Being a female? (Page 4)

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I mean, what do you really have to do? 1) You have guys always throwing themselves at you 2) You can just lay there and take the penis, do no work, and no one is ever going to say you're bad 3) You probably don't have to work if you have a guy to support you. 4) You play some sick head games for attention and expect guys to read your minds. 5) You can go home with whoever you want from the bar, take the walk of shame and then use "but I was drunk" as an excuse. 6) Your only daily problem is making sure you can buy both those pairs of shoes that are on sale. 7) I have my period, so I have am going to yell at you for everything... 8) Power of the pussy. You call the shots in bed, and if you don't want it, you love to make us suffer... Man it must be nice being a female. I think I am going to ask God to make me one in my next life. Except I'll probably be normal and actually want a real relationship without games or drama.There's a lot of early 30's bachelors out there... wonder why?

mortablunt · Answer

I seem to encounter all the things that are right with women and wrong with women. I live and work with some incredible females. My mother, teachers, and workgroup members are great people. However, when I try to get into dating, I seem to always get the manipulative bitches who really ought to be on the receiving end of a fist for once rather than smacking a guy who simply can't meet their crazy expectations.

BlackSuperman · Answer

you struck a nerve, son... lotsa females DO do what you listed here... why you think the outrage from the female posters? I have always found it hilarious as to see the simple emotionalism when it comes to topix like these... just by telling the truth, you have made yourself into a villain in some people's eyes... never backtrack from anything you say.

TC123 · Answer

Well, if they're "hot" they can just sit there and wait for a sucker. If they're "not hot" not so much.

2allocana · Answer

As a woman if you don't look good almost all of the things you describe won't even happen. -___-
Also, from personal experience men enjoy being the provider because it's instilled in them and makes them feel powerful.
But hey there's always exceptions!
I did have guys throw themselves at me but usually it's a nuisance.
Lastly, I'm denied sex all the time by my boyfriend. You guys enjoy having the "penis power" hardcore
*sigh*
P. S. You get to have sex with half the world and not be judged and mistreated for it. . . Just saying

Esvanna · Answer

No it isn't easy , but it sure is fun. Also, I just noticed that your basis is mostly on sex.

..period, pregnancy, more prone to stress and moodswings, insecurities, selfesteem, discrimination crap, fashion, jealous whores and gossips...and many more.

auudrreyy · Answer

i love being a girl so much buttttttt girls have to worry about looking good all the time. for example, that their hair looks perfect, they can't go anywhere without make up,  have to always watch what they eat, and have to act like a lady. well that goes for the girls who actually care. and we have to worry about getting pregnant. if a guy gets a girl pregnant, he can just leave. but you do make excellent points and so many girls just complain  because they know they can get away with it  because they are having their period or something. it gets REALLY annoying.

Wistala · Answer

1) not f***ing true

2) You just pick bad sex partners I guess

3) I work my f***ing ass off and I don't need anyone to help me, I've actually helped a lot of my male friends, financially

4) both sexes do sh*t like that wow

5) can't say for this one cause I don't drink or f*** people

6) Not f***ing true, I worry about so many different things like my family, my finances, my friends, my job, my classes

7) That's one thing that pisses me off about other women, it's just a f***ing excused to be a bitch once a month, I don't feel any different off while I'm on my period.

8) Can say anything about this cause like I said, I don't f*** people

f*** this sh*t

GothicAngel_01 · Answer

Not really women don't have it easy... I'd liike to see a guy push a baby out, deal with watchin the girl of his dreams get with another guy without even thinkin bout you, I'm not a feminist but there's a hell of a lot of men out there that believe what you've written.

Women's cramps from periods can become crippling ... I could go on

ILoveToxD · Answer

Am not even gonna bother reading the responses because at the end of the day, sh*t goes on the same way it always has and most likely will be, regardless of what's been said, who got mad over this topic, who laughed and who just sat there with a drink and pop corn reading  others' response. Good day to you all :).

taurene · Answer

Even though you denied it, this sounds EXTREMELY personal. I'm not a feminist, you just sound like a pig. You may not have dated a girl like this but maybe you just can't get a girl or you just keep going after the wrong ones. You overheard sluts at the bar, not women. Get a reality check, a lot of girls I know are not like that at all and neither am I.

confusedolivia · Answer

1. It takes a lot more work than you think to look good. 2. Uhh I don't know about you but there is this little position called RIDING. thigh workout. 3. F***that, some women like the independence and the ability to make their own money. That's why all those women's rights acts were passed in the first place. duh. 4. Okay, but why is that when a guy f***s with a girl he is hailed as an all mighty player but when a girls f***s with a guy we become bitches and sluts? 5. Heh true, but trust me, we wake up with regrets that are difficult to get over. 6. UMMM no. not at all. and you're an idiot if you really believe that. 7. Nah, it's called midol. and periods suck a lot more than you think they do. how would you like cramping up and bleeding for five days? 8. Well.. that one's true :)

if you're a female in your next life you'll see exactly what I'm talking about.

miri343 · Answer

I think you've gotten enough back lash so I'm not going to bother adding any of that. But I personally don't think its a healthy way to feel. Plus like you said you overheard all of that. More likely it was guy talk. Most times guys... no humans in general rant about a whole load of things but at the end of the day you still do them or are with them. Like you hate/love your family at times but you still cater to them because you love them. Same with women I guess. You don't see all those guys who rant about their girlfriends/wives, leaving them do you? Its because deep down they know they love, care about and would do anything for them. No gender is exactly perfect and I think we should look deeply at both sides of the coin before making any type of judgment.  To hear is simply not enough. I suggest you go out their and experience love and relationships for yourself. Enough said.

snapcracklepot · Answer

You obviously had a bad breakup or SOMETHING because I can't imagine you would be this much of an asshole otherwise. 99% of what you said is complete sh*t. The only one I'd agree with is the "man working" part. And personally, I'd appreciate the hell out of my guy if he let me be unemployed and cook for him, keep the house clean, laundry, etc. which honestly is hard work.

highp · Answer

In North America, guys never ask me out. I have many guys who are friends - some of them have hit on me. When I've been to France and Mexico or even here, it's always men from these parts of the world who make a move. I would consider myself very attractive but I am shy. For the longest time, I didn't realize I was pretty. I think guys here need to not be afraid of pretty girls because many are waiting for you to make a move. They don't have it easy - I feel very alone.

Belleast · Answer

so you overheard three women talking about how easily they have it and you made a quick judgment that all women are the same?  that is really not a good personality you have.  I guess some men and women make use of each other for satisfaction and pleasure.  Some of what you have listed there are basically almost the same as what some men do to women as well.

Hello_World10 · Answer

I think either you have been hurted by a girl in the pass and try to take it out online. Some is true but I guess if you can handle giving birth, having cramps, and period every month. Sure. There are always pro and con. Chill out, you really do sound unintelligent.  Making a lot of assumptions. Get over it. You are the weaker the link.

poulette12 · Answer

HaHaHa! You're hilarious. What about menstruation, pregnancy and menopause? Not fun. Oh, and men don't throw themselves at every female. That was funny though, thanks for making part of my day. We do have advantages, that's true but we also have disadvantages. Sometimes I wish I were a guy.

Dragonlady · Answer

bahaha yes its awsome all those things are true, I don't play sick mind games tho...but yes power of the pussy...but hey...we have more emotions and we get stuck with the pain of childbirth incuding the gross after prego body we have and the torn open vag that gets cut with sicsscors to let the baby out and then sown back up...yeahhhh we pretty much get our cake later on in life.

luvhimmm · Answer

WHO are you describing, I don't crae if you overheard it, those girls must be sluts, I have never worried over shoes, I worry about my depression and anxiety my college work and wether or not that cute guy I've been flirting with has a grlfriend. I don't play sick games and I would never pick up a guy from a bar...eww you don't know where he's been!

Birdsofprey · Answer

Actually it can be difficult being a woman because you never know what a guys intentions are.  You think someone is a nice guy, until he starts humping you like a dog.  Then when you say no, they turn into complete jerks.  I just want to find a nice honest guy, is that so much to ask?

Littletad · Answer

There's just no argument here. Being a woman is more difficult than a man. Period.

Beastieboys95 · Answer

LOL! dude not all chicks are drama seeking little whiny bitches I know plenty of those hoes and I keep far away from them. As far as possible(: don't worry you will find a good chick one of these days you'll fall in love and all that sh*t so don't worry about it and you putting all this in a question is making it seem like your whining no offense chill it dude and you'll be alright

Caleio · Answer

being a girl is hard, believe it or not, because we have to make the babies and if something goes wrong, it falls on us, we are rejected, then raped, we are talked about consistently, our life seems like its always full of drama, and again, what everybody else has been saying, periods suck. Sometimes though, life isn't so bad and that's when we look up to the men to help us out so we can kick our feet up a bit :)

brunettebelle · Answer

We live in a mans world. In some countries women have it harder and have no rights. You never know they are just trying to brag. Not all women have it easy, such as if a girl gets knocked up, the guy can easily run and disappear, while the girl can run but that baby is still with her. Both genders have it hard, we just have different problems. I'm sure those women have issues but they aren't going to blurt them out.

SexyDanger927 · Answer

i don't know what kind of lazzy whores you date but let me tell you something if I yell its  because I want to not  because I'm on my ragg if I cheat it ain't  because I'm drunk its  because you don't satisfy me and plus when you get us prego whos the one that has to pop him out your penis rite? nope you don't we doo

Anonymous · Answer

You will never understand what it's like to be a girl until you are one.

what about the single mothers that struggle But get through

what about the d***less mother f***ers that leave after they get the girl pregnant. Id love to trade places for a day.

smartoxymoron · Answer

If you had to deal with a period every month you would bitch too.

We give birth.

Women who's husbands support them financially usually cook clean and take care of his children.

almost anything you can do, we can do in heels

Anonymous · Answer

From what I've come to understand in my short life, hell no it's not easy for them. You've got to understand that both sexes have unique struggles, unique pros and cons. Also you should never generalize, it just makes you sound stupid. You think you've summed up half the world's population in with a list full of BS stereotypes? Think again.

Anonymous · Answer

Listen you f**** little bitch, men have it so much easier than women. Yes even if a man does support her, a women still usually does all the cooking cleaning and taking care of the kids. That is hard work. This is more than likely the case if a woman works too. If a man throws himself at woman (which they rarely do) its because the woman worked hard to make sure he did. Yes, periods make us moody- deal with it its not our faults. Stop complaining-you never had cramps from your period or had to give birth. Its been proven that women have a higher capacity for pain than men and if men had to give birth-the human race would go extinct. Most of us work hard for those shoes that we want, and just like there are lazy good for nothing women, there are the same types in men. Stop looking for trashy women in bars and get over yourself.

qsefy · Answer

I have never just laid there and 'taken it'.  I work my ass off in bed and guys definitely appreciate it.  I'm also going to school to become a doctor so I can support myself.  Guys seem to be able to use excuses for sex way more than girls. It seems girls have way more emotional problems than guys, I'm currently in eating disorder recovery so I think I have more problems than shopping. (which I don't even like doing).

allen_88 · Answer

I am Stud Quality :) .

sex appeal(physical attractiveness)

self confidence

large dck (7"*6")

light brown eyes

I have even been asked out before many times.

I never have to start the Flirting since the females always do.

Yeah I am overly picky also.

on the attractiveness scale I am a 9 out of 10

Anonymous · Answer

WOOOW you have it allllll wrong...girls have to deal with so much more krap than guys.  We have to face egotistical and ignorant males (like you) everyday! But if I were a guy I wouldn't even have to brush my hair, or anything.  I wouldn't constantly get verballly harrassed by horny males.  I could just crack open a beer and let all the women do all the work!

Anonymous · Answer

We don't ask to be protected or supported, I personally love being independent. And if we just lay there and take penis. We would have a much uglier image then you would, we would get tormented and used. Our only problem is making sure if we get those shoes on sale? . Please. Not all of us are daddy's girl. Some of us actually make a living. And if you hate "sick head games" that much then move on to the next girl. Why are you her giving that attention? Yes, girls want to feel special, and we need someone to tell us how beautiful we are, and there will be girls out there that will take advantage of that. Woman don't get as much chances as men do. But being born with both genders come's with advantages and disadvantages, just make the best of what God has gifted you with.

Find yourself a woman that's going to treat you right and respect you. There are plenty out there, you just haven't given her the chance yet.

Anonymous · Answer

This is all so subjective to each person's experience... it is like saying "Is swimming easy?" People are going to react to different  situations easier or find them to be more challenging depending on their life experiences. This topic is rather juvenile actually.

munchkin15 · Answer

Yea I do have to say we have it pretty easy. Unless we get raped and have a kid then are whole life is ruined and the guy is the one that can just walk away from it and not get those stares of judgement. And the periods can b bad but usually just the first day. But that just might b me.

flower1000 · Answer

hahah  I think you know exactly what your saying you wrote this silly question for a reaction  don't you be so insulting if a woman didn't give birth to you you wouldn't be here you sill BOY

nocrabcorejordan · Answer

this is the dumbest argument.  everyone is wrong seeing as not one single person has actaully been both genders.  who the f*** cares.  get over your jealousy/insensitivities.  live life

Estro-Winner · Answer

Being female isn't as easy as it looks; we go through more hardships than you can ever imagine. Then again I wouldn't doubt there are women out there that are actually like that, but I also know many of us aren't. Try to be more understanding, and less judgemental. Don't forget guys can be d***heads too.

Anonymous · Answer

Yikes...for being a guy you sure do like to bitch and complain.  You must just be a whore on her period.

thegypsyjester · Answer

You're right. I f***ing love being a bitch. Sorry that you're stuck with a penis.

Anonymous · Answer

oh yea it was super easy for my mom to raise myself and my siblings and support us all financially while my Dad was an absentee father/drug-addict who got thrown in jail for gun and drug trafficking. not saying that men do not have problems as well, every person has there own unique experience in life.

Anonymous · Answer

Actually most girls don't have it easy.

it may seem as though we have it easy but the men probably have it way easier than us. like I mean you guys never need to worry about when your gonna bleed if its in the middle of class. we take about 1 - 2 hours just for our hair but you guys can just take a shower and leave you don't need to worry about if you need make up or if your hair looks a mess or all that stuff. you guys don't need to carry boobs around on your chest like some girls have huge boobs which they can be heavy to carry around and shirts don't fit as easy with bigger boobs. also girls get big hips after giving birth to a baby which means new clothes for us. and you guys don't need to worry about your parents screaming at you for being a pregnant teenager. but I never understand how come guys get so many girls and get called a player but when girls do it we are whores , sluts , hoes and all that stuff and no one ever wants to be around us ?

Anonymous · Answer

All I have to say is, THATS EFFING RIGHT. If we are going to go home with you you had better give it to us without making us work! YES BEING A FEMALE IS PRETTY FREAKING AWESOME. Get used to having the sucky life of a male :)

with love,

all of the wonderful females in the world

Anonymous · Answer

f*** feminism with a big steel shower rod. you want equal rights then take the consequences and go enroll in selective service. we're the first ones thrown in the war while the bloody rest of the lot I'm supposed to die for sits back and argues for higher pay

Anonymous · Answer

120th answerer! yay! anyway, seriously dude?! Honestly, I think both genders got it hard. But I honestly would take a boner over a period any day. You don't have to deal with PMS (Even though I does look like you have BMS). Seriously, I call people like you manstruaters.

Anonymous · Answer

hahaha I wish our lives were that easy! lol

but you have no idea how many times I have thought "ugh I wish I was a dude right now." and nooo wayyy am I not gunna work when I'm older, I feel like in life you have to work for everything you want or desire, with out attempting or working your butt off for something how would you ever feel accomplished in life? and what's the point of all the effort you do in school then?

In some ways girls have it easier, but in other ways we have it harder.

Loveinwonderland · Answer

You're obviously quite bitter and have no idea about women.

moviedude714 · Answer

it's also easier for them to get a job in customer service than it is for us guys

mizzkeribaby · Answer

1) you have to make your self look good in order to get a guy and that takes FOREVER 2) sometimes it kind of hurts in other words "orgasm" 3) id fell bad staying home and just shopping all day 4) they should know a little how we feel 5)  because its true we were drunk 6) not really we have to "FIX" our selves and worry about guys 7) that doesn't happen to everyone 8) ITS NOT THAT EASY!

ticklish2010 · Answer

I think you should stop dating chics from a bar and find an independent woman that can easily take care of herself. sounds like your shopping for skanks not women.

_yan3t · Answer

what kind of shallow girls have you met before?    not all girls are like this you havnt actually sat down to talk to a girl have you?

-StillWater- · Answer

Haha... This is pretty funny... I hope God makes you a woman in your next life...but helps you retain the memory from when you where a dude...

Anonymous · Answer

You don't know anything.  Being a woman is very difficult.  Men don't make things easy & women love them relentlessly.  Men could really learn something from women, I'm ashamed of any man who feels different.

Anonymous · Answer

I feel you, but they don't have it easy as much as you claim, it's only easier for them to get a boyfriend than it is for us guys to get a girlfriend

Sky93 · Answer

Aww poor you, you have to work a little harder in bed. Well imagine carrying a baby for 9 months and then when the baby is born you're back to your monthly periods from hell. But seriously, both sexes have it hard in their own ways, but jeez calm down, you shouldn't hold that much resentment towards women lol

italykam · Answer

Wow someone was having a bad day. 10 months have passed, maybe you have a different view now? Not all women are bad. Some men are bad. It is pretty well balanced.

Just-A-Person · Answer

Wow. You have some real issues with women. I feel bad for you. You must be very lonely and bitter on the inside. Would you say that about your mother? Sister?

Bigfluff87 · Answer

Dude really? OK some of that is true lol. but I don't think the whole girls get guys thrown at you uh no... if your hot and skinny yes fat nooo even at a bar!  Guys are full of drama also there buddy Everyone just needs to love :)

jcoldstream · Answer

Yes. It is easier to be sexual if you're a young woman. Boys have to wait until a woman who wants their company comes along. As a girl I can have anybody I like, within minutes of asking. Life is not fair.

loveforthelights · Answer

Its just like a guy to put this sh*t up hunni let me just tell you your all wrong just because you can't keep a girl because you have so many problems doesn't mean its all of the female race fault dude really get a life and stop being a HATER!

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