I work every day. One full-time office job (with a really good company but below average salary) and I work on the weekends for minimum wage. May I say, I’m drained and still not getting ahead of my bills.
I am a girl that doesn’t like going out and partying (drinking at a club). I prefer a quite night at home alone or with friends. I don’t see a lot of my friends because I live on the other side of the city, so if I do see them, it’s up to me to drive out to see them and it takes me 40mins(one way so my gas budget takes a beating on those days, I do visit them).
I don’t dress in flashy clothing; I’m more of a tomboy if anything. I like jeans and t-shirts (very casual) and I don’t like to wear fancy labels. I dress up once and a while, but only for special events or if I’m around my friends that make more money than me (yes, I feel low class around them sometimes). I feel this way because I don’t get any financial support from my parents or family. I live on my own, and although you may never suspect that I am “thrifty”. I don’t cheap out on my health. I still have a gym membership and eat extremely healthy (I can’t start eating poor because then I won’t really be taking care of myself is the way I see it). I am doing my best to save $ but it doesn’t seem enough. My friends almost all live at home or have financial assistance from their family members so they don’t understand the situation. I haven’t had a boyfriend in over a year because of this and now I’m starting to lose hope.
None of this sounds attractive for a man (in my opinion).
Guys, am I a loss cause? Would you even bother dating me, after knowing how much I struggle?
Most Helpful Opinions