Does being in the military strip you of your individuality and sense of self?

[Malik00]

This is something I've been mulling over for a long time. I've been toying with the thought of joining my states national guard. After all its just 2 day a month and an extra 2 weeks a year for what is basically easy money, as well as fitness and combat/survival training.
It would help me with monetary issues as well as get me in good shape along with the added benefits of being involved with the military being on my resume.
But i keep getting mixed responses, some say its a good idea since I won't be 100% indoctrinated. Others say even the short amount of time would be enough to make you lose sense of self.

If anyone has been in the military, can then give some clarity on this?

[Logorithim]

I'm a veteran. You'll only feel that way in a training environment, where it's done deliberately. I wouldn't worry about losing your sense of self- it's just a game that you and others, including your drill sergeants, have to play.
Also check out what additional tuition breaks for college are offered by your state in addition to the standard GI Bill stuff. Choose a technical MOS.

[Patrickjv]

Nope. It makes you lose most of that bitching attitude boys have when they think their shit is special.

[Malik00]

But i never even had that...

[Patrickjv]

Well you're peaches then. You'd notice though that you complained about some pretty minor things before joining.

[BrandiSue]

I am pretty sure there is still the basic training type thing.. which is where the 'indoctrination' happens. I think it depends on your personality..
in my opinion if you wouldn't join the army... then you probably aren't suited for national guard either..
I think it can be great for people and I don't think you "lose" yourself i think you become a better person

[Anonymous]

You might become a "Yes-man". It might well spill over into your personal life. Being told what to do and when without question.

No good for me. I am too much of an assertive bitch.

[Malik00]

For $1000+ and the chance to pay back my student loans... I'm ok with being someone's bitch for a couple days a month.

[lilmissumshine]

No it doesn't. you just need to do research on it. if it's what you want then no it's not tearing at your individuality

[Anonymous]

lol it happens to some (the weak minded) but it goes away after you get out of training.