Professional cuddlers... have you used them? What have your experiences been like?

[APValerius]

The prices vary greatly. They make you keep ALL your clothes on, even your shirt. The difference between them and prostitutes is that they don't have sex with their clients. The fees are more comparable to massage therapists than prostitutes. The Snuggle Buddies LLC was founded by a young man in New Jersey, U. S. who is INconsistent in paying his workers. He collects $80/hour from the client via his website and is supposed to give $40/hour of that to the snuggler. But on 7/16/2016 apparently that did not happen when I requested a snuggler in Downtown Anaheim, CA, U. S. Her name, photo and city were removed from the website just days after my session. At least she was willing to engage in the maximal-contact positions I favor for the entire session. She didn't caress me near as much as I would've liked.

I thought there was hope that I could pay professional cuddlers a few times a year until I can get back into a relationship. However, the fact that Cuddle Sanctuary in Los Angeles has at least one cuddler who squirms at penile erections may mean that I'll have a hard time finding cuddlers in my area who will IGNORE mine and just do what I'm paying her to do - cuddle me in maximal-contact positions as I am paying exorbitant fees for the service. I am a minimum-wage worker and plan to be for a LIFETIME. Professional cuddlers are just not worth the money they cost in lesser-contact positions when I'm spending this great percentage of my tiny income on them.

[udolipixie]

Professional cuddlers... have you used them?
Nope.

I've known a few dudes that have- socially awkward guys, shy guys, virgin guys, and guys that label themselves 'incel'.

What have your experiences been like?
There experience has been pretty well. The prices for maximal contact positions with penile erections seem to generally be quite expensive because it gives off the air of being a sexual act with sexual contact. You paid to be cuddled not for sexual contact. I find the cuddlers views are often "You're paying to be held... you're not paying for your dick to be noticed/involved that costs extra".

It's certainly sexual to the cuddlers I've heard of going by the stories the guys tell. I had one socially awkward guy tell me that about a time- they agreed no penile erections may happen, they cuddled, he got a penile erection and tried to remain with maximal-contact, she disengaged, he started arguing, she told him if his dick isn't such a big deal and it's just the cuddling then how about he gets a new cuddler. He did... he got a male cuddler... he wasn't happy about it and demanded a refund (which he did not get). What he did get was 'blacklisted' for trying to go back against agreed upon terms.

If you can't afford what you want then there are body pillows that don't mind penile erections and you can have all the maximal-contact position you want. Or you can do what some of the 'incel' guys that insist on maximal-contact with penile erections do- make it a bimonthly special occasion thing.

[APValerius]

Let me just clarify that neither The Snuggle Buddies LLC nor Cuddle Sanctuary requires that the client agree not to get a penile erection nor do they charge extra money if he does.

[udolipixie]

So if it doesn't require the client to agree or charge extra money then I'm not seeing the issue. You may dislike that the cuddler isn't all that thrilled or indifferent to your penile erection but she is a human being not an object. This is a bit off to me as I find the guys I've known that pay cuddlers normally do so for the simulated *human* contact not *objectified* contact.

Perhaps ask the companies who the cuddlers are that don't mind penile erections if you want to bypass the cuddler squirming away from your erection since to her she is paid to contact your body not contact your erection.

[APValerius]

I don't always get an erection. Only SOMETIMES. It ALWAYS goes away within a minute or two. They shouldn't be bothered by that!

[udolipixie]

You don't get to dictate what people are bothered by.

The cuddlers are paid to be in contact with your body not your erection.

If you want a cuddler who isn't bothered by your erection then ask the company for a list of those that aren't bothered.

[palek]

I don't know about Cuddlers but the cost of bunghole attendants is ridiculous. It used to be that when they were done wiping, a final wipe with a warm, soapy cloth was included! Now it costs extra!

[palek]

; - )

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

I really wish I thought of it. Get paid to cuddle with hot chicks... Genius!

[Anonymous]

Are you fucking serious? I would NEVER pay for any shit like this!!!

[Yannayka]

I didn't know this existed

[ThatBritishLad]

More importantly, where can I hire one?