Feminism is in the past, nowadays we need equalism. Woman have the same rights as men and the same possibilities. But today's feminism is feminacism, because it created such terms as menspreading for example which is absurd. And they want more jobs in offices but not in the building industrie for example. They talk about women being raped but if a man is being raped it is funny and no problem with that. They talk about women being homeless but the other 80% of homeless man remains unmentioned. I am not hating women I am just saying we need to think and not just hate on the other sex.
If feminism is about equality why would they completely bash men as if we are all placed into the same category with the same mindset because we were born with a pair of testicles and a dick? Should I state all women are the same then? Does not make sense, right? I've seen girls who are feminists bash other women as well who are there so-called "friends". Should men create a new term called menism as this new movement for minority males in North America and Europe?
I think it's getting out of hand with the "ism-based" ideologies we use today. I support women with wanting to break down doors and pave their own way, women should get the same pay as men and not have social stigmas attached to them. Women should be valued and respected in the work place and outside the work place. This is coming from a guy who does not believe in feminism but will still respect women to be treated fairly and if someone cannot comprehend that simple answer, then I don't know what else to say.
I dislike feminism because I think it's a sham. Girls have already surpassed guys in so many ways.
They are admitted to college at higher rates, they graduate at higher rates, and they make more money than guys in their 20s. Girls comprise the vast majority of college students, yet colleges still have women's centers, special programs, and dedicated scholarships for women. Meanwhile, guys have higher rates of suicide, depression, and incarceration. Yet nobody seems to care about whether guys live or die.
Well basically because of double standards. And secondly, when you call a hard working man pig by saying all men are pigs and all. Thirdly, most of these feminist girls I know are some of the saddest lot. They claim to want equality but all they want is no rules, no nothing to stop them including when they break the law which is implemented on both genders like cutting in line to get ahead, not lifting their own weight just after giving a lecture on how women are superior to men and destroying relationships between men and women by trying to poison their other female friends as well. List is in exhaustive. Seen many fakers to be honest
It's not feminism many men dislike, the idea of equality of opportunity, voting rights, income, etc are ideas which I wholeheartedly support and most other men do too, but the issue is modern feminism, like whinging over the term "mansize tissues" 🤦♂️ this modern form of feminism is whats pathetic, there are girls in the third world that don't have access to education, rape and sexual assault is a big issue, domestic violence (perpetrators both men and women), but they're complaining about the fact a box of tissues has "mansize" written on them 🤨🤯 that's the issue
Because feminism became a movement for hating men and degrading their masculinity to make them more woman than man. The movement has become unequal. It has made women become miserable and move away from their nature, which conceive a child and be a loving wife. The movement has made women become more masculine, which is totally unattractive to men. No man with a right mind want a woman that sleeps around or aborts. Only guys with no foundation or principles would want to date a woman and or follow feminism.
There are too many Male hating extremists in the feminism community but they are not actually feminists since they are not helping for gender equality. They are what is known as feminazi since all they do is attack men and shout saying women are the superior gender and males/men/Cis-males are horrible garbage of a gender and sometimes attack them physically or verbally, in the same way a nazi would say a the germans are the superior race, and that the jews are garbage and attack them. Sadly the feminazis stick out more compared to the good the feminism community does so the feminazi community tends to be the descriptor for the feminism community
I will widen this out a bit - I am all for egalitarianism so technically support all groups but I will not condone any group that wants to overtake another group especially at expense of other group. I am a "We all adhere to a minimum acceptable standard for all and our goal is to raise that minimum standard" So whether you are a white male or a black woman, I don't care I will hold you to same standards.
Because modern feminism doesn't Express equality. But equity. And equity is dangerous to society. Also most women don't agree on what feminism means. Most feminists don't agree with what it means. So an ideology that can say it's for equality but really is for other things, like applauding when women harm men. Rubs people the wrong way
I’m a woman that hates feminism—it’s not just the guys lol. Feminism stopped being about equality ages ago and became an ideology that doesn’t care about men’s issues and only cares about putting women at the top of the world while simultaneously bringing down men and antagonizing them for made-up microaggressions.
You summed it up! I've got nothing to add right there. A Femenist once tried to disqualify me as an egalitarian for beeing against modern feminism. After claiming that there is no sexism against men and that sexual harassment only comes from men. They then went on claiming that there is no harassment against gay men and that me even arguing with them makes me a sexist mansplainer.
May I ask you this: Why say you hate feminism, when you can just say you hate what many people CLAIM to be feminism? Feminism isn’t supposed to be attacking men, it’s simply about equal rights. Yes, many “feminists” use feminism as a form of shaming and bullying men, but the truth is those aren’t really feminists. I’m a true feminist, meaning I understand the struggles women go through, and I believe women should be treated equally as men. I don’t believe men should be attacked for liking sex or man spreading, because it’s stupid to shame men for that. Women like sex too, we just want to be respected in the act. That’s all feminism is.
@curiousgeorgia15 Every person who claims to be feminist I ever met claimed to be a true feminist. Everybody defines feminism differently. The word is a composition from latin femina ("Women") and -ism ("taking side with") meaning litteraly "Taking side with women" witch has originally nothing to do with equallity of sexes. If you don't want to be confused with the people we critizise for their ideas and actions, then call yourself egalitarian or humanist or something else. Modern day feminism, at least the part that makes the news and that makes so many people upset, is not about equality but about putting women on the top of the world. Third wave feminists sometimes go as far as to call trans men "traitors for changing sex to escape the opression of patriarchy". And yes, those people are real feminists by the definition of the word, as they are litteraly "taking side with women". I agree with the ideas of classical feminism. Ten years ago, I would have proudly called myself a feminist. But modern feminism is no longer about equality. Those self-proclaimed feminists who scream the loudest are no longer advocating for equal rights, and that is where the majority of the antipathy towards feminism comes from.
Confusion between feminism and feminazi. That's probably why.
There's a lot of women that claim themselves to be feminism but in reality, they're feminazi who want to push down men so they're the superior and the men should be the slaves. Sort of revenge of what other men have done in the past.
I'm a woman and I can barely stand feminists. Or I should say the certain kind of feminist that give the rest a bad name. I know... I know "not ALL feminists"... but there are enough to ruin it for the rest of us.
I think sometimes its just too radical. I am all for equallity but I dont want to get the job since I am a girl and they had to. I want the job since I am good enough as a person. I mean I just want to be me.
@Anonymous No, it's basically the same - their arguments and actions are virtually the same. The feminazies are just angrier and louder when they whine...
@Inbox No dude, it's not even close - their arguments and actions are completely different Feminists are for gender equality, and lots of men are feminists too, because they know that original feminists don't hate men. Feminazis don't support equality, they are female supremacists, and misandrists (they hate men, and no man would ever support them).
@Inbox I support equality of genders, I don't support so called "gender roles". I believe that both males and females should work any job they like, and to be payed according to their effort, not according to their gender. I'm against sexism, not just the patriarchal one, but also against feminazi sexism against men. Unlike feminazis, I know that men can be raped too... and I know that looking at a woman you like is not "rape".
I don't hate Feminism, I'm your original Feminist, what I hate is that women don't want equality they want SUPERIORITY! They want their cake and to eat it too. They want all the luxuries of equality when it suits them, but also the traditional aspects of having their dinners paid for when it doesn't suit them.
Because feminism has changed. It started out noble - giving women equal rights - but now that those goals are accomplished, they've become increasingly more radical, leftist and man hating. They're more about controlling men and destroying them than lifting women up
Most guys don’t hate feminism itself, they hate what it has become. Initially feminism was very much needed because there was a time when women truly did not have equal rights. Nowadays although feminism does still address important issues, there is also an overwhelmingly large group of people that use the movement as a way to victimize men and complain about issues that aren’t really there. The word feminism has basically lost all meaning.
My guess is social media is the driving force behind this. The few people who are genuinely opposed to paying women equally try to bury feminism in a whole army of straw man versions of feminism that are attacked ruthlessly by sexually frustrated men.
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Feminism is in the past, nowadays we need equalism. Woman have the same rights as men and the same possibilities. But today's feminism is feminacism, because it created such terms as menspreading for example which is absurd. And they want more jobs in offices but not in the building industrie for example. They talk about women being raped but if a man is being raped it is funny and no problem with that. They talk about women being homeless but the other 80% of homeless man remains unmentioned. I am not hating women I am just saying we need to think and not just hate on the other sex.
If feminism is about equality why would they completely bash men as if we are all placed into the same category with the same mindset because we were born with a pair of testicles and a dick? Should I state all women are the same then? Does not make sense, right? I've seen girls who are feminists bash other women as well who are there so-called "friends". Should men create a new term called menism as this new movement for minority males in North America and Europe?
I think it's getting out of hand with the "ism-based" ideologies we use today. I support women with wanting to break down doors and pave their own way, women should get the same pay as men and not have social stigmas attached to them. Women should be valued and respected in the work place and outside the work place. This is coming from a guy who does not believe in feminism but will still respect women to be treated fairly and if someone cannot comprehend that simple answer, then I don't know what else to say.
I dislike feminism because I think it's a sham. Girls have already surpassed guys in so many ways.
They are admitted to college at higher rates, they graduate at higher rates, and they make more money than guys in their 20s. Girls comprise the vast majority of college students, yet colleges still have women's centers, special programs, and dedicated scholarships for women. Meanwhile, guys have higher rates of suicide, depression, and incarceration. Yet nobody seems to care about whether guys live or die.
Well basically because of double standards. And secondly, when you call a hard working man pig by saying all men are pigs and all. Thirdly, most of these feminist girls I know are some of the saddest lot. They claim to want equality but all they want is no rules, no nothing to stop them including when they break the law which is implemented on both genders like cutting in line to get ahead, not lifting their own weight just after giving a lecture on how women are superior to men and destroying relationships between men and women by trying to poison their other female friends as well. List is in exhaustive. Seen many fakers to be honest
Feminism is hypocrite bullshit and man hating
I think it's because feminism is creating a gap between both genders and not making them equal in harmony.
It's not feminism many men dislike, the idea of equality of opportunity, voting rights, income, etc are ideas which I wholeheartedly support and most other men do too, but the issue is modern feminism, like whinging over the term "mansize tissues" 🤦♂️ this modern form of feminism is whats pathetic, there are girls in the third world that don't have access to education, rape and sexual assault is a big issue, domestic violence (perpetrators both men and women), but they're complaining about the fact a box of tissues has "mansize" written on them 🤨🤯 that's the issue
Because feminism became a movement for hating men and degrading their masculinity to make them more woman than man. The movement has become unequal. It has made women become miserable and move away from their nature, which conceive a child and be a loving wife. The movement has made women become more masculine, which is totally unattractive to men. No man with a right mind want a woman that sleeps around or aborts. Only guys with no foundation or principles would want to date a woman and or follow feminism.
There are too many Male hating extremists in the feminism community but they are not actually feminists since they are not helping for gender equality.
They are what is known as feminazi since all they do is attack men and shout saying women are the superior gender and males/men/Cis-males are horrible garbage of a gender and sometimes attack them physically or verbally, in the same way a nazi would say a the germans are the superior race, and that the jews are garbage and attack them.
Sadly the feminazis stick out more compared to the good the feminism community does so the feminazi community tends to be the descriptor for the feminism community
I will widen this out a bit - I am all for egalitarianism so technically support all groups but I will not condone any group that wants to overtake another group especially at expense of other group. I am a "We all adhere to a minimum acceptable standard for all and our goal is to raise that minimum standard"
So whether you are a white male or a black woman, I don't care I will hold you to same standards.
Because modern feminism doesn't Express equality. But equity. And equity is dangerous to society. Also most women don't agree on what feminism means. Most feminists don't agree with what it means. So an ideology that can say it's for equality but really is for other things, like applauding when women harm men. Rubs people the wrong way
I’m a woman that hates feminism—it’s not just the guys lol. Feminism stopped being about equality ages ago and became an ideology that doesn’t care about men’s issues and only cares about putting women at the top of the world while simultaneously bringing down men and antagonizing them for made-up microaggressions.
You summed it up! I've got nothing to add right there.
A Femenist once tried to disqualify me as an egalitarian for beeing against modern feminism. After claiming that there is no sexism against men and that sexual harassment only comes from men. They then went on claiming that there is no harassment against gay men and that me even arguing with them makes me a sexist mansplainer.
May I ask you this: Why say you hate feminism, when you can just say you hate what many people CLAIM to be feminism? Feminism isn’t supposed to be attacking men, it’s simply about equal rights. Yes, many “feminists” use feminism as a form of shaming and bullying men, but the truth is those aren’t really feminists. I’m a true feminist, meaning I understand the struggles women go through, and I believe women should be treated equally as men. I don’t believe men should be attacked for liking sex or man spreading, because it’s stupid to shame men for that. Women like sex too, we just want to be respected in the act. That’s all feminism is.
@curiousgeorgia15 Every person who claims to be feminist I ever met claimed to be a true feminist. Everybody defines feminism differently.
The word is a composition from latin femina ("Women") and -ism ("taking side with") meaning litteraly "Taking side with women" witch has originally nothing to do with equallity of sexes. If you don't want to be confused with the people we critizise for their ideas and actions, then call yourself egalitarian or humanist or something else.
Modern day feminism, at least the part that makes the news and that makes so many people upset, is not about equality but about putting women on the top of the world.
Third wave feminists sometimes go as far as to call trans men "traitors for changing sex to escape the opression of patriarchy". And yes, those people are real feminists by the definition of the word, as they are litteraly "taking side with women".
I agree with the ideas of classical feminism. Ten years ago, I would have proudly called myself a feminist. But modern feminism is no longer about equality. Those self-proclaimed feminists who scream the loudest are no longer advocating for equal rights, and that is where the majority of the antipathy towards feminism comes from.
Confusion between feminism and feminazi. That's probably why.
There's a lot of women that claim themselves to be feminism but in reality, they're feminazi who want to push down men so they're the superior and the men should be the slaves. Sort of revenge of what other men have done in the past.
I'm a woman and I can barely stand feminists. Or I should say the certain kind of feminist that give the rest a bad name. I know... I know "not ALL feminists"... but there are enough to ruin it for the rest of us.
I think sometimes its just too radical.
I am all for equallity but I dont want to get the job since I am a girl and they had to. I want the job since I am good enough as a person.
I mean I just want to be me.
That's the puzzle. It seems to me that hiring without knowledge of gender would be more fair, but may not change the status quo as quickly.
Selective hiring can balance things out faster, but is discrimination based on gender and this gets people angry about gender groups. A shove.
D) Because many of them can't tell the difference between feminism and femi-nazism.
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/img/3858360
Smart men know that fat, old and ugly bitches who complain about nonsense are not feminists, they are femi-nazis (typically rich and privileged hags).
@Anonymous No, it's basically the same - their arguments and actions are virtually the same. The feminazies are just angrier and louder when they whine...
@Inbox No dude, it's not even close - their arguments and actions are completely different
Feminists are for gender equality, and lots of men are feminists too, because they know that original feminists don't hate men.
Feminazis don't support equality, they are female supremacists, and misandrists (they hate men, and no man would ever support them).
Why don't you tell me what your beliefs and what you support are in this supposively real Feminist crusade?
@Inbox I support equality of genders, I don't support so called "gender roles". I believe that both males and females should work any job they like, and to be payed according to their effort, not according to their gender.
I'm against sexism, not just the patriarchal one, but also against feminazi sexism against men. Unlike feminazis, I know that men can be raped too... and I know that looking at a woman you like is not "rape".
I don't hate Feminism, I'm your original Feminist, what I hate is that women don't want equality they want SUPERIORITY! They want their cake and to eat it too. They want all the luxuries of equality when it suits them, but also the traditional aspects of having their dinners paid for when it doesn't suit them.
Because feminism has changed. It started out noble - giving women equal rights - but now that those goals are accomplished, they've become increasingly more radical, leftist and man hating. They're more about controlling men and destroying them than lifting women up
Most guys don’t hate feminism itself, they hate what it has become. Initially feminism was very much needed because there was a time when women truly did not have equal rights. Nowadays although feminism does still address important issues, there is also an overwhelmingly large group of people that use the movement as a way to victimize men and complain about issues that aren’t really there. The word feminism has basically lost all meaning.
My guess is social media is the driving force behind this. The few people who are genuinely opposed to paying women equally try to bury feminism in a whole army of straw man versions of feminism that are attacked ruthlessly by sexually frustrated men.