more complicated.
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you should be proud to be Asian, I'm white and I think asian people are really cool, think of all the cool stuff they invented like fireworks, sushi, martial arts, and anime, the list goes on and on. back a long time ago their culture was way more advanced then european culture, they have beautiful writing systems and religions and all and all they have a really awesome culture. Asian women are the most gorgeous women in the world, with their shiny black hair and almond shaped eyes. you should not care about what racist people think. You should consider all the things that are so popular that came from asian culture. that and nigahiga is one of the most popular channels on youtube, he is cute and funny.
Well it depends how you carry yourself. No offense but if you look like one of those wimpy nerdy guys then of course women aren't going to be attracted to you. I know some Asian guys that are hot and pull girls of all races and they aren't using race as an excuse. I could see if you were victims of employment discrimination, housing discrimination, targeted by police and jobs were being taken out of your community but no you're sitting here whining about girls and SATs. If you are one of those weak passive guys who stay in the background, how can you whine about not getting girls? Make an effort.
There is hope, please don't give up. I read your updates and if you are serious, I just want to let you know not to take my words harshly. You CAN change your reality you just have to truly believe you can. Nothing is stopping you, not your race or whatever, it is not worth it.
It doesn't matter what race you are or what you look like, try and remember that at the end of the day, everyone wants the same thing -- everyone wants someone that makes them smile and is fun to be with -- everything else (looks, race, height, physique etc...) -- is all in the eye of the beholder, and eventually fades anyways. Don't stop believing in yourself! Your value and importance as a person and whether you're fun to be with, has absolutely nothing to do with your race.
I would have to agree with this.
Son we live in the year 2010 in the United States of America. We live in a time where the president is Black. Racism still exists but compare it the 50's or 60's and you will see how far we have come.
This whole theroy of asian girls not wanting to date asian men is nonsense as far as I am concerned. You just sound like some teenager that's p*ssed because he can't get a date on friday night. There is no law saying people can only date their own race because that would be riddicouls and would lead to major turmoil. You need to just suck it up their and try again.
Update: And my parents just encourage this f***ing behavior? I can't stand this sh*t! I may be proud of my ancestry, but when my parents tell me to discard my ancestry and my identity, I feel like I'm living in the twilight zone! Ancestry and "identity" (whatever that may mean for you!) don't earn you a meal. That you've to merit. And nobody gets any merit from ancestry and "identity", just as nobody gets any merit from "race".
"I just despise people who are racist towards their own people. " You're racist yourself.
Update: I'm currently suffering from clinical depression. Now I know it's not because I'm Asian, it's because I'm depressed and ugly. I have no idea what to do now.
____________ It's because you're depressed. Period. Ugly? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and depressive people send ugly vibes. Get out of that depression. Are you receiving professional help? If not, get it asap.
I agree with you to a certain extent... I actually think black women have it the worse because we are the ones that deal with the stereotypes & that trashing of our name from all groups... I actually think that EVERYBODY has some kind of struggle... we all just struggle in different ways... I wish everybody could just look at each other as people instead of the labels
Hey I think aisan guys are more caring. I have dated both asian and white guys. white guys are more fun, but asian guys are caring and sweet, like someone who would do little things for you to make you happy all the time.ya but sadly it seems like people perfer white guys more...
suppose America is racism to Asian men... don't know why Asian men are so hardworking still...
I don't agree. I like all races. Asian, black, white, Mexican. I find them all attractive in their own way. The only reason people think Asian men have it bad is because of the whole "small penis thing" But it doesn't really matter because it's about the person not their d*** size. But I also don't agree that any Asian woman can get any man and black men can get any woman... That is far from true. But there is someone out there for you don't worry!
Asians don't actually have small d***s! Just putting it out there. Besides, it is about the motion in the ocean, some guys with big d***s are insanely sh*t... just saying!
I know.
@easterneuropestyle Asian guy here, and to be honest, without being crass, I have a pretty fat cock, but it's only 6.5 inches. Still I do well without too many complaints from my ex girlfriends. It's insane people talk about this stereotype like it's truth. I pretty much doubt anyone who says they've see Asian cocks know enough cocks to say authoritatively, but what do I know ;)
i disagree I'm half asian half australian and I attracted a lot of girls ..i think its the way you hold your self confidence/attitude towards life ,...you will go through hard times in life everyone does, its about coming through them that makes you the person you are
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bet u only like on girls out of you league... im a thick mexican girl and well u see my pic... I'm a sexy thickness, i have never been hit on by an Asian guy ever. Do all u Asian only like skinny chicks? lol only thin white chicks and Asian chicks for u huh? Riiiiiiiight see i would date an Asian guy their just not attracted to me. Now I get hit on every day by black guys a lot of them appreciate my curves so do hispanic men as well, but white guys and Asian dudes want some thin Asian whit or THIN latina... guess y'all are more superficial.
True, most Asian guys prefer thin and most black guys prefer curves.. It's all about preference
I am American Indian, Basque french, and italian. I love Asian men. I married a Vietnamese man from Vietnam. Anyways, we separated for a little while and I got involved with another Viet man, who was ugly and had no game at all. Anyways, I got hooked on that old dood bad. He was not an alpha-male at all; however, the way he played me was as if he knew exactly what he is doing. Anyways, my point: Asian men can have any woman...its all in how they manipulate the game. By the way I must mention--this guy was a 43 year old math teacher--guy had strategy--not player game.
lol... you serious? I'm 100% Chinese and I don't really have trouble with girls. I think it depends more on the person then of the race.
oo yeah and french girls love asian guys xD. Almost every French girl I know said that so you should go to France.
I agree with you it depends on the person not the race.
Omg first let me say that I feel for you I just cried looking at your updates. Unfortunatly there are stereotypes like that but why would you feed into that. I'm am a very attractive black woman and I find asian men sexy and smart. Who wouldn't love having someone like that than the usual player that is just going to waist your time. Trust me god will send you someone all in due time that is going to make you feel worth while don't give up hope have faith.I know that sounds cleshe but seriously please don't feel like that do things to make you feel better. Get into a church or some kind of community. Well if you want to talk more you can message me. Be blessed =D
I'm not asian but I have no plenty who have had a good attitude towards life were friendly, outspoke and that sort of stuff. I don't think they were that attractive (I'm not gay so I couldn't say for sure) but they got girls they were confident and didn't pout when then got rejected.
hey keep your chin up on of my buddies is Asian and he just got married to a White girl..about a month and a half ago...the more you consntrate on it the harder its going to get...but if you just let it go and roll off you then its smoothe sailing...
dude...i think you could get any kind of girl from any kind of race if you tried...each one has a willing girl...any guy can get any kind of girl if they are willing...lots of girls don't care about the penis size if you have a good ego to go with it ...different things turn girls on if a girl dumps you because ur not huge then you don't need that kind of girl...just keep looking dude
im sorry I'm not asian or a male I can't empathize but I can tell you that I think plenty of asian guys are hot more like the ABDC kind but still they're asian no doubt about it and I deff don't have any scholarships piled up either lol (I wish).
Hope life gets better
In terms of dating yes Asian women only want pure white guy they are not even into mixed Asian guy while women of other race prefer their own men and most self hating non Asian women would date mixed men and non Asian don't find Asian attractive well indian men are considered unattractive but indian men who don't look indian do better than Asian men sadly all Asian men look Asian and unlike Asian women indian women are not self hating and prefer india as for women least desirable are black even they do better than Asian men and they can at least get men for sex because at least in sex men don't care about race but Asian men can't do it and no matter what people say to black men no one is more self hating than Asian women most black men prefer black women
The stereotypical thinking of Asian men is that they have small pricks and doing their best to dress more American.
I'd say yes, they have it somewhat tough. But it's still not easy being a Black man in American either. And I have no idea where you got that it's easier being Hispanic. Try wearing a bandanna and driving near cops close to a Mexican border. That would be a laugh.
Yeah, that's true. An Asian man isn't going to be targeted by police. Everyone is stereotyped for certain things that make life, well... more complicated.
"There are more single men than single women."
Um...there are more women than men in America as well as the entire world. So unless there are a lot of lesbians out there, you are wrong.
Don't give up. Just read the book "How Successful People Win" by Ben Stein.