Do you ever wish you didn't have breasts?

[sjoes006]

Like because they get in the way or are just annoying.

Yes

No

Meh

[4465loveyou5577]

Well, I think they can get annoying because they jiggle way more than anything else (the only thing that comes close is my butt XD ) and since I'm a 28E I have to lock them in with 2-4 sports bras. I've had many girls say things like "oh, I'm so jealous I wish I had your boobs, they make you look so sexy and feminine". The irony is that I happened to have tested positive for the BRCA1 mutation which means that my risk of developing breast cancer is around 85%. So when they say that I'm just thinking "Oh no you don't, and I'm not even talking about things like back problems and trouble running because they're the least of the worries that my boobs give me. I mean there's a pretty good chance that one day they'll put my life in danger." Now I'm going to contradict myself: I don't like to equate having boobs to being feminine because I have a strong family history of breast cancer and I've seen how upset losing their breasts has made them but at the same time they make me feel very feminine. I remember when I was 15, my mom had the "other talk" with me about (she had BC and a single masterctomy) and showed me the scars and let me feel her original and reconstructed breast and the thought of losing one of my breasts made me cry (hey I was an emotional teenager). However 1.5 years ago my sister was diagnosed. She's clear now but had to have a double mastectomy and seeing what she went through really shook me up. I was so scared when I got my first mammogram that I actually cried during the procedure (and not because if the boob squishing but because of what the results might indicate) and seeing her suffer made me seriously consider having a prophylactic mastectomy.

But do you wish you didn't have boobs?

[Anonymous]

No, I love them. Sometimes though, I have had the thought cross my mind. When my body first started changing / developing them I didn't like them though and it freaked me out to see my body change. Sometimes laying face down can be uncomfortable or running down stairs. The only other time is more in general, breast cancer runs through my family very badly. That we know of, four generations of women on my Dad's side have had it or died from it, even one guy got it. So that scares me. My Dad tested positive for carrying the gene. My sister and I have yet to test ourselves. But someday I may prematurely have them removed so I never have to deal with the cancer. I've seen the effect it has had on my family and other families.

[redeyemindtricks]

Lol nope, always been exactly the opposite. I had 650cc saline implants for 10 years, and now they are 800cc's. Luv mah girls.

The doc warned of the possibility of back pain, but, for the next 6 months I just doubled up on back muscles at the gym. This was easy enough to do, since rehabbing the shoulder and chest workouts was a long slow road anyhow.

If you have that kind of pain, and you don't want a reduction, do two things:
#1, hit yr back more in the gym. Back first, in EVERY workout. Most women only hit back as an afterthought, after shoulders and/or legs. Mistake.
#2, see a chiropractor if necessary to fix yr posture. If you slouch with big boobs, you are so epically fucked.

[theCatcherintheRye]

NO, I like my boobs. I occasionally talk to them. They're good listeners.

I mean sure they get in the way,
And yes people like to use them as pillows,
And yes they drive you nuts when you are running or exercising but.. they are MY boobs and I still like to feel them and make sure they are ok lol.

[YourFutureEx]

If I had moobs, yeah! I don't want 'em.

From a girl's perspective, I'd not think that. A lot of girls crave to get big breast and pay millions to get the job done. Almost every guy would be turned off if you are a girl with no breast at all.

It's same like "I don't want penis because I get morning wood every day" or "I don't want testicles because I have to care them, protect them even from the mildest shocks".

[sjoes006]

Having large breasts isn't something you can package and hide away. I'm not even lying when I say that it can come off as unprofessional. It's way worse than being a blonde. I hate wearing loose suits because then I just look fat. If I want to sleep on my stomach I have to put a pillow under each shoulder. Bras are about $100 a piece because most brands don't carry larger cup sizes in small bandwidths.

People think the are fake which is again unprofessional and shallow of me if they were. They annoy me sometimes when I run and again those bras are $100 after tax.

Once I got boobs in high school some guys
assumed I was easy and not smart even though I graduate top of my class and went to a very competitive university.

I stay really skinny to keep my breasts from growing.

[YourFutureEx]

I understand.

You know what, everyone has problems. Nobody is perfect. I read an article about 3 guys who have gigantic penis. They described their problems. An average guy would love to have such life but what are the disadvantages, only they know.

You have to realise and accept the reality. You are completely ignoring the advantages. You know how easily you escaped the competition of dating world?

Yes, guys will probably see you as easy but what about flat chested girls? Guys just don't look at them at all.

I don't know how they're that expensive. In my country, abnormal sizes are cheaper (to clear the stock). You can always buy cheap bras and buy branded (or good ones) for special occasions.

People think they're fake? Take it as compliment. People's imagination is your reality!! You should be proud.

I know I already told that but I'm going to repeat it. Nobody is perfect, everyone has issues. It'd be worse. Think about the advantages you have.

Peace.

[Marttinez]

are you talking about other women with big breast? because if that's you on your profile pic, your boobs look very small.. I know my ex used to complain about back problems due to the weight, but I love big boobs, it makes you look great on any outfit

[selena12345]

I have had back problems because of mine. However, I have learnt to accept them and love them. Much like myself hahaha

[sjoes006]

Build muscle tone and it will get better. Also proper bras. They are about $100 and come in every size. Worth it.

[selena12345]

Yes, when I was younger I wore the wrong size bra and was really insecure so slouched a lot. Now things have improved a lot as I accepted them and cared for them.

[CHARismatic110]

For I ever wish that I was breastless? No. Have I wished that they were smaller? Yes.

[BiscuitesSwag]

Yas, especially every damn time when I can't lay down.
EU 70F. .-.
I hope they won't grow more. @.@

[9mfeo]

Honey, I'm a 34F. I wish that at least once before I get out of bed in the morning.

[9mfeo]

(If you're looking for large cup size bras with a small band, try zulily. I have had some good luck. They carry stuff like Freya and Panache.)

[AzureGirl]

Sometimes, especially when I find a cute top or dress while shopping and it doesn't quite fit right just because of my boobs.

[oldanddecrepid]

I could see them being a hassle in some respects... I kind of feel bad for women who have large breasts! It must be tough on the back and posture!

[Miyonis]

Oh my gosh mo, why would I wish something like that?

I'm totally very happy with my breasts.

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[Miyonis]

Ops, no*

[sighnothing]

Since I have 36 DDs, all the time. I can't wear cute loose shirts because they drape off my boobs and make me look fat, and forget anything strapless. Though, I do like the fact that they fill out tight shirts and that I can use them to my advantage.

[Nicole13]

I'm a natural 36D so it makes it hard to work out. I even have to holds my boobs when I run up a flight of stairs. There are days when I hate them, yes. I've thought about getting a breast reduction, too.

[multilevel]

Dare you go for breast reduction! Don't you dare reduce those sexy babies.

[Nicole13]

@multilevel Haha. Why not?

[multilevel]

You have sexy babies, never ever reduce them.

[Nicole13]

@multilevel Thanks but its still my body.

[multilevel]

Lol I know.

[Nicole13]

@multilevel OK. But thanks. Want a bandjob? Lol.

[multilevel]

What's that?

[Nicole13]

@multilevel its a joke. Haha. Its a handjob and blowjob all at once. Its a word I made up.

[multilevel]

Oohh sure who wouldn't want that :p

[Nicole13]

@multilevel Haha. Exactly. :)

[multilevel]

Can I come? :p

[Nicole13]

@multilevel Haha. Sure. :)

[multilevel]

Haven't even trimmed down there, let me take shower and shave it first ;)

[Nicole13]

@multilevel K.

[Itsjustkeyitsme]

I'm only 4'11 and have a 34DDD sized chest... Sometimes I wish they were smaller but most days I just embrace them and love them

[9mfeo]

You poor poor thing. How does your back not break from the pressure? I'm 5'9" and it's bad enough.

[Itsjustkeyitsme]

@9mfeo I work out and do ballet which helps strengthen the back

[9mfeo]

God, one would have to!

[KatherineJ]

All the frigging time! Except when I like them being there.

[TheBootyChest]

At what points do you like having them there?

[Ghosted]

lately theyv been getting annoyingly tender when im on my period but all other days i like them. theyre soft and nice and will protect my future babies against infection =D

[Hidden_P]

Yes.
I'd like to see my feet again. It's been years.

[Red_Arrow]

Sounds like a Dolly Parton joke is in there somewhere. lol

[singlebee]

Lol you can't see your legs? :-D

[cinderelli]

No.. they're awesome.. so soft and perfect.. 💕💖💓

[igfunnyboi]

I 'C' 😜

[igfunnyboi]

@cinderelli

[cinderelli]

@igfunnyboi 😏

[cavmanier]

soooffft 😌

[cinderelli]

@cavmanier yeah.. 😜

[Red_Arrow]

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!

[cinderelli]

@Red_Arrow gotta give more answers like this to see you huh..

[Red_Arrow]

Well, when I am busy or just not on here as much, those kind of answers will grab my attention when I am on here.

Yeah, I do nood to say hi more often. Sorry about that. 😘

[cinderelli]

@Red_Arrow okay.. I understand.. its always nice to see you around.. 😊💕💖

[Red_Arrow]

Glad you understood that. I just realized that I expressed a "nood" not a need. lol :-)

[cinderelli]

@Red_Arrow lol.. I got it.. 😉 guys have "noods" on their mind all the time.. 😛

[Red_Arrow]

😘
...

[carinerose]

Sometimes it's annoying, yeah. Mine are pretty big and sometimes, mostly in Summertime, I wish I had a smaller chest. Girls with smaller chests find clothes more easily, and mostly bathing suits more easily.

[TheBootyChest]

What are some of the complications when getting a bathing suit?

[carinerose]

@TheBootyChest Well, when your chest is as big as mine, you sometimes can't find the right size for them. So you have to look all over the damn place to find a convenient bathing suit top, AND the pretty, delicate bathing suits don't fit you and you end up with one you didn't want :').
It's the same for lingerie. Some bras are very delicate and offer no support for big-chested girls.

[TheBootyChest]

I admit that I can understand your frustration. I have a hard time finding jeans in my size.

What kind of bathing suit tops do you have to work with mostly because of this?

By delicate do you mean they break easily?

[carinerose]

@TheBootyChest No, by delicate I mean, sexy and lacy...
And the ones I have to deal with are the kind that looks like your boobs are saggy even though they're not. You know, the ones with a kind of push-up for verrrry big chests. I just can't seem to find something that really suits me.

[TheBootyChest]

Do you have a place you prefer to go shopping at to help find things that you can work with more?
Do you just not shop for things unless it's really important or just work harder to find more things for yourself?

[carinerose]

@TheBootyChest Ummm I think both. Sometimes I wait till the last minute to go shopping because I know that the next day I'll be going to the beach. And sometimes it's just really hard to find something. I guess I don't shop at the right places for that. H&M and Zara are not really specialized in bathing suits and all those things;

[TheBootyChest]

What about other things like bras or lingerie?

Are bras usually more expensive because of the size or just the brand and style still?

[carinerose]

@TheBootyChest No, I don't think so. My breasts are not that huge, so it's pretty easy to find my bra size in normal shops. What annoys me is the fact that not every piece of lingerie that I like suits me because of said size. Girls with smaller chests can have every single design they want.
But in general bras who offer the more support are more expensive yeah

[TheBootyChest]

Two questions: (And I hope I am not stepping over the line here)
1.) What are the types of styles of lingerie are you looking for specifically?

2.) Getting back to the original topic, are there certain times you like about having your size?

[carinerose]

@TheBootyChest No don't worry, it doesn't bother me !
So, 1) I loooove, and I mean, I go crazy for lacy things. Everything in lace catches my eye, and I find it that extremely sexy.

2) I love my boobs usually, and mostly when I'm dressing up for parties and or dinners. I love the way they look in a dress or in a tight shirt. I know some girls would kill to have natural big breasts, so it boosts me more in the sense that even when I'm self-conscious, I tell myself that some girls would love to be in my shoes.

[TheBootyChest]

I admit that I am a typical guy and like things simple.
resources. shopstyle. com/.../...9f24f27ced_best. jpg
But my question is what draws you to lacy things? Does it ever get in the way if you are wearing a thin top or dress and the pattern shows through?

Also what does it mean to ladies when they say "the way they look in a dress"?

[igfunnyboi]

I'm happy that I don't have em. It's like carrying a heavy armour on your chest 😐 I already have a big pole to carry 😂

[LittleSally]

For practical reasons - Yes.
For aesthetic reasons - Nope.

I'd like them to be smaller, though...

[existing_not_living]

Yes, yes I have. I'm really insecure about my body and sometimes just want to chop off my boobs. Of course, that would result in quite a bloody mess.

[HookingSwan]

No

I am 32 A, so I like them just how they are, cute, sexy, and not a bother at all! xD

[Victorianna]

yes sometimes , because they get in the way. hahah especially when i am exercising or running lol

[SolitaireBond]

Well I had to do something about it, so I had a BR done five years ago!

[Red_Arrow]

Whoa!!! Five years or five months. It seems it was just last fall. or was that a different surgery?

[SolitaireBond]

@Red_Arrow.. Last year (August) was when I had the near fatal heart attack.. Open heart surgery.

June 2011 .. Was when I had my breast reduction.. Long before I became a member here.

[Red_Arrow]

Thank you for refreshing my memory. Sorry about that. I was remembering that you had the surgery to your chest area and that you could not wear a bra for some time after that and it just came up as the BR in my mind. Of course the heart attack is MUCH more serious. I hope that you are doing perfectly from that now.

[ElissaDido]

Meh, they are not big enough to annoy me, except when I'm running

[JadedandReckless]

yes, they get in the way but they drive men crazy. so I have a love and hate thing for my boobies.

[LyssaNicole]

Sometimes I wish an A cup sometimes because you can wear a ton more stuff

[ConsultantIsBack]

my pecs can dance
yours can't

Ooooo what now! :p

[Red_Arrow]

How do you know hers can't? I have seen some gals that can really get them going.

[ConsultantIsBack]

@Red_Arrow She sent me pics mate
baha jk

[ASOdeath]

all you big boobies ladies need to stop complaining😒

[HookingSwan]

haha

yay small breasts haha! xD

[Polocrew]

If you don't wanna get laid, I support your choice OP

[sjoes006]

Your saying you do t sleep with flat chested women?

[Polocrew]

Lol well that is a huge turn off yea and nope I don't sleep with em

[sjoes006]

You sound like a prize. 👍🏻

[Polocrew]

I am, Dat flexibility doe. Js

[bvvvt]

yeah it bothers me when i run.

[sjoes006]

It's a challenge. So you can try out these two bras that I like if you want. Lululemon Tata Tamers which really do a great job but doesn't have cups. If you want a sport bra with cups and support try Panache. I think they are about $89 but they come in different colors with adjustable straps with a lot of support and shock absorb. And seriously my boobs look great on this.

When I run I worry about damage to my breast tissue from lack of support but also the movement throws off my balance. When I run up a steep hill I notice my boobs more.

[Anonymous]

Only when I run, because they can be a burden then. But most other times, they're nice.

[IceEverest]

I dont have them so... you know.
I can understand your view.

[Hans222]

Haha yes, and fortunately I don't have them :D

[Hans222]

Thanks for the MH :D
My new wonderbra is so tight, oh goodness :-(
Hahaha couldn't resist producing that joke 8)

[Anonymous]

Sometimes, as a man, I wish I did have breasts (boobs)

[justbanANNAz]

Nah i like having boobs =]

[4465loveyou5577]

Obviously LOL

[justbanANNAz]

@4465loveyou5577 is that a problem?

[4465loveyou5577]

Nope, who doesn't like boobs

[SarahsSummer]

I sometimes wish they got in the way more. Lol

[rgb008]

No! I love my boobs so much haha.

[igfunnyboi]

Most of the guys in GaG must be loving it more than you do 😜 @rgb008

[rgb008]

@igfunnyboi hahaha

[archiz]

eh... I wish I had more breasts :( :(

[Red_Arrow]

Sounds like you two should arrange a swap. lol

[archiz]

@Red_Arrow aghh I wish :P

[snazzyCAT22]

Yes.

Oh, we're talking about THOSE kinds!

[douride2]

Nah I wish they were smaller though.

[akadatank44]

I'm sure women do especially big chested ones.

[TheBraveLion]

Yes! I want bigger breasts (pecs) :p

[orphan]

i wish i didn't have facial hair.

[Anonymous]

It's extra hard as a guy with moobs

[Anonymous]

Yes. Yes I do wish I didn't have man boobs.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, people stare at them so much.

[Anonymous]

Those moobs are all pain, no gain.

[Anonymous]

I wish I didn't have a penis...

[Anonymous]

let me motorboat them! it will boost your mood!

[Anonymous]

I like my breast.