Why would a girl won't or wait days to accept your friend request on facebook?

[g_stuart]

I don't know her that well but she seems interested in me & Í'm obviously into her. I don't know if she has boyfriend or not but by the way she's behaving with me ... all signs point that she's very into me. Now ... It's been like 2 days & she hasn't accept me , & 2 days ago I could see her photos on her page eventh" ".. I'm not her friend yet but now turns out she change her privacy & now I can't see nothing. ...I don't know if she did it on purpose or what'/why... What do you think girls? I hate waiting for that!

[Kaylife]

i make friend request wait because I have to see if I know them..or I don't want them...to be I honest just want to make them wait tell I feel like it which usually leads me to delete them...but with her she known you and if she likes you she would just accepted the friend request. I knew a guy who did that to my friend was seriously talking to and she found out that he was talking to other girls or that he had girl friend and he was hiding it from her on his facebook and later on his account was private and still is lol. What made her mad was that he would add her friends who he didn't know but never her when they clearly knew each other. I don't know why my friends continue to try to add him because he wasn't going to add her...maybe she's hiding something and playing you...i believe at this age and time she should be mature and just be up front with you so you wouldn't be setting at your computer wondering wtf hasn't she added me and changed her privacy setting...n also give it time..yea 2 days is a while because you know she has been on because her setting changed don't panic just wait and if she still hasn't added you move on...ask a friend to add her and see if she adds them..if she does then she's playing games or re-add her again

[yeths]

I think she is playing a little hard to get with you so it wouldn't seem like she's desperate (even if she is), wait a little man

[Jevier]

Don't worry dude, I had same problem so, don't be confused just do these things.
1. first analyse does she accept other guys requests? The requests whatever she has accepted does they all average boys or cool boys
2. Are you cool guy? Or a good personality at school or college or whatever where you are..
3. If ans of all these question are yes then
Yeah, you are attractive personality, and she might be secretly likes you, but maybe she is checking or testing your patience level
Girls always do these things,
But if she ans is no then, maybe she must accept your request, because the girl only take these two thing big 1. she either likes you or hate you.. but in my opinion average guy or normal random guy always accepted because she not like those guys she is not giving any special attention or so, the things is she give special attention only on two things as I said.. Maybe you special or maybe you are nothing for her... And if she counts you in average or normal she would've accepted your request, and I think in your case, might be she's like you, but most important thing she doesn't wants you, yeah she likes but she's not wanting to you in serious relationship, you are maybe funny so, she is getting pleasure from you, you are source of her fun... But yeah it can be convert in to relationship if you have enough skills and courage... Don't be shy I was I did a huge mistake but I want recommend you go and talk to to her with skills not with emotions She don't care your emotion now days, girl just see your personality abd your behavior and your skills to communicate and all... So, rather than to be emotional first be intelligent it's must and must require most boys do same mistake boys love some girls and rather too she skill boys scared to apporch Don't be scared talk lije she is another random girl, and communicate with her as much as possible this is the only key you can have her in your arms, the better you at communicate the more she will try to talk with you,... don't be nervous if you don't apporch you will miss her... I did mistake but guys I don't let you down, guys has to always first apporch girls never ever do, so stand up go and get her... Or try to talk with her from your friends id which must be already accepted and don't lie tell her what you feel and just ask simply why me,.. you want accept then accept me or block me but don't do this to me...

[flurry]

I would have said that she was making it seem like she was hard to get, but changing her profile settings are a bit weird...maybe she realized that they were public and didn't want it to be but if she purposely blocked them so you can't see them, I think that means she's not into you and that kinda creeped her out by adding her to FB... I know that some guys think girls like them when we laugh, smile and giggle, but sometimes we are just being girls and not flirting and then it gets a little weird when the guy looks us up and adds us to FB or starts texting us all the time... I know, it's hard to tell with women when they are or are not flirting but the whole blocking her pictures seems like she might have just been light heartedly being a girl and not into you...

[Maggalicious]

she might not like you. sometimes, I've noticed, guys exaggerate the signs of a girl liking them. Just cause I talk to you...doesnt mean I like you that way or because I smile too much. lol give it some time, I could be wrong.

[g_stuart]

It's not only the talk & smile... she stare at me too. She has a few other guys after her but I'm the only one who gets her attention.

[Maggalicious]

Time will only tell lol...if she doesn't accept...she might of been creeped out.

[Sarcastic]

Because a) she doesn't check her notifications because facebook keeps changing their layouts every 2 seconds b) doesn't go on facebook much c) facebook security settings are annoying as hell d) is contemplating adding you or not.

[g_stuart]

Must be b & d. Because I'm 99.5% she's into by her behavior & all the signs she has giving me tell me that she's single but then I'don't really know. But every time she around me it's like "hard work" for her you know with all the staring & playing & asking me about things like she gets really nervous & doesn't know what to do or say . Maybe you girls get a bit afraid when it comes the time to make a move, Right? & it's p*ssing me off!! Jjaja

[Sarcastic]

HEY maybe if you guys weren't so confusing with your signals we'd be less nervous about doing something wrong xD