Women will ruin your life without remorse if you let them and our laws certainly do.
Above all dont get married.
Feminism ruined our western world.
If you want to pursue women lead a mediocre average life with enough income to just be comfortable so when she inevitably destroys the career with some completely baseless scandle or screws you royally with a divorce you won’t have so far to fall. This also only attracts average to below average looking chicks who are more likely to stick around.
Don't trust women at all, they're snakes
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Question: How can men trust women in the wake of #metoo?
Translation: How can men us and abuse women now that they're finally reporting rapists and we can't just grab the pussy when we feel like it anymore?
I know lol, because now women aren't scared to report your perverted ass
So it's okay for you to not be generalized yet your question generalizes women in the sense that you are assuming we all report false rape claims? lol
So many dislikes
One of them is me
Got to be a record 17 down votes, she is going to owe GAG points
What is "Consent"? Does it need to be a written contract? Notarized? Some say they had a mutual attraction, and had sex, and the next morning, she is charging him with raping her!!
Was she drinking? If yes, then he is GUILTY, without proof, and he 'took advantage', right?
It seems if there is EVER, any alcohol involved, suddenly her story is believed, she was 'unable to make rational choices,' and he took advantage!!
Generalizations, YES, but seeing a lot of news clips, saying just that!
Kind of makes all guys just want to go back to the X-box and gaming, and forget about women, as you have become too DANGEROUS to talk to, thanks to MeToo!!
I've been falsely accused of stuff 3 times by a total of 7 women, so I know that it is more common than people want to admit. Another guy I worked with was falsely accused too. Luckily there were cameras for some, and many witnesses another time. But when the accusation is first made, they automatically believe the lying women, and then after it is proven false by cameras, there is still no apology by most of the ones that believed the liars.
You cannot trust them.
Based on a women's word you career and life can be over in a heartbeat.
But only if you don't fight back. Most men - even when innocent - they quiver in fear when faced with an allegation of wrong doing. They don't fight back , they don't defend themselves. Most men in western societies are taught not to fight against women. So this is what men do: nothing. Most women know this and they use it to their advantage.
The thing that really bothers me, is that even if he didn't do anything, and she is just hating on him, for liking her room mate better, so she says he 'assaulted' her, even though it is BULLSHIT, it stays on his record, FOREVER, and he is fucked! That is just crap!!
Don't get me wrong!! I know some women have really, honestly been abused, and suffered terrible things, but what about the guys that get accused? Even though they didn't do it, just the accusation is a mark, against them!! They are FCKED, forever!!
Fantastic my man!!! Your chart brightened my day! Although I must say, the #metoo crap is only a tiny part of the whole mess, and has nothing to do with the rest of your info. Men shouldn't have trusted women *before* the #metoo jazz. Now which website did you get this diagram from? Are there more where that came from?
First, you can NEVER trust a woman who isn't your mother... End of comment; so, don't give them your real name, address, any information to hurt you with, and if you get them pregnant let the next beta male take care of your kids for you. Never be that guy. Single mothers are parasites, even more so than regular women.
Then don't. Don't communicate with women, don't go out with them, don't interact with them. Just go away and live your life without being involved in women.
For people who seem to want to have nothing to do with women, you guys sure spend a lot of time TALKING about women.
*being involved with women.
We're you naive enough to believe you could trust women before?
Glad you got out, man. You never truly know a chick until it's over.
Just put all your assets into a trust before you commit to her. Then if she divorces you thinking she’s going to take all your shit, she gets nothing and you get half of her assets. Use your brain a little.
Its all true , smash and dash untill u find ur perfect one
You dont marry the bitch untill you are 200% sure its only your bitch - thats what my grandfather said to me years ago , it was really wise
How can we trust men if they're the main ones who rape and kill women after being rejected.
Also, don't worry. You won't have to worry about a divorce. I'm confident you won't have a relationship in the future.
" I'm confident you won't have a relationship in the future. " Ahh.. youth.
So are you still in high school?
At your age having a relationship is the most important thing there is. I was young once.
Of course you are going to find love , live in great castle and live happily ever after.
Just like in the Walt Disney movies, right? LOL!!!
Most marriages will end in divorce. It is usually the guy that gets screwed over. It is usually the guy that will have to pony up the money for both attorneys. It is usual the guy that will lose the house , the car , the savings account. This is the sad reality of it all.
But I get it. When you are young you think a relationship is the end all and be all of life.
"Oh God , I am single , I am such a loser!!"
When you are a teen and in your early 20's you believe in such hogwash.
As you get older you realize that being single is a blessing. Despite what you may have learned from Hollywood, a relationship is not all that is is cracked up to be. But you will learn that with experience. In my lifetime I have met a million guys with wives they can't stand tied down to a mortgage that will be their ball and chain for the next 30 years.
Trust me when I say that not being in a relationship is the best thing ever.
by being conservative and only date conservative women.
@Phanta Yes they do.
Besides Rissy , where? M Thatcher died
Just don't date the idiots that color their armpits or profess to be intersectional, third-wave feminists.
It’s just a lot harder to do these days. I think it’s a matter of being bonded to your principles and treating everyone like human beings—both men and women.
That really is the issue. This will just hasten the decline or meaningful relationships because men will be petrified of getting too close to a woman.
So, what you're saying is don't cheat or rape? Sounds good.
You're so right just look at the Brett Kavanaugh case. His life was certainly ruined, I mean a Supreme Court Justice? Damn, I gotta feel bad for the guy.
Simple: the number of false rape allegations is extremely small, meaning that pretty much no woman you interact with has done such a thing or is statically remotely likely to do so.
Need to take a course in statistics before you make conclusion based on data.
False allegations being small could be because of bias or the women drop the cases or the other side settle as soon as they feel they can't win.
This is also the statistics of general attorneys. They have high win ratios because they only prosecute when they think they can make it stick and settle in favorable conditions or they would simply drop the case if they don't feel like they can win.
It is the ones making the allegations have the advantage of giving up. The ones doing the defending is the one having a hard time.
@oddwaffle
It's not even about prosecuted cases. About 1200 cases of rape were reported to the police.
5% is generally estimated to be false.
The numbers of cases won, win rates of attorneys and such do not even factor in with the equation of X number cases reported to the police.
And I have actually had courses in statistics, don't worry about that.
Even if we assume half of cases are false, then the statistical likelihood that you'll ever be involved in a case like that is neglectable.
Well, let me share a stat
According to a website, more than 40% of rape cases filed by women were fake in India from April 2013 to July 2014
If you don't believe me, search Google
40% is not "extremely small"
@humptydumpty01 Well done, cherry-picking a statistic from a singular country where rape is generally far more prevalent and legal institutions are of poorer quality than the West.
Congratulations, you just added nothing to the discussion.
Well, I am just giving an argument against your "extremely small" comment
And also against you generalising it for every country
Well, it was a very very poor argument.
Even if 40% of rape allegations would be false, then the statistical likelihood of anyone being involved with that is pretty much zero.
I don't think you realise how the situations here are
Plus I couldn't really get what you said
"Simple: the number of false rape allegations is extremely small," Drank the kool aid, did you? Sorry, it's actually quite large. As a cop, I was far more likely to see cuts and bruises on both when on a domestic violence call, than on just the woman. Women actually initiate more domestic violence then men, by a wide margin.
@taleswapper
No, I just know the statistics
Trot them out, then. No one "just knows" statistics. Give sources.
In the Netherlands for example
www.rtlnieuws.nl/.../aantal-zedenmisdrijven-weer-gestegen-vijf-verkrachtingen-op
So about 1200 rape cases known to police
www.volkskrant.nl/.../
5% estimated to be false.
So 60 false rape allegations for an entire population of 17.5 million people.
And in the USA according to FBI, about 8% of allegations fake after investigation.
Many other instances can be found on Wikipedia, such in the UK like 2.5 to 8% false depending on definition and in Australia 2.1 percent.
According to the study 'Different systems, similar outcomes? Tracking attrition in reported rape cases in eleven countries' by Burman, Lovett and Kelly, it's about 4%.
Estimate is not data. It's an estimation. An educated guess. Need proper data or it will need the whole sets of methodologies and research. If you learned statistics you what's data and what is a guess.
If you actually learned statistics you should know how reports are collected and their flaws. If 1000 cases get reported a day then only those with the potential to be something more than wasted paperwork would be recorded properly. So that 5% is merely stuff that the guy doing the recording thinks it matters.
Also reported cases are cases made into the record. Not all possible cases or cases that went to the courthouse or settlement that might not have any reports.
So cases that involve blackmail, threads or just simply report on a wimp.
So it is not the reports that represents actual numbers, it's merely a filtered representation of actual population.
Even when you assume that there are rape allegations for every 1 in 2000 people, 5% of them being false gives you a statistically neglectable chance to be involved in one.
You're more likely to be killed in a simple car accident or such than be involved in this.
@oddwaffle
Educated guesses themselves are better than making up nonsense based on gut feelings.
@ranger962
I literally said even assuming more than the 5% are false, the statistical likelihood that anyone would be involved in it is neglectable. Even if the estimations by actual scientists are wrong, the number would still be very low in actual false rape allegation cases.
Plus, if some are in jail under false allegations, it detracts nothing from what I've said. I didn't say it doesn't happen, I said the statistical likelihood is extremely small that you'll be the victim of it
Assuming 1000 allegations a day. Only 100 get recorded. 5% of the recorded is false. 5/100 recorded would be false on paper but there are 900 unrecorded cases and all of them could be false. That could mean 90.5% of the time you get a false allegation.
The numbers aren't recorded so you have to cross reference with population data and filter out potential bias from the recorders. Even then, you would need a massive amount of data to even guess the possibility of a woman would report a man on rape charges.
Assuming 1200 allegations every year as they are all legally forced to be recorded when reported to the police, 60 of them would be false.
That would give you, as one of the probably 6 million men (in this scenario in the Netherlands) a chance of 60/6000000 to be accused of it, i. e. neglectable.
The 1200 is even about reported, not even recorded
How about unproven false rape accusations? Again women can and have put innocent men away without much evidence other than her word. Men have to produce a mountain of evidence to clear their names.
These cases wouldn't show up on your statistics. In fact it shows that the number of cases that are proven to be false are low.
False rape accusations are more common than you think
Oh I just used the 6 million to specify for adult men. The population itself is 17 million. And there definitely is a lot of serious crime, don't worry about that. You don't require a population of 300 million to have serious crime.
How is one supposed to know the data for crime that there is no data for? You're all about taking courses in statistics, but ask me to provide data that doesn't exist.
Sounds like you need to complete a course in statistics.
It is assumed that the vast majority of rape is never reported, so even the 5% false of actually reported rape means that actually raping someone actually even gives you a small chance of being prosecuted.
And the FBI, as I provided earlier, apparently thinks about 8% of rape allegations in the US is false.
So in a population of 300+ million, that's 8%
@ranger962 Incorrect.
Like I said, 5% of reported allegations of rape (which is reported to the police) is false. That leaves a neglectable chance of ever being falsely accused of rape let alone being prosecuted for it
Sure, there are unreported case, but they are hardly relevant. They have no significant impact on anyone, except for the alleged victims.
They have no legal consequences whatsoever, as they are kept to themselves.
Plus, the entire point of filing a false rape allegation is an attempt at defaming the victim of that false accusation.
How exactly would that work if it is never reported and thus has zero, I repeat zero, legal consequences?
Dude did you even study statistics? Can't figure out stuff they don't report?
Let's talk real logic here. Rape allegations are rarely reported. I assume you know this. Roughly 1/5 goes unreported.
What does that mean? Supposed you're an investigator and a woman told you she didn't report the crime. What is the likelihood that what she said is true - that she didn't report the crime? You can calculate that.
Expanding that math, you have an 8% chance of a reported incident is false based on the paperwork. That means potentially if a person get reported once a year then he probably get investigated in 12 years if not prosecuted.
Now, here is some math for you to calculate. Assuming you have been reported for an unrelated crime. What is the likelihood of a 2nd report on you get recorded merely based on the fact that you have been reported before?
So men have a serious problem receiving bias. The poorer the man, the more likely he will loose merely because he can afford to fight back.
Here is another piece of data for you to find. What is the percentage of men failed to graduate and live in poverty?
is this a joke? you’re complaining that women are opening up about their experiences of sexual assault
I see you didn't actually read the post xD
You can't reason with stupid dude, don't waste your time.
What does that picture have to do with me too. I hate Incel cuck Men
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