Do girls get mad if you forget their name? (Only talked to once for 3 to 4 min convo)?

[echen89]

I talked to this one girl in my class in community college and we had a good conversation after class. I asked for her name and we continued talking. She showed signs of interest and did not rush to her next class. She stayed their talking to me until she had to leave to her next class. After I left and I was thinking to my self, what was her name again? What do I do, I really like her and I don't want to turn her off for forgetting her name. I think I remember it, but I am not sure if its correct. Any suggestions, girls, guys?

[Redheadedlady]

You could always just try and make a joke about it at your expense - this will only work if you can remember pretty much everything else she said though (and you repeat the highlights to her as evidence that you were listening lol). Otherwise ask your friends if they know her name, or if you know any of her friend's names just Facebook them and hope for the best : )

[echen89]

Yea I think I figured out her name. The teacher hands out assignments and I passed by and looked at it and saw her name. I wanted to talk to her today but the teacher held her hostage. lol. So I didn't get a chance to speak with her. I wanna ask her out wednesday though. Any advice?

[Redheadedlady]

Why don't you just go up and talk to her after class and then casually ask her if she would be keen to go for a coffee/drink sometime? Make sure you keep it causal though partly so you don't freak her out (and she's more likely to say yes) and partly if she says no then you have an easy out (oh, ok, no worries - I'm sure I'll see you in [insert boring subject here] anyway). Good luck!!

[echen89]

Ok, but if I ask her out to drink where should I go? And when should I invite her friday. Like this: Hey would you like to get a drink sometime.then maybe hand her my cell phone and she puts her number inand I tell her when. I think she works so I wouldn't want to spring something on her out of the blue. Idk, I've never asked a girl out before.

[scarlett13]

I don't think she'd be seriously angry, just maybe annoyed or miffed. It'll probably bug her that you didn't pay attention enough to remember just her name, but I don't think it'll be a big deal. If you are too worried about it, just keep your ears open and you should be able to figure out her name again before too long.

[echen89]

You don't think that will screw up my chances do ya?

[scarlett13]

Nah I don't think so. if she gets all up and mad just about that, with hardly talking to you at all, then she's not really being realistic. Nobody has a perfect memory, she shouldn't expect that from you.

[echen89]

Yea I guess you're right.

[babe69]

i know how you fell I always forget names and I fell bad asking for the name again. ask the teacher or a classmate about her name am sure someone in the class knows her name and tell them not to tell her you asked for her name =) good luck

[echen89]

Hah I was thinking the same thing, but I was also worried that if I asked a classmate they would say that I asked for her name and she would find out that I forgot lol.

[babe69]

I don't think she will get mad if he she finds out, but at the same time you don't want to start off wrong by forgetting the smallest thing ever ( her name) I think she will be happy tho that you tryed to find it out it will tell her you care she might like you more =)