We ALL have our preferences. I wouldn't date a transgender person. If a girl has a vagina she's still a girl. Just like, if a guy has a penis he is still at guy. It doesn't change.
First of all, "a transgender" doesn't exist. It's "a transgender person".
Honestly, what you write here sounds pretty much transphobic. It's obvious that it's not just about the kids. You don't see us trans men as men, and that is a problem.
Trans men are not real men you hit it right in the nose. No ones afraid of trans they just dont like it stop trying to make people feel bad for having a natural responds to an unnatural sistuation
@vladdracula "It's transphobic to not want to fuck the same gender as yourself, even if the other person is pretending like they're a different gender."
People like you hurt your own movement. "And that is a problem." Whiny pussy.
Nope there's nothing wrong with that. I personally will only date a woman, that has always identified as a woman socially, and was born with female anatomy.
As a transgender girl I personally don't like your way of thinking but that's my opinion. Your friend was justified for snapping at you because that's their opinion and you have yours.
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I don't believe snapping at people is right. I didn't snap at her so she shouldn't snap at me. I did nothing wrong but state an opinion that was asked of me. People need to be civil about others. Mal intent needs to be dealt accordingly, but I have no Mal intent towards transgenders. I have nothing against you. I'd be friends with transgenders, I just wouldn't date them
No, I wouldn't date a transgender. And it is not wrong to do so. Moreover, it is extremely wrong for other people to judge you for not wanting to date a transgender person. Period!
It's personal preference and you should never worry that your own truths, preferences and opinions could be deemed offensive. Courteously put your views across and anyone who says you're being offensive is wrong.
I would not date them, however, I would not be ignorant about it. I have my preferences and as far as I remember we have freedom of choice still!
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No, it's not wrong. I heard attractive girls lose respect for you if you do. so It's safer not to. I think. Tranzgender is really confusing. But, I still respect their decision to be what they want to be.
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So you wanting someone mentally stable is wrong? No it's not.
I don't think I would. Maybe one that hasn't had surgery yet. Honestly the idea of someone messing up the stuff down there just grosses me out. I don't think I'd get along with them either since I think it's kind of ridiculous to "change" your sex.
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We ALL have our preferences. I wouldn't date a transgender person. If a girl has a vagina she's still a girl. Just like, if a guy has a penis he is still at guy. It doesn't change.
First of all, "a transgender" doesn't exist. It's "a transgender person".
Honestly, what you write here sounds pretty much transphobic. It's obvious that it's not just about the kids. You don't see us trans men as men, and that is a problem.
Trans men are not real men you hit it right in the nose. No ones afraid of trans they just dont like it stop trying to make people feel bad for having a natural responds to an unnatural sistuation
@vladdracula
"It's transphobic to not want to fuck the same gender as yourself, even if the other person is pretending like they're a different gender."
People like you hurt your own movement.
"And that is a problem." Whiny pussy.
Nope there's nothing wrong with that. I personally will only date a woman, that has always identified as a woman socially, and was born with female anatomy.
I don't think that makes me a bad guy at all
As a transgender girl I personally don't like your way of thinking but that's my opinion. Your friend was justified for snapping at you because that's their opinion and you have yours.
I don't believe snapping at people is right. I didn't snap at her so she shouldn't snap at me. I did nothing wrong but state an opinion that was asked of me. People need to be civil about others. Mal intent needs to be dealt accordingly, but I have no Mal intent towards transgenders. I have nothing against you. I'd be friends with transgenders, I just wouldn't date them
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I'm a girl who wants to have a beard and French mustache and because of that no guy wants to date me. Everyone can date who they want.
I wouldn't because I am straight.
Just because the girl transforms being girl to guy doesn't mean she wasn't born a girl.
No, I wouldn't date a transgender. And it is not wrong to do so.
Moreover, it is extremely wrong for other people to judge you for not wanting to date a transgender person. Period!
It's personal preference and you should never worry that your own truths, preferences and opinions could be deemed offensive. Courteously put your views across and anyone who says you're being offensive is wrong.
Definitely NOT wrong. I would never ever date a transgender. Wouldn't care if anyone else does but definitely not me.
No, its a free country and you date who you want to. Nobody owns you.
I don't know what to say, I think I might give them a chance if I like them as a person and maybe I'll get to understand them better
but I don't think is anything wrong not wanting to date them either, people have preferences and you can't force attraction
I would not date them, however, I would not be ignorant about it. I have my preferences and as far as I remember we have freedom of choice still!
No, it's not wrong. I heard attractive girls lose respect for you if you do. so It's safer not to. I think. Tranzgender is really confusing. But, I still respect their decision to be what they want to be.
So you wanting someone mentally stable is wrong? No it's not.
Nothing to do with mental stability.
@bobbyxx what r u talking about
It's ridiculous to call you ignorant for having a preference. I wouldn't date trans either.
No of course not. You have the right to exclude anyone from your dating pool for any reason or no particular reason.
It's perfectly fine if you don't want to date a transgender. I'll never date a transgender.
Your preferences are not wrong. People can date whoever the fuck they want. I wouldn't date a transgender either.
It's not wrong to not want to date anyone. It's called preference.
No, everyone has their preferences, and you just expressed yours.
I don't think I would. Maybe one that hasn't had surgery yet. Honestly the idea of someone messing up the stuff down there just grosses me out. I don't think I'd get along with them either since I think it's kind of ridiculous to "change" your sex.