What are your thoughts on people who believe regret sex is RAPE?

[Anonymous]

I came across this on twitter today, where a girl claimed she had consensual sex which she later regretted. Another girl jumped in and said its rape, because regret sex meant she didn't fully 100% consented. How do you all feel about this?

[LeeKenz]

Regret sex is not the same thing as rape. If it's consensual you can still regret it. There's people out there who have been raped, like me, and those people only want the attention. So what? You regretted it. It's not the end of the world, doesn't mean you have to announce is to the world that you were raped. Not only is it not true, unless of course it is, but think of what if you're putting the guy through. Because he would not only feel bad about being bad at it, but he would be confused because chances are the girl never said no. (Of course all of this isn't accusing rape victims of faking it). Regret sex is not rape. That's fucked up.

[maranguan]

LET ME TELL YOU WHAT A LOAD OF -
Okay let me stop myself early, and just sum it up in a sentence with as little profanity as possible:

It's a bad decision, not rape. UNLESS the other person is incapable of giving consent, then yes it's rape. But that isn't the case in the post.

[estoydorado1]

They're menaces to society. They're willing to ruin lives and reputations in order to evade any personal responsibility. I think that people like that should be isolated for a time so that they can work on their self awareness without distractions (aka other people to blame)

[MackFreeze]

If she regrets it that is still not rape, rape is forcing someone to have sex and ussually involves physical assault too. This type of crap makes rape a colloquial term and is taking away from what true rape is.

Plenty of guys hook up with girls and regret it too, that isn't rape, it was their choice to get drunk/do drugs/ etc. that got them in that situation.

[Gayview_Mahat]

As a guy, that is really scary. I can't believe people are so stupid.
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[Ccmama]

I disagree with the tweeters. Regret sex does not equal rape. Since at the time of sex, they consented to it, there is no case of rape. Even if you regret it in the end, it was their fault for agreeing to it in the first place because it was their choice

[DaveDavidson]

This shit is unbelievable.
One of my best friends was actually raped, since some asshole decided she owed him sex and wouldn't take "no" for an answer. That is rape. Sex you regret is a poor fucking decision, own it like a grown up. I'd love to see these girls try to justify their claims to an actual tape victim.

[DaveDavidson]

Lol, "tape victim" dammit autocorrect

[Dajani]

Oh lord. This dilutes the integrity and the definition of the word rape. It shouldn't be used lightly.

Whatever reason for regret she had after, has nothing to do with the choice of consent she made before.

There is no % to consent. Its a simple yes or no.

No wonder people are taking a very serious issue so lightly these days.

[JustinTheGreat]

That's the dumbest shit i've ever heard.
Rape is when you're forced to have sex. If you decided to have sex and it wasn't forced, then you weren't raped.
If you regret it, then that's your damn problem lol

[TriTree]

We all have regrets in life. You consented, it happened therefore it was just sex with another. It wasn't against your will, done by your will and there's, no drugs or any of that kind, so it was fair. I'm sorry you regret though.. all the best in the future..

[Anonymous]

She seems dumb if you consented to it before the act its consensual not rape if you regret it don't sleep with the guy again you still allowed it didn't voice your opinion that you didn't want to have sex with the guy girl was into it at the moment can't be rape you can't change your mind after you had finished having sex already he isn't forcing himself onto you you agreed at that moment you may regret it but you agreed while the act was happening

[ffsxx]

This is ridiculous. If it was consensual the whole way through it's not rape. No one can look into the future and know if the person is going to regret it or not.

[deraz24]

Wow then they're very ignorant. No matter how much a person regretted it later on, if they wanted to do it at the time then its totally consensual. If that was the case there would be so many "regret rapes" going on as is

[watercolor_lions]

I chose to eat fattening fried food for a month, gained weight, and regretted it. I was force fed.

[watercolor_lions]

People make mistakes. Even in consenting for sex. Doesn't mean they can place the blame on another person, though. Especially if they genuinely thought they wanted it at the time.

[reixun]

that's like willingly eating a pizza then regretting it after cuz it made u feel bad VS having a pizza shoved down your throat lmaoo

[winterfox10]

This is why I never drunk hooked up in college! Too many women have this perspective that anything short of stone cold sober, headboard banging sex that you'll write your mother about constitutes rape.

These sorts of posts are absolutely insane

[Rubified94]

If a person had consensual sex & then regretted it afterwards that is definitely not the same thing as rape. They should take responsibility for their actions instead of blaming & ruining someone else's life in the process.

[heimdallr]

That is absolutely NOT rape and quite frankly if you say it is you should go to prison for false accusation.

[Anonymous]

That's stupid, she shoulda fully thought things through before engaging in such risky behaviour.

Making a mistake is a decision she made on her own, sadly it resulted as regret but no one was holding a gun to her head

[CT_CD]

Women do that all the time. Have consensual sex, regret it afterwards and claim that she was raped. Women who do that should get life in prison

[LeeKenz]

That's a bit harsh

[disgustingweebtrash]

@CT_CD I agree, but what about the death penalty?

[CT_CD]

@disgustingweebtrash No. They must suffer in prison.

[LeeKenz]

Why? Guys rape women and they only get a year for that shit... where's the fucking equality?

[metalsucks2]

@LeeKenz
Wheres the equality when women get a slap on the wrist for sleeping with their students?

[disgustingweebtrash]

@LeeKenz Yeah but this is lying and spitting in the face of people who have actually been raped

It's fine though, women in reality don't get shit for this at all, often get off scot-free.

[LeeKenz]

Teachers get fired and get time in prison. Or they should. I know they don't. But they should. But where's the equality when a guy sleeps around he's praised, when a girl does it she's labeled as a whore?

[LeeKenz]

Yeah, I mean if they claim to have been raped but weren't something should be done. I've been raped and when I first tried to come out with it people didn't believe me cuz bitches that lied about that made it an "impossible reality"

[disgustingweebtrash]

@LeeKenz Women don't have to work to sleep around, just go on tinder and get 200+ wanting som fok. Guys have to work to sleep around, that's a reason for the double standard existing also, it's up to girls whether or not they want to shame men who sleep around

[LeeKenz]

@disgustingweebtrash it's not that. It's the fact that men get praised for doing the same stuff women do, whereas women are called sluts and whores. Why shouldn't men be called whores?

[disgustingweebtrash]

@LeeKenz It's sad you were actually raped unlike the hoes here who decide they were raped because they regretted it, but if I might ask, when did you come out about being raped? After the situation or a year after?

[LeeKenz]

The very next day

[disgustingweebtrash]

@LeeKenz As I said, that's for women to decide, I don't praise men for sleeping around but I don't berate them for it, why? I have no desire to sleep with a dude so his number to me does not count whatsoever

[metalsucks2]

@LeeKenz
@LeeKenz
Name me one female teacher who was sentenced to years in prison for sleeping with her student?

It's so bad that this problem has become an epidemic and these women continue doing this because they know they will get away with it plus the victim/s are treated like "heroes" with remarks like "where was she when I was in high school".

Also the reason why men who are promiscuous get praised and women who are promiscuous get shamed is because for men getting sex is very hard because he has meet certain standards but for women getting sex is very easy. Im not saying shaming people is right but just pointing out why the double standard exists.

[disgustingweebtrash]

@LeeKenz Then that absolutely sucks, we need more women like you who come out earlier than coming out a long time afterwards, did you get a rape kit used?

[LeeKenz]

@metalsucks2 it's bullshit the whole double standard thing. It's fucking bullshit.

[LeeKenz]

@disgustingweebtrash pm me

[disgustingweebtrash]

@LeeKenz "This user allows private messages from followings only"

[OlderGuy965]

If it's consented, it's not rape. You can't change your mind after the fact. If you're in the middle of the act, and she says stop, then stop. If he doesn't, then maybe. But not after the fact. Think about it. I'm surprised this is even a post.

[Anonymous]

The scariest thing in today's society is to sleep with somene and the next morning. Wake up to them getting ready to go to their gender studies course.

[Anon85]

I think they're extremely dangerous and any potential partner should avoid her at all costs

[Quintessence]

Is regret robbery, then, a case of accidental sticky-fingers?

[Anonymous]

As someone who has been raped, this makes me sad. Rape is when the other person doesn't care about what you want and forces you to do something. It is completely different from regretting something that you did earlier.

[MaiNameIsSunshine]

Goodness, people just get dumber and dumber don’t they?

[Gypsy_x]

I think she's a fucking mungbean, and it making a joke of true victims.

[burpzzzzz]

And you wonder why men no longer want to date women. This is only the beginning false domestic abuse is even more common.

[iFarted]

they should get smacked... maybe then they'll think reasonably.

i had consented sex with a girl, when she drained my balls of sperm i regretted it.. im calling rape...

[DankMemeage420]

They're fucking retarded and I don't care how politically incorrect that word is, pc is bullshit and so are those fucking feminazis

[therandomguy1]

It's a terrible idea that is very dangerous to the whole concept of consensual sex.

[exhaustedfromlife]

They are uneducated and not everything is classified as rape.

[Antonio_]

There are idiots who could potentially destroy a mans entire life

[m0shim0shi]

This is why I have trust issues.

[heimdallr]

Part of the reason I'm not married

[just_wondering_01]

It was obviously not rape.

[este1864]

They're idiots, devious and wrong.

[Bshosuite]

That is crazy, you can't just make up felonies

[disgustingweebtrash]

Women who do this should get life in prison

[cupidkisses]

They are weird they call anything as rape

[jakeofalltrades]

that isn't true and it is a dangerous idea

[1millonlies]

Stupid, just stupid.

[Insanyx12]

Sigh

[rajneesh1]

Hi I like sex but not rape

[kenjaminSlutton716]

That's retarded