I'm sure there are hot girls who dig the "nerd" personality, but I think your bigger problem is you're chasing after girls you see as unattainable. Why do you want a girl you feel inferior to, especially one who lets a guy treat her like crap? You would both clearly enter the relationship with some serious issues. Why don't you pick one you think is attractive, but one you feel almost equal to- it's a lot easier to start a relationship when you feel on equal footing. Nobody wants to date someone with no confidence and nobody wants to feel totally insecure in their relationship. Relinquish the need to find a "popular" looking girl, find a pretty girl you like who makes you feel great about yourself rather than a supermodel who makes you feel unworthy.
P.S. Real supermodels probably date hot guys who treat them like crap because a) they tend to work all the time and meet mostly hot male-models and b) because they are constantly criticized about EVERYTHING and under scrutiny so they might not feel as if there is anything wrong with a guy who treats them the same as everyone else in their lives do.
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Well, I don't know what you think about my looks..(picture on my profile), but my boyfriends a bit of a 'nerd'. He prefers to be called a geek lol. But he is the sweetest guy I've ever met in my life. He's also intelligent so we can sustain conversation, and he can teach me new things about computers.
You're probably asking the same question that nerdy girls ask themselves about hot guys going out with sluts. If you don't find other nerds to be good enough for you, how could you think that a gorgeous girl would think that you're good enough for her?
Nerds can have super model girlfriend if they are super rich...
Girls don't like boys they like cars and money also they don't like nice guys without a pair who can't be the man in the relationship, you can't have two bitches someone has to lead...
dude girls are dumb bitches...
most times they go with the losers and lol the nerds would treat them better and have more money :0 most girls are shallow bitches that's all I can say
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Basically it's two fold. One, they want someone who is confident and interesting, which most nerds are not. Nerds are usually rather reclusive, and have poor social skills. Two, is they just like you, want to be with someone that is attractive. But this is for the stereotypical nerds, and you don't have to be like that. I'd call myself a nerd, I love starwars, and Final Fantasy, but I can also choose not to make those things my whole life.
honestly, no one wants nerds. well not "no one" but they're pretty undesirable to most girls. nerdy guys are like the guy version of a fat girl.
guys are judgmental on looks/weight. girls are judgmental partially on looks but mostly on personality and social status.I'm a super model and I would like you better if you had a pocket protecter.
Of course nersds have supermodel girl friends. Rich, influential nerds, that is.
because those type of girls are attracted to guys with high social status, or the athletes, millionaires, etc.
im a computer geek too. lol
id kill to have a boyfriend who is like that. haha
the right one will come, don't worry.
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