Do you believe that men have the right to hit women in self defense? (Page 2)

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So let's me explain if a women start acting aggressively maybe gets to the point of hitting do you think a man should be legally able to fight back. I see a lot of you shouldn't hit any women under any circumstance which I think is bullshit. Even my mum who has been hit by men even says to me if your in an abusive relationship knock fuck out of her. My opinion is pretty much the same, if you use violence against me I will use violence back just much better since am trained in fighting (MMA)  I also believe that men should be more open about being in abusive relationship with women but unfortunately society tends to label them as weak if they try and get help and abusers when they do fight back. So women do you agree that if a women is being abusive or aggressive, men have the right to fight back and men would you hit a women if they started a fight with you?

morimeme1 · Answer

Everyone has the right to self defense but in most cases the man can easily physically stop or restrain the agressive woman without the need to actually hit her. I do not agree with it if she slapped you and then you kicked the shit out of her for "self defense".

Soteris · Answer

Of course self defense is always self defense but the point of self defense is NOT to respond with equal violence but to DEFEND yourself. This is an important distinction.

Even if someone is hitting you there might be no real threat against yourself at which point hitting back is not the correct answer. We are not trying to start a fight here but to end it. If you feel like there is an injustice then just remember that violence is a criminal offense and take her to court instead.

coachTanthony · Answer

If a woman starts attacking you then YES you have the right to defend yourself.

The problem is most Men are much stronger than women so when they do defend themselves they do it in a way as if the woman was a dude just because some other dude said it was okay to defend yourself against women.

Use minimal force to stop the threat. You don't have to pull a Mike Tyson on her.

GiveitaShance · Answer

I understand the sentiment of self defense and I believe that everyone deserves the right to have self defense no matter the gender, however, you must consider that men are stronger than woman and mot a lot of people will see any fairness to the situation. All i could really say is record the scenario or if you have a buddy with you who can record it to prove that she was the one who struck first.

R_Cakes91 · Answer

Dudes are usually bigger and stronger than women so you probably wouldn’t have to do much to defend yourself. I think guys have the right to defend themselves but not to hurt them beyond means of defense such as something that would send them to the hospital. It also depends on the situation. If she’s coming at you with a kitchen knife, knock her out. If she slapped you across the face, grab her arms or something.

Anonymous · Answer

No never. My sons will never be raised to physically “defend” themselves against females. You may think this is stupid but my boys will not be raised to “defend themselves” against females, cheese and rice. They will be strong enough to walk away from female bs and they will not hit back just because society tells them to. Matter of fact, they will get their asses beat if they even think to raise their hands to a female no matter how basic she is... THAT BEING SAID, will I beat her ass if she steps out of line? I’ll literally kill a bitch if she hurts my male child. She will know her boundaries real quick. 🦂

HuskerCAR2567 · Answer

I would not hit a woman. If she came at me with a knife or some type of weapon. I will defend myself. I would probably grab her hand with the weapon in her hand and take it from her or maybe do a leg sweep. Just something that wouldn't really harm her and protect myself from getting harmed. My Ex wife came at me with a box cutter one time. I still do not know what I did to make her come at me like that. Anyways, I grabbed her wrist and took the box cutter away from her. After that, I left before anything else happened. When I came back from cooling off. She had called the Cops and told them that I threatened her with a box cutter. I looked at her and then the Cops and said: Wow! I showed the Cops my cut on my wrist from the box cutter and they looked for any markings on her. They found none and dismissed the charges. I filed a legal separation after that.

donnny2367764 · Answer

First off.. anonymous MMA fighter... no one is impressed when women hit men... and it sounds like you are referring g o domestic relationships in regards to being one or the other.. I've disagreed with many women in my life and got slapped a few times... but notice the word (slapped, not punched) I certainly had it coming but not always... I never ever throw a punch even if I was drunk or high because my father never taught me to hit a woman... but if you are referring to people outside the house.. like a dyke neighbor, or gangster chick.. those type of people who feel like they're the opposite sex and try look like men then that's something g else... I must say I don't condone cops for fighting those type of females

CubsterShura · Answer

Everyone has the right to resort to that if that's what they need to do to defend themselves. However, it should never be more than how much you really needed to hit that person. So like, a kick or a free punches suppose, if the situation you're in doesn't need more than that, then don't give more unnecessary hits. That's too much, there's always a limit.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Yeah and I agree with your points too, well said.

A lot of men tend to be stronger than women, but some men are stronger than other men and would a smaller, weaker guy get let off the hook if he hit a bigger guy first?

Probably not, so why should women be let off, just because they're physically weaker or is it due to gender, allowing special treatment aka sexism?

hahahmm · Answer

Of course a man has the right to defend himself. If a woman wants to act like a man & get aggressive she should be treated exactly the same as an aggressive male or animal of the same body weight would be treated. Don’t let then use their tits & makeup as a shield.

But also don’t be stupid and stay in a relationship with an aggressive female. Nothing good will come of that.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I have beaten down only one woman in my life: she had viciously (and seriously) attacked me with a stool from behind.
I think that 'violence' in self defense (no matter if woman or man) should be reserved for really severe cases only.
Almost always there are options to avoid a physical fight; we only need to want to see this option.

Diiamondz825 · Answer

Men are a whole lot stranger then women. On the other hand if a women going to be bold enough to strike a guy in his face then she should be preparing to get one back in return.
The only reason a women would hit a guy 9 chances out 10 she knows he’s not gunna hit back. If she knew he would defend his self she wouldn’t even try it

cth96190 · Answer

Hell yes!
If a woman initiates violence with me, she will be on the wrong end of a lifetime of karate training that has a nasty edge that an army veteran can provide.
Women need to learn to keep their hands to themselves. Men do not exist to be punching bags for stupid entitled princesses who lack impulse control.

Anonymous · Answer

Gender doesn’t even come into it. It’s all about justifiable force. You can only use as much as they do to get yourself out of that situation. That surely is the most logical reasoning.
Everyone will be held accountable in these types of situations so make sure you can justify your actions. Most times it’s also in camera so manipulation from either party doesn’t work.

namya · Answer

If she thinks she's a woman and can get away with it then she's wrong. Why you even be abusive towards someone else? Women if u hit a guy for self defense then im all with you but if u hit a guy just to show you are mighty and able to then dont be suprised if he hits you back. Not all guys have high level of tolerance. I've heard of a this case whereby the wife keeps abusing the husband every single day be it physically or emotionally. She would throw things at him, punch him, slap him and all. This goes on for years. So one fine day the husband can't take it anymore so he retaliate back and hit her with the broom that she was using to whack him. She ended up with stitches on her head but the husband won the divorce case because neighbours family and friends knew what a shithead the wife is.

Screenwriter · Answer

Since most men are significantly stronger than most women, I say you can hold off a woman who's acting aggressively toward you, unless she pulls a weapon like a knife or gun. Then all bets are off. If someone's simply flailing arms, a man can pin her down and stop her. If he feels threatened, and she remains out of control, he should call police, file charges and get out of the house.

yeeeeeeeet · Answer

Personally I wouldn't bother fighting anyone I thought was too weak to actually damage me, which is like 98% of people. I have the right to, but it woulnt be fun and itd just waste my energy. If some dumb bitch started hitting me, I probably woulnt even notice

White-American89 · Answer

Absolutely and women should expect to get hit back. Too many women think they get a pussy pass when it comes to assaulting men. Equality means getting punched in the face if you attack a man.

Myk105 · Answer

In my opinion it depends on the situation ny mom hit my dad on the arms and chest and stuff when he cheated which is valid and he's abusive anyways and deserved it, and he was stronger than her so I do not believe he had the right to hit back, depending on who is stronger tbh if they hit a man and it doesn't hurt him then he should just walk away unless she keeps trying then restrict her or call police

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