Black people without question. That said there is justified and unjustified usage. Which both most often come from black people. When a guy uses that card and it's not valid it makes me cringe, because there are valid uses for it.
Like it's hard for others to appreciate that for most black people, baseline they have to prove through their actions that they're not a criminal, have integrity, not going to make things about race (even if the topic is about race), not going to flip out, not aggressive, basically prove they are not from the project's and just cool. And that is a baseline set point. Rather than having a clean slate.
It's like a guy trying to date a girl whi had an abusive ex or thinks "all guys are players". Baseline that guy more or less has to prove he's not any of those negatives to the girl before she accepts him. It's the same situations for most black people with race. While white people have their own version of that as well as women and other races. It's nowhere near as prevalent.
I don't consider pointing out a negative reality is quite the same as playing the victim card. In my view playing the victim card is making yourself out to be the victim in situations when you are not in that given situation. But saying "hey, my coworkers don't trust me to do my job because they think I'm incompetent mostly because I'm black". That's real and it's not even making yourself out to be a victim so much as just saying that's something you're currently dealing with. Making yourself to be a victim in that would be saying "Why do I ALWAYS work with people who think I'm stupid? EVERYONE treats me this way! I can NEVER get away from it". That's a victim.
I'd say Gays and Feminists. Butter could cut through the skins of the former and diamonds could be broken with the skulls of the latter! Common sense eludes both sets of people and neither set espouses personal responsibility or respect or consideration for others!
"consideration for others" is certainly lacking in the Bible thumping snowflakes who complain about not being able to discriminate against people who are LGBT.
It's funny because on this website a lot of people claim it's: Women People of Colour Religious minorities
But the people who I've seen complaining the most are the white men of the website.
And in my day-to-day I haven't seen anyone- white, black, brown or any other race, woman or man, anyone of any religion or non-religion play the victim. Everyone just gets on with it.
Black women not tipping people (from experience) by far the most, more than 4× as likely, in fact, then complaining that they were somehow racist when they treated them just like anyone else. They tell short guys to kill themselves and get mad because men don't want to date them, but if one guy, especially if he's white, says one word on the matter, they immediately start calling him a racist incel, nazi, KKK member, privileged white boy, etc etc. When they receive negative comments for saying this, they play the victim and claim that they're being treated that way because they're black, when in reality, people dislike them because of how they're acting.
You're doing it right now, actually, you twist my words to make it seem like I'm the bad guy, I said black women do it the most, which is undeniable, I didn't say they're all like that.
You're literally saying I'm trying to twist things on you. I'm asking you a question. And now I know you're not stereotyping the whole community- that's cool.
I don't wanna turn you into the bad guy- I don't even know you, why would I demonise someone who is just complaining?
It's not so much complaining as it is straightening things out, my point is that a lot of these people in a nutshell go out of their way to piss people off only to cry about it when they succeed.
Well, based on my personal experiences- I disagree. I've seen a number of people falsely call out racism, not just black people or even people of colour for matter, but I've seen more people call out racism when it's genuinely happening.
I mean on this website, I saw more grown-ass men who probably wouldn't have even watched "The Little Mermaid" complain about Ariel being a "black girl" even though they aren't the primary audience for the movie. It's little kids! And I don't see the kids, the primary audience for this movie, complaining!
That's because the kids feel that they can't speak their own opinion because people won't listen to them. Plus, you don't hear me playing the race card when black women don't tip or tip very little, because it's more so an issue of them choosing to behave like dickheads to people than it is them not liking me personally because I'm white.
Or maybe it's because kids don't care about race? Maybe they don't see colour and they just see people?
When I was a little kid, I didn't give a shit about the colour of my favourite characters I identified with them because of who they were on the inside, not their skin colour. I'm not a white dude who is super stronger, but I was always able to and still can identify with Peter Parker.
It never bothered 4-year-old me Peter Parker was a white guy, and to this day, it still doesn't! Kids see a character not a coloured character.
Blacks, Whites, Asians, Hispanics and so on are very different in their culture, the way they act, talk, and so on. It's naive to think the only difference is skin color
We're different in many ways. Why don't we celebrate those differences? But simultaneously we're similar.
Take me and my best friend for example. I'm brown. She's white. Yet we're both 3rd generation immigrants. We're both kinda socially awkward. We both love Marvel. We both have an interest in STEM, yet have a creative passion at the same time. And I could go on.
And then we have our differences. Different styles in dressing. We both don't wear makeup like at all, but if we were going to I'd prefer a minimum amount, whereas she would like something expressing her artsy flare. She's more of an outdoorsy person than me. I'm better with technology than she is.
But we don't dislike each other because of our differences. In fact, our differences are pretty awesome, like our similarities.
We're not completely the same, but at the end of the day, we're all human beings so we all deserve an equal amount of respect.
They need to not show disrespect to other people, and assist them when possible. For instance, when I was at the airsoft arena, a guys gun needed to be recharged, so he didn't have a gun for a round, I dual wield pistols, but since we were playing TTT, it didn't make much of a difference as I'm realistically only going to fire a few rounds in the game, so I let him use one of my pistols while his gun charged.
There are people of all races and genders who do this. But some groups are known for it more than others. I think women in general do this more often. I don't mean to attack the entirety of the female population, it's based on observation.
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I'd say white men. Because they are crying that racist acts are not racist because they aren't affected by it. Police brutality doesn't truly affect them (case in point, the majority of gun yielding terrorist that shot up schools and churches who walked out with the gun in there hands have been arrested peacefully, or taken to Burger King for a burger). A lot claim white genocide, a completely made up notion to continue to back the hate groups of white supremacy, white nationalist, and white power. They complain about immigrants taking there lands and jobs, and siphoning off the government, when their own people are the ones benefiting most from the free handouts from the government, including the business that they own that are doing fine, but will get a bailout because the government that is run by mostly all old white men is crumbling because they don't know how to lead, or manage their own money. All in all, there is no bigger group of victim card players than white men.
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Oh, and let's not forget. These same white men. Will do something stupid, fuck up, and somehow blame another group for there fuck ups. They love to blame liberals for there own fuck ups. It's actually funny to watch the circus unfold
Leftists, because they use it for themselves and on behalf of others. And they all do it. Whereas not all black women play the victim card. Some aren’t that way.
It's not a question of race, sex or orientation. It's a question of ideology.. generally speaking, mild conservatives are the least likely and the likelihood goes up the further away they get from that point (in either direction).
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Women by far. Studies have shown that even when a woman is clearly at fault in a traffic accident, like obvious to everyone it's her fault, women are far more likely than men to try to blame someone else.
Black women are masters of this. Anything that goes wrong, blame it on the white man. Asian women dont do this, neither do Hispanic women. Its specifically black women. Black men don't even do it as often as the women do.
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