Isn't it better she be not born at all than be born in a family where she isn't valued and cared for? Isn't it better if the mother just gets rid of the female fetus overall and get back into a normal and secure life not having to think of the burden that comes with a girl child anymore? Like who the fuck are you to say that it's sexist? If she wants to get rid of a girl then let it be, right? I know this one woman who became so sad when her third child ended up being a daughter too, that she cried. Why put mothers into so much sadness and despair?
And same for boy child too. What if a mother decides she wants daughter only so she aborts her boy fetus? Is THAT okay?
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Within the regular phase of legal abortions, which lasts between 3-4 months in most countries, abortions should be allowed for any and all reasons. No questions asked. You don't want this child? Okay.
After the 12-week (or 16-week) limit, abortions should only be allowed for very special and important reasons (rape, danger to the health of the mother etc.).
It should also be said however that your scenario is rather unrealistic in the Western Hemisphere. While female infanticide may still be common in Bangladesh (I can't judge), quite the opposite is true for North America, Europe and other first world countries such as Australia, New Zealand and Japan.
In these industrialized regions of the world, the trend for preferred sex among expecting parents has drastically changed during the past 20 years. While boys used to be much more popular for hundreds of years up until the 1990s, it is now girls. There are polls and studies indicating that parents these days would much rather have a girl (or several girls) than a boy. In fact, this trend is now so strong that one could make the case that girls are the sex of the future. They possess many of the skills and natural talents a person of the postmodern era needs. They are sociable, creative and many other things. The sheer truculency of men loses its demand rapidly. On top of that, baby boys are nowadays considered the more challenging children. They are loud, wild, can't sit still in class, mischievous etc.. And while I personally don't believe in all of these stereotypes, even I have to admit that I'd rather have a baby girl than a baby boy. Ideally, I'd love to have one of each but what I hope I won't have is two boys.
Abortion or killing of girl child isn't much of a thing here but it is in some places. In many places it is so horrible, men attack or divorce their wives for having daughter.
I know, it's incredibly backwards...
It is! But in many places like China also they would prefer to keep a boy instead of a girl when they had the one child policy because boys keep family name. Despite history proving that it is not always boys who necessarily do it.