Yes, but only because he got into trouble for bullying me. But until then, he did not say anything. Even when he apologised it was obvious that it was only for show. Then when I showed my grudge against him (basically treated him like he treated me), he was like "but I apologised to you, you ungrateful cunt".
There was a boy that picked on me in elementary school. He made me cry all the time. He eventually transferred to the same middle school I was at. I guess he remembered me because he kept calling mu name as I was walking down the hall. I just ignore him. I don't know what he wanted. Afterwards, things were just normal between us.
I was a bully before. When i got to college, the person I used to bully showed up in class and I immediately remembered all the stuff I did to her and made me feel disgusted of myself for the entire class. Right after that I waited for her outside and just asked an apology right away. She said she didn't expect me to remember what I did because we were still kids. Long story short, she forgave me and we had lunch together.
One did - I think she became a Christian and was sorry for how she treated me - others did not apologize but began inviting me to parties as if we were friends. I don't fault people for things they did when they were ignorant children.
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I never got a apology from my bully but i know this was wrong but i went off on my bully from School and said some choice words yes i got bullied in both Middle School and High School so life sucked the bullies in Middle School did all kind of things to me i had to put a lock on my locker than when i was out sick they put glue over the key hole to the lock of my locker in School. I was stabbed with a compass yes the list went on and no one cared.
I didn't have a high school bully. The people that I knew that were arrogant still are. I had a grade school bully but I simply ignored her. Her home life was terrible so I now know why she was terrible.
Nope I don’t think so. I didn’t get bullied per se but I went to an all girls school and there was often teasing and bitchiness. As a kid I was really confident and shrugged it off as “they’re jealous of my beauty.” At least that’s what all my family and relatives said.
It's nice when a bully apologizes, but it's very common, for bullies to have little memory of how they mistreated others, after being out of school for a few years.
As long as it's real then yes. If it's one of those ''I'm sorry'' apologies only after they got beaten by their victim (after getting sick of it) or because they don't want to get suspended then it doesn't count. Bullies are mainly cowards.
Yes. It was part of his retribution. Two of my crew beat him up and his apologizing was a condition of not their permanently disabling his nuts. He never looked at me wrong again. by the way Better know where the security cams are.
That'd kinda nice. Me nah i just made them say sorry.
Broke there windows, stole there weed from there lockers, and all sorts of stuff back. They never figured it out. Until the last day of school were i sent everyone of them a letter lol.
Would sorry fix all the bad that was done? Would sorry give back all that was lost? I don't think so, but pondering on the past won't either. Just move on, leave the past where it should be and learn what you need to from it
I've ran into multiple people from high school who said I'd bullied them but I don't know I literally barely remember them. I think people just take the tiniest thing to heart and blow it out of proportion like chill tf out
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I encountered most bullying during elementary and middle school. I watched people bully others too. Teachers usually wouldn’t care or do anything about it. I remember we couldn’t even sit where we wanted. There were a few attempts at me in high school but I would brush it off or complain. This girl tried to make me love but someone else told her to sit elsewhere. They usually don’t apologize but may become nicer to you over time. 🤷🏻♀️
One of them did. It was funny. He had to REMIND me just who he was. That's how little he meant to me. Forgive him? Why not? He obviously meant less to me than a lot of other things that I did bother to remember.
Yup she used to hang out with these other girls and i was new at the time the would throw stuff at my head in class then she got into weed and we got high together all the time until we dropped out
Indeed. They seemed to have selective memories. On fb, they write about all the good times they had with their friends (that part they do remember so well) but nothing about the times they were unfair and treated others poorly... lol
Had a middle school bully. Although I blocked them so they can't reach out to me. This was 8 years ago, I do not know if they tried anything ever since.
Yeah, I remember changing school for the last 2 years of high school and meeting up with a few of the main bullies I had from high school and they all did apologise, well.. kinda.
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Yes, but only because he got into trouble for bullying me. But until then, he did not say anything. Even when he apologised it was obvious that it was only for show. Then when I showed my grudge against him (basically treated him like he treated me), he was like "but I apologised to you, you ungrateful cunt".
There was a boy that picked on me in elementary school. He made me cry all the time. He eventually transferred to the same middle school I was at. I guess he remembered me because he kept calling mu name as I was walking down the hall. I just ignore him. I don't know what he wanted. Afterwards, things were just normal between us.
I was a bully before. When i got to college, the person I used to bully showed up in class and I immediately remembered all the stuff I did to her and made me feel disgusted of myself for the entire class. Right after that I waited for her outside and just asked an apology right away. She said she didn't expect me to remember what I did because we were still kids. Long story short, she forgave me and we had lunch together.
One did - I think she became a Christian and was sorry for how she treated me - others did not apologize but began inviting me to parties as if we were friends. I don't fault people for things they did when they were ignorant children.
You deserved to be bullied
I never got a apology from my bully but i know this was wrong
but i went off on my bully from School and said some choice words
yes i got bullied in both Middle School and High School so life sucked
the bullies in Middle School did all kind of things to me i had to put a
lock on my locker than when i was out sick they put glue over the key hole
to the lock of my locker in School. I was stabbed with a compass yes the
list went on and no one cared.
I'm sorry this happened to you
I didn't have a high school bully. The people that I knew that were arrogant still are. I had a grade school bully but I simply ignored her. Her home life was terrible so I now know why she was terrible.
Nope I don’t think so. I didn’t get bullied per se but I went to an all girls school and there was often teasing and bitchiness. As a kid I was really confident and shrugged it off as “they’re jealous of my beauty.” At least that’s what all my family and relatives said.
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It's nice when a bully apologizes, but it's very common, for bullies to have little memory of how they mistreated others, after being out of school for a few years.
As long as it's real then yes. If it's one of those ''I'm sorry'' apologies only after they got beaten by their victim (after getting sick of it) or because they don't want to get suspended then it doesn't count. Bullies are mainly cowards.
@Vesuvius87 : I agree with your comment, and yes, bullies are cowards.
Well that was sweet. I’d ignore it too tho haha
I had worse bullying experiences in middle school, they never apologized but added me on social media years after when I graduated HS.
I blocked them ASAP.. But yeah, I mean they acknowledged their behavior but a little too late for that.
Yes. It was part of his retribution. Two of my crew beat him up and his apologizing was a condition of not their permanently disabling his nuts. He never looked at me wrong again. by the way Better know where the security cams are.
That'd kinda nice. Me nah i just made them say sorry.
Broke there windows, stole there weed from there lockers, and all sorts of stuff back. They never figured it out.
Until the last day of school were i sent everyone of them a letter lol.
Would sorry fix all the bad that was done? Would sorry give back all that was lost? I don't think so, but pondering on the past won't either. Just move on, leave the past where it should be and learn what you need to from it
I've ran into multiple people from high school who said I'd bullied them but I don't know I literally barely remember them. I think people just take the tiniest thing to heart and blow it out of proportion like chill tf out
I encountered most bullying during elementary and middle school. I watched people bully others too. Teachers usually wouldn’t care or do anything about it. I remember we couldn’t even sit where we wanted. There were a few attempts at me in high school but I would brush it off or complain. This girl tried to make me love but someone else told her to sit elsewhere. They usually don’t apologize but may become nicer to you over time. 🤷🏻♀️
One of them did. It was funny. He had to REMIND me just who he was. That's how little he meant to me. Forgive him? Why not? He obviously meant less to me than a lot of other things that I did bother to remember.
Yup she used to hang out with these other girls and i was new at the time the would throw stuff at my head in class then she got into weed and we got high together all the time until we dropped out
My middle school bully's haven't said sorry if they did I would forgive them as a Christan but I wouldn't have anything to do with them.
They never do because most of the times they forgot the shit they used to do. That's why payback sometimes is so worth it LOL
Indeed. They seemed to have selective memories. On fb, they write about all the good times they had with their friends (that part they do remember so well) but nothing about the times they were unfair and treated others poorly... lol
And much worse, they are capable of treating people they ruined like old buddies! All for appearances!
Like the fakest people in the world.
Had a middle school bully. Although I blocked them so they can't reach out to me. This was 8 years ago, I do not know if they tried anything ever since.
Yeah, I remember changing school for the last 2 years of high school and meeting up with a few of the main bullies I had from high school and they all did apologise, well.. kinda.